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Text Chapter 093 Evaluation of Xiaoli (Part 2)

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    It's a good thing not to be too competitive.  { Competitiveness refers to a psychological tendency in which a person is not satisfied with the status quo, strives to surpass himself and others, and strives for greater success.  People with a strong competitive spirit will always have a spirit of refusing to admit defeat, love to compare with others, have a sense of competition, do not like losing, only like winning, and a strong self-tendency is often unbearable.  People who are overly competitive can sometimes be very arrogant, and may also be narrow-minded and difficult to get along with or integrate into teamwork.  Modern society is an open and cooperative society. Learning to cooperate is an important condition for measuring whether a person can adapt to society and gain a foothold in society. It is also an essential quality for personal development and success.  ?Obviously, someone who is too competitive may not actually be a good teammate.  Everyone has the desire to win, but sometimes you have to restrain your competitiveness because you have to leave a little dignity to others.  Everyone has self-esteem, and everyone has a competitive spirit. If you want to maintain a relationship, you should always pay attention to the other person's self-esteem, because to pay attention to the other person's self-esteem, you must suppress your own competitive spirit and fulfill the other person's competitive spirit.  People who are competitive have a mentality that they will feel inferior after losing.  Being competitive has both advantages and disadvantages. Being competitive is a double-edged sword, and sometimes its shortcomings are exposed. For example, if you have to compare with others in all aspects, you may lead people astray.  These are some of the negative aspects of being too competitive, but there are also many benefits to being too competitive.  First of all, this is a person¡¯s motivation and fighting spirit. Obviously, this will make people continue to make progress.  This is a competitive spirit, which will make people continue to make breakthroughs, which is actually worthy of praise.  It¡¯s just a matter of Xiaoli.  It does seem a bit embarrassing now, because he is not too competitive, he has no competitive spirit at all, and this seems to be the big trouble.  To put it nicely, this means that one is easily contented with the situation; to put it more unpleasantly, it means that one has no fighting spirit and is a coward.  If a person has no competitive spirit at all, then it is very likely that he will be the so-called type that cannot support the wall; although he may seem cheerful and friendly, it is actually difficult for this person to be in some situations.  Achievements in things.  Basically, he is a typical example of dawdling.  There is no intention of fighting for strong victory, saying that the unpleasant point is to dare to fight or pursue; it doesn't matter what to say, it is actually a kind of escape.  "Actually, I think that whether a child is competitive or not is not a criterion used to judge whether a child is good or bad. In today's highly competitive and utilitarian society, the criterion for judging a person is often whether he has accomplished something and how much he can achieve.  Achievements. However, this is not the only criterion. Everyone has unlimited potential and has the ability to realize himself. When people pursue a certain ideal, they will move towards their ideal.  "Move forward." Weida said dryly, feeling that he was still under a lot of pressure.  Angela didn¡¯t seem to hear this and continued to glare at Weida with her big beautiful eyes; it was obvious that Weida had annoyed Angela now, the hateful culprit.  "What we have to do now is not actually to make plans for children that meet adult standards. Think about it, Xiaoli has so much leadership and a sense of responsibility. This lack of competitiveness is actually nonsense. And there is another  The situation is that there is no one or one thing that can inspire Xiao Li's competitive spirit," Weida continued to explain.  He felt that what he said actually made sense.  Angela still didn¡¯t speak, she needed to think through these things; although what Weida said seemed to make some sense, it didn¡¯t seem to be that easy to accept.  "You can tell just by looking at me. I actually seem to be in a very peaceful state. Many people think that I may not be competitive at all. But that's not the case at all. I am lonely as a master; in what I do  They are all the best in the industry, so it is difficult to inspire my fighting spirit." Wei Da appeared and gave his own explanation. He felt that this was actually the most convincing person, because he seemed to be a non-competitive person, "But look at it.  My current results are also very good. It¡¯s not that we are not competitive, it¡¯s just that there is nothing worthy of our efforts.¡± ¡°I¡¯m going to kill you, you damn bastard!¡± Angela looked at Weida deeply.  , and then suddenly broke out; he threw himself on Weida, pinched Weida's neck and pushed him down on the sofa. It seemed that he was treating a class enemy, because the last words of Weida seemed to be getting more and more complex.  Dark.  "Dad and mom are fighting, they are playing games." The little guys came out and looked at their dad and mom who were fighting on the sofa. The little guys didn't pay attention; they also often fight, including with??Pooh and the others, so there is no need to care about these things now. These things are what they often do and are accustomed to them; so continue to play games and let dad and mom play games.  Weida pretended to stick out his tongue, looking like he was pinched by Angela and couldn't breathe.  And Angela will not pay attention to Weida's grimace now and shakes Weida's head. She really loves and hates this hateful guy. He is a hateful bastard!  "Hey, you two are thirty years old, and you are still playing games. As soon as I came back, I heard Xiaoli and the others snitching, saying that you were fighting." Wei Guanghui, who had just returned from the ranch, laughed.  The general looked at Wei Da and the others who were having fun and said jokingly to the two of them.  ¡°Dad, come and see what Da has done, he is a hateful bastard!¡± Angela felt aggrieved and said while holding Xiaoli¡¯s performance report.  "I can speak English, but I can't read. My English seems not to be very standard. They all say that Abilene or Texas has a heavy accent." Wei Guanghui didn't care, he was telling the truth;  My English proficiency is actually quite good, at least I have no problem communicating at all.  "Dad, the kindergarten teacher said that Ryan is not competitive at all!" Angela also reacted now and explained; this matter must be taken seriously, and the hateful bastard needs to pay the price.  Weida felt that what he needed to do now was to run away quickly, which was actually running away; but it seemed inappropriate now. In fact, he just wanted to be comfortable at home and only wore a pair of slippers.  The most important thing is that I have nothing on me, even if I don¡¯t have a change of clothes, I don¡¯t have any bank cards, credit cards, checkbooks or car keys at hand, not even my phone.  The atmosphere around him was very cold, and Wei Da, who was sitting on the sofa, lowered his head; now he had to undergo three interrogations, and he knew it now. Even if he was so eloquent, it would probably be difficult for him to pass it easily.  Overcoming this difficulty.  Now three knives-like eyes were looking at him up and down. He was like a piece of fat pork on a chopping board, ready to be slaughtered.  "Dad made a mistake again. You need to stand by the wall and reflect. Tell me what mistakes you made. Don't be so naughty again." The children who were a little thirsty after playing ran back again, but now they were talking  If you are thirsty, you can drink juice later. Now the little ones have discovered an interesting thing, which is very fun.  Looking at the serious-looking Xiao Li, Weida opened his mouth; this scene was very familiar, it was what he would say when the children made mistakes in the past.  But now, the children are also very discerning; as soon as they see their father sitting on the sofa with his head down and not talking, and then they see their grandfather, grandma and mother looking at him very angry, they know that he is  Another mistake must have been made.  Looking at Xiao Li¡¯s cute chubby face, Wei Da suddenly felt that he was really wronged; why is this matter my fault? Isn¡¯t this a little wrong?  Indeed, not being competitive is not a mistake for Xiao Li. This should not cause such a big stir, especially now that the person being punished is still himself, which really makes Wei Da feel aggrieved.  "It's just that Weida is also very smart now. He is considered to be the culprit. Now the whole family, who have some sense, thinks that Weida is a big bastard.  So this is something that is too much to say and wrong. Anyway, mistakes have already been made. In many cases, the attitude of admitting mistakes is actually very important. It is better not to be too clever and cause a stronger backlash. That will outweigh the gains and losses.  Xiao Li sat next to Weida very cheatingly. The little guy seemed to be very curious about the mistake his father made.  But Xiao Li may not know now that he is sitting next to his father at this time, which will bring a great crisis to his father; originally this was a discussion about Xiao Li's character development, and it was also because Xiao Li and Weida were very similar.  .  The most important thing now is that everyone thinks that Xiao Li was influenced by Wei Da, and Wei Da needs to take more responsibility regarding Xiao Li's character.  And the little guy is sitting next to his father carelessly, and he is still paying attention to his father at this time. Isn't this a complete cheating!  "Xiao Li, what juice do you want to drink?" There are still a lot of fruits at home, so the children will basically drink delicious freshly squeezed juice; although Weida made a big mistake, the children are thirsty  It is also very important; Huang Yue, Xiao Xin and Xiao You are ready to squeeze juice, and of course Xiao Li's opinion is also very important.  "Whatever, it's fine, I'm the same as dad." Seeing Xiaoli happily and nonchalantly reply, Weida's eyes widened in disbelief.     'casual'!  ¡®Just like daddy¡¯! ??My dear son, you are going to completely cheat me!  (To be continued, please search Piaotian Literature. The novels will be better and updated faster!
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