"A teenage boy went to visit a wise old man. The boy asked, how can I become a person who can please myself and others? The old man smiled and said, child, if you have such a wish at your age, it is really difficult. It¡¯s rare, I¡¯ll give you four sentences.¡± ¡°Which four sentences?¡± Ye Dacheng couldn¡¯t help but interject. "The first sentence: Treat yourself as someone else." Shi De nodded to Ye Dacheng, "The young man thought for a while and said, when I am painful and sad, treat myself as someone else, so that the pain will naturally be alleviated. When When I am happy and proud, if I think of myself as someone else, then the ecstasy will become calmer, right? "The old man nodded in approval, and then said the second sentence, treat others as himself. The young man thought for a while. Say, this way you can truly sympathize with the misfortunes of others, understand their needs, and give them appropriate help, right? The old man smiled and said nothing, nodded to the young man, and then continued, in the third sentence, Treat others as others. " "The young man thought silently. After thinking for a long time, he finally figured it out. Then he looked up at the old man. Does this sentence mean that everyone's independence should be fully respected and inviolable under any circumstances? The core territory of others. The old man smiled happily, that's good, that's it. The fourth sentence is, treat yourself as yourself. "Seeing that the young man seems to understand but not understand, the old man said gently and patiently that this sentence may be too difficult to understand. Difficult, let you taste it later. The young man pondered for a long time, thought about it, and said, I think it at least contains the following meaning, that is, we must be responsible for ourselves. The old man smiled without commenting. The young man asked again, how can these four sentences be unified? The old man said that it is very simple, it takes a lifetime of time and experience. " " Treating oneself as others is open-minded, treating others as oneself is tolerance, treating others as others is wisdom, and treating oneself as oneself is enlightenment. A person's biggest trouble, or the source of trouble and pain, may be that sometimes he takes himself too seriously, and sometimes he doesn't take himself too seriously. "Shi De finished telling the story and looked up at Ye Dacheng, "I wonder if my story can satisfy Ye Dong? " "Ha ha. Ye Dacheng laughed loudly, "You mean, you are the young man in the story, and I am the wise old man in the story?" " "It can be understood that way. Shi De also smiled humbly. "Tell me, what help do you want from me?" "Although Ye Dacheng doesn't trust Shi De 100% now, he is at least willing to cooperate with Shi De. "Compared with you, Mu Jinnian is much shallower. He only knows how to make conditions when he comes up, and he doesn't forget to step on you a few times. What I dislike the most in my life is people who step on others to get to the top. If you have the ability to climb up on your own and step on other people's shoulders, what kind of hero is that? Xiao Shi, you have been here with me for a long time, and you have not even said a bad word about Mu Jinnian. For this reason, I recognize you as a person. " "I came to see Dong Ye just because I wanted to chat with him, talk about life, and tell stories. "Shi De chuckled. "Any more stories? Okay, you speak and I listen. "Ye Dacheng stood up and walked towards the vegetable patch in the yard, "Let's go, work and talk at the same time, do both. "Ye Dacheng picked up a hoe and started to hoe the ground, and Shi De also picked up a shovel to help. "Many young people nowadays don't understand the truth. They want to make a lot of money as soon as they go to work, and they always feel that the salary given by the boss is too low. , but they don¡¯t understand one truth ¨C no boss will give you glory and wealth for free, the glory and wealth only lies in your own hands. Once upon a time, there was a fruit stall. Because the owner was old and could not stand to greet customers all the time, he posted a note to recruit clerks. A few days later, a young man came and asked the boss how much it would cost him to help him for a month. The boss smiled and said, "How can we pay a monthly salary in our small stall business? Of course it depends on your hard work. What can you do in a day?" No matter how much fruit you sell, you will receive one-tenth of the money received, and you will be paid in cash every day. " "After hearing this, the young man looked up and down at the shabby stall in front of him, then said with a sullen face, "No, it's too insecure." After that, he turned around and left. A few days later, another young man came and asked the boss how the salary was calculated. The boss told him again about daily salary. The young man thought about it and asked again, it doesn't matter whether he pays daily or monthly. What's important is how much does this fruit stall earn per month? The boss said that fruits are divided into seasons, and business is also divided into low and peak seasons. If the fruit is good, the income can be 50,000 yuan, and if it is not good, it may only be 10,000 yuan. After hearing this, the young man cursed loudly, saying that in this kind of business, you would never get riches and glory in your life, and only fools would sell fruits. Likewise, he left after saying that. " What exactly did Shi De mean? Ye Dacheng listened with great interest. While hoeing the ground hard, he smiled and listened to Shi De's talk. He had the patience to wait for Shi De to reveal his true intention at the end of the story. "A few days later, another little boy came and asked the boss how to calculate the salary. The boss also said that he would receive a daily salary. The little boy smiled after hearing this and asked his boss, can he increase the proportion of daily salary during holidays and weekends, and receive two-tenths of the day's income? If the day's income exceeds 10,000 yuan, he will receive Three out of ten. The boss laughed and touched the babyThe boy's head said, you are so smart, you also know that business is better on holidays and weekends, so just do what you said. However, even on holidays or weekends, it is not easy for the business income to exceed 10,000 yuan." "Little The boy didn't care what the boss said. After he took over, he started working. He washed the fruits with water every morning, and then kept changing the position of the fruits every day. During holidays or weekends, he put up a few posters. It says that if you spend over 1,000 yuan, you will get 100 yuan of fruit for free, so customers can choose. Unexpectedly, in the first month, the little boy received a salary of more than 30,000 yuan, which is equal to the average daily salary of more than 1,000 yuan. Although the fruit stall owner paid a lot of salary to the little boy, he was still happy to sit in the rocking chair every day and watch the little boy run in and out, making him more money than before. " "A few years later, when the little boy made enough money, he bought the boss's fruit stand. After his ingenuity, he designed more promotion plans, business was better than before, and profits were of course higher, so he opened a second store. A few months later, a third store was opened. By the time the little boy grew up, he had become a billionaire and had prosperity and wealth before he was thirty. Shi De wiped the sweat from his head, "According to surveys, more than 70% of office workers around the world are not satisfied with the salary given by their bosses. Even if they know that the boss's business has declined and their income has decreased, these people still advocate The boss wants to pay more. Obviously, these 70% of people are the first young people to apply for the fruit shop. All they want is a guarantee. Regardless of whether they are fully committed to work or whether their work can really help their boss, they just want their boss to give them a stable salary that cannot be discounted. "Seeing that what Shi De wanted to express gradually became clear, Ye Dacheng also straightened up and wiped the sweat from his head. "At the same time, there is reason to believe that among the 70% of office workers, there are also many He is the second young man to come to the fruit shop to find a job. This kind of office workers all think that the boss in the world will have a lot of wealth and wealth in their pockets when they are born, live in a mansion, drive a good car and eat delicious food. If the boss doesn't pay more, Good for you, you are a stingy, stingy, or narrow-minded miser. Therefore, as long as you work for a period of time and find that your boss is not very generous, or you feel that the industry you are engaged in has no development prospects, you will immediately change jobs and leave. The result will be to keep changing jobs, and then keep cursing the stinginess of the old boss in front of the new boss. No, even when I am old, I still cannot find glory and wealth. "It's a bit interesting. Ye Dacheng smiled slightly. "There is no boss in the world who will give you glory and wealth. The only thing the boss can give you is opportunities. You can only seize the opportunities in your hands to create wealth for the boss, increase income, and make money for the company. If you get more profits, you can in turn borrow the resources of the company and your boss to make yourself better. No matter you sell fruits or computers, or are in a popular or unpopular industry, as long as you can figure this out, you can be like a little boy and take over more prosperity and wealth from your boss. "Shi De stretched out his hands and spread them in front of Ye Chengda, "Ye Dong, I am the little boy selling fruit. "Hahahaha" Ye Dacheng laughed at Shi De's look, "Are you still a little match girl?" But don¡¯t say it, Shi De, your story seems simple, but it is actually very meaningful. I understand what you mean. You are saying that if I give you resources and channels, you will bring me wealth while , he also benefits at the same time. " "The boss must benefit first before I can benefit. This is the most critical premise. Shi De put down the shovel and looked at Ye Dacheng, "Dr. Ye, I wonder if you like my story?" "My child is about the same age as you. Just call me Uncle Ye." "Ye Dacheng also put down his hoe and walked towards the table and chairs, "The story is good and the truth is there. I only have one last question. " "Uncle Ye, please speak. "Shi De was secretly happy that Ye Dacheng's recognition of him had reached 80%. "Do you really believe in cause and effect and reincarnation? " "Faith," Shi De said categorically, "Buddha said that even if you go through a hundred kalpas, your work will not be destroyed. When karma and fate meet, you will receive the retribution yourself. This is the Buddhist view of cause and effect. But are the concepts of cause and effect all transmitted from Buddhism? No, the Book of Changes says that a house that accumulates good deeds will always be blessed. A house that accumulates bad deeds will surely suffer disaster. The old people say that good deeds will be rewarded with good deeds, and evil deeds will be rewarded with evil deeds. It is not because there is no reward, but the time has not yet come The above are all the inherent concepts of cause and effect of the Chinese nation. "