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    Moreover, such patients will always be afraid of being abandoned by others. When the intimate relationship with the person they rely on ends, they will feel unusually desperate.  This also explains why Chu Yulan was so stubborn and had such extreme ideas in the morning. This is exactly the characteristic of dependent personality disorder.  As for the main cause of this kind of personality disorder, it is that the dependence needs in early childhood are not sufficiently met, which leads to the psychological fixation in the "oral stage" in adulthood (a state of complete lack of independence in infancy).  The lack of this demand causes a person's "psychological lactation" to continue to be prolonged, and some people are even in a state of "lifelong psychological lactation."  For Chu Yulan, in the six years from a few months after she was born to when she was more than six years old, because of the irregular welfare home, her dependence needs were not met, but she suffered a lot of harm.  This is the main reason why she suffers from this mental illness.  And when she received the care of her current parents, the need in her heart was released again, which made her feel satisfied. At the same time, the "psychological lactation period" continued to lengthen, to the point where she is now.  Thinking of this, Chu Chen asked: "Xiaolan, who are the relatives in your mind?" Chu Yulan immediately replied: "My parents are one of them, and my uncle and grandparents are usually nice to me.  Counting half, by the way, brother, you count one." Chu Chen pointed at his nose and said, "I am very likely, but what if it is not?"  Lan quickly said: "Brother, you must be so. In the morning, you admitted that you had that jade plaque. Plus the other two points, there is no such coincidence in the world." Chu Chen shook his head helplessly.  , knowing that the possibility is indeed very small, since the matter is already like this, I don¡¯t think about it anymore.  However, from Chu Yulan's answer, he also understood why Chu Yulan was so afraid of himself. This was also a typical feature of this kind of personality disorder, and he cared too much about what the people he relied on thought.  After getting the answer, Chu Chen was also worried about how to deal with the relationship with Chu Yulan. People with this kind of personality are very easy to be hurt by being criticized. There is no need to mention it, and he will not criticize now.  What is she? The key is that her submissive behavior now really makes him uncomfortable.  And Chu Chen thought that he might have to face her all the time in the future, which really gave him a headache.  "Xiaolan, can I discuss something with you?" Chu Yulan heard this and said quickly: "Huh? What's the matter, brother, just tell me." Chu Chen said as kindly as possible: "Xiaolan, can you  Don't treat me like this?" "What? Do you hate me again?" Chu Yulan opened her eyes and said with a panicked expression.  Seeing this, Chu Chen quickly said: "Xiaolan, you misunderstood me. What I mean is, don't be so afraid of me like you are now. Are you also like this at home with your relatives?" Hearing this  , Chu Yulan breathed a sigh of relief and said weakly: "At home, I am very happy and comfortable with my parents, but they will not scold me." Chu Chen heard this  , finally knew where the crux was, and said: "Xiaolan, I was in a bad mood this morning. I want to say sorry to you. I promise you that as long as you don't make a big mistake in the future, I will never scold you.  "Brother, you don't have to apologize. It was my fault this morning. I made you angry." Chu Yulan waved her hands repeatedly, and then asked, "Brother, what is the big mistake you are referring to?" "It's very simple, don't do it."  Immoral things are fine," Chu Chen said.  Chu Yulan nodded quickly and said happily: "That's no problem. I will definitely not do immoral things. My parents have taught me this since I was a child." "Well, you can rest assured now, but  I said in advance that it would be better for us to keep in touch as before and not be too close. Our current relationship has not been confirmed yet, and I haven¡¯t gotten used to it yet. Do you know?¡± ¡°Okay,¡± Chu Yulan said.  She had no objection to the request, and she was very satisfied to get Chu Chen's previous guarantee.  "Okay, it's almost time, let's continue walking" During the next journey, there is a section of the road that is particularly difficult to walk because of the steep hillside. Fortunately, Chu Chen's help is there, otherwise Chu Yulan would have collapsed from exhaustion.  After getting off, fortunately the distance was only two to three hundred meters.  After finally walking that stretch of road, Chu Yulan panted and said, "Brother, I found that the resources of Chinese medicinal materials here are very rich, why not develop them?" Chu Chen?Some curious people asked: "Hey, Xiaolan, do you know about Chinese herbal medicine?" Chu Yulan smiled and nodded: "Well, due to physical reasons, I studied Chinese medicine for a period of time." "Oh, we  There are indeed a lot of medicinal materials here, such as isatis root, fangfeng, bupleurum, cassia, etc. Not only are there many types of Chinese medicinal materials, but they are also of high quality and large in quantity. They are our unique advantageous resources. But you have experienced it along the way.  Without a similar road, even if there is a big business opportunity, it will not develop. " "However, there is no road that can be built, but no matter how many wild Chinese medicinal materials there are, they will be dug up one day, so the most important thing is.  It can be cultivated artificially. However, although this mountainous area is a developed area with loess landforms, people's long-term disorderly cultivation and nomadic activities have caused extensive destruction of vegetation, resulting in serious soil erosion, ecological imbalance, and barren land. " "This is not the case.  The most important thing is that we have a lack of water resources here. How can we develop without water?" At the end of the sentence, Chu Chen couldn't help but feel sad for the future of the villagers. Could it be that the future of these people can only be  Do you go out to work and end up moving somewhere else?  "Brother, I know there is a kind of Chinese medicinal material that is suitable for the geographical environment of this mountainous area." "Really? Which one is it?" Chu Chen said quickly in surprise.  "Forsythia." "Forsythia? Is it the kind of forsythia we often use?" Chu Chen said with some confusion.  Forsythia suspensa, also known as Huanghuatiao, Lianke, Qingqiao, Luoqiao, Huangqidan, etc., is a traditional Chinese medicine that clears away heat and detoxifies. It mainly treats the onset of febrile diseases, wind-heat colds, fever, upset, sore throat, acute nephritis, etc.  etc., are very common in daily life.  "Yes, that's it. I've seen it in books before. Forsythia is cold-tolerant, drought-tolerant, afraid of water damage, has strong germination ability, and is not strict with soil. It can grow in brown loam soil, cinnamon soil, and fluvoid soil. Among them  Brown loam soil and cinnamon soil are the best. Forsythia suspensa has very strong vitality and adaptability. It can grow in both acidic and alkaline soils but is not tolerant to salt and alkali. " "And it can also grow on dry sunny slopes or on dry soil.  It can grow in stone crevices with soil, and can even reproduce and grow on weathered parent material of bedrock or purple sand shale. "Forsythia is also very cold-resistant and can safely survive the winter in high-cold areas and bloom and bear fruit.  It has strong germination ability, fast clumps, and can quickly expand its distribution area. Forsythia is resistant to pruning, has a well-developed root system, the main root is not obvious, the lateral roots are thick and long, and there are many fibrous roots, which can be widely stretched around the main root, and have strong absorption and fixation.  "This kind of living habit of Forsythia is just suitable for the soil and climate environment here, and it has strong vitality. It doesn't have to worry about competing with farmland and mountains and forests, and it can also protect the environment. It can be said that it kills two birds with one stone."  "After listening to Chu Yulan's introduction, Chu Chen chuckled and said: "Xiaolan, I didn't expect your memory to be so good. It's just that although I saw this forsythia in the mountains when I was a child, how can it be remembered here?  It is still unknown whether it can be grown on a large scale, and whether the medicinal materials can be sold at a good price depends on their quality. The land here is barren, and we don¡¯t know whether forsythia can be grown well. " "The key to solving these two points is.  It still depends on the cultivation technology. This can only be solved after returning to the capital. Of course, I would like to thank Xiaolan for your reminder first." When Chu Yulan heard the compliment, she said happily: "Brother, you don't need to thank me.  In fact, I can write this down because of the teacher who taught me. He happens to be studying this. After you go back, I will help you contact him. Maybe he has a way to cultivate forsythia! "  "Okay, whether you succeed or not, I will give you a gift after a while." Chu Chen said with a smile on his face.  "Really!" After hearing this, Chu Yulan couldn't help but jump up excitedly: "Brother, what are you going to give me?" "Don't worry, you will know when the time comes" After that, the two of them left again.  After an hour, we finally arrived at our destination, Lujia Village.  Lujia Village is surrounded by mountains and terraced fields developed by villagers for generations. At a glance, those terraced fields are thick and rough, simple and powerful, and quite spectacular.  But after all, the fields are limited, so each household in the village does not have much arable land, and some even have small and poor fields. Even if the annual harvest is good, apart from food and clothing, the annual harvest is only limited.  Looking from a distance, there are dozens of families in Lujia Village. Most of the houses are mud houses, which look a bit shabby. Only a few houses are made of bricks and tiles.  However, it was supposed to be time to make dinner, but Chu Chen felt a little strange when he didn't see the smoke rising above the village.  Before Chu Chen and the others reached the village entrance, they saw Lu Erniu running toward them in a panic from a distance.Come.  "Er Niu, what's wrong?" Chu Chen asked eagerly when he saw Er Niu's face bursting with tears.  Lu Erniu cried and said: "ChuUncle Chu, you are here, my mother just wanted to commit suicide!" "What!" Hearing this, Chu Chen couldn't help but turned pale and said: "Didn't I call her before?  Are you telling me that I will pay for the treatment? Why can't your mother look away?" Lu Erniu choked and said, "Imy mother thought I was lying to her. She said she didn't want to burden us.  I was going to drink pesticide just now, but luckily my dad found out quickly, wuwu"
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