Text] Chapter 713 Men and Women - "Let me ask you a question, Weiran. (" Yuan Zili thought for a moment and said. Wang Weiran smiled awkwardly. He thought Yuan Zili wanted to ask about his private life, but even so, he He was ready to tell the truth, but one thing that Wang Weiran didn't expect was that Yuan Zili did not say this. Instead, he said with a smile: "I don't want to pry into your privacy, I just ask you, do you think there is any difference between men and women?" Several communication methods, answer truthfully, I didn¡¯t have any secrets when talking to you. "If Yuan Zili asked himself this question right from the beginning, Wang Weiran, a doctoral student, would definitely use the most standard answer without saying a word. He told Governor Yuan a formal answer. But after Yuan Zili¡¯s conversation just now, he told himself that this was not the answer he wanted to know. Wang Weiran thought for a while and said, ¡°There are two ways of communication.¡± ¡°Oh, you said. "Tell me, which two are they?" "Spiritual communication and physical communication. I think that's the case," Wang Weiran said bluntly. In the past, he would never have thought that he could communicate with the province. Ministerial leaders discussed this issue, but it is different today. There is a saying that it is true to say things that are wrong and true. Today¡¯s conversation can be said to be vulgar to a certain extent, but in fact it is to expose a certain l- This is a real relationship in the officialdom in society. As a person in the officialdom, Yuan Zili deeply understands this truth. He now tells himself that Wang Weiran has no reason not to dare to move because of his respect. "Yes, you are right. , indeed, compared to noble communication, sometimes vulgar communication is more effective. Throughout his life, a man will definitely have sex with more than just his wife. In fact, I personally do not recommend having a relationship with a lesbian. It's more complicated, but in fact, sometimes some things are inevitable. What should you do when the time comes? Face it correctly. Since you have to do it, don't be caught. This is the reason why h-n officialdom is so scary. When I was in Xilin, I saw many officials fall because women were caught by others because of money, which magnified the crime. What I want to say is that you will inevitably make some small mistakes in your life, but remember If a small mistake is caught by your opponent, he will use it to blackmail you. Never compromise, even if you think this is the simplest and most effective method, it will only snowball and eventually put you on the road from which you can never turn back. " "Then how should you deal with this kind of problem?" Wang Weiran couldn't help but ask. "There are many ways to deal with it, as long as you look carefully, there will be one. For example, the first country in the world to possess nuclear weapons. The United States, the superpower, used nuclear bombs for the first time against Japan. Why did it dare to do this? Because at that time, they were the only country with nuclear bombs. There was a great scientist in history who participated in the research of nuclear bombs and later ran away. The Soviet Republic, what we call the former Soviet Union, told them the core technology of nuclear bombs and helped the former Soviet Union develop nuclear bombs. Later, those who rebelled against him all said that he was morally right. And as more and more countries develop nuclear bombs, and everyone checks and balances each other, it actually becomes much safer. Originally we shouldn¡¯t talk about international affairs, but today we have mentioned it, and I will mention why the United States has been closely watching the Iranian nuclear issue. Try to think about it, if Iran also had a nuclear bomb, the United States would not dare to do so. Attack them. The US-Iraq war lasted for eleven years. How much has happened during this period. If Iran does not have nuclear bombs, I am afraid that sooner or later it will follow in the footsteps of Iraq. This is current affairs. " Wang Weiran took a sip of tea: "Governor Yuan, I understand. " Yuan Zili nodded, "The issue of checks and balances is a very important knowledge in the officialdom. As the saying goes, only with restrictions can there be balance. If you think about it carefully, you will get the same experience on this. " "While I was talking, I got a little off topic. Today I'm mainly going to talk to you about the differences between the officials' children and the grassroots like us. Let me test your observation skills. You talk about those third-generation red officials and second-generation officials, those so-called second-generation officials. They are playboys, what is the difference between them and you. " "Sometimes they do things in a high profile, but when they encounter some things, they are relatively low-key. I have thought about this problem myself before. Sometimes, when you should be high-profile, you must act like it. Being low-key is actually to appear more high-profile. . Another point, I personally found that the children of officials pay more attention to their own taste than me. I didn't pay much attention to this issue before, but then I gradually felt it and there were some changes. As of now, I am the municipal party committee member. Secretary, represents Anguo City, and is a public official of the country. No matter where I go, people will pay attention to me, and I must set an example. I can't do whatever I want like before. It's impossible to say that I see others playing Go on the street. Immediately ran to watch. When dressing, you should not dress casually in public. Sometimes the same is true at home.?Children of government officials sometimes act impulsively. I think that in my position, I cannot rely on my own supervisor to judge some things. When I see a post on the Internet calling for injustice, I can pay attention to it, but I cannot completely believe what it says. Nowadays, anything can be faked, so without investigation, there is no right to speak. If you want to work for the people, you must put yourself in a neutral position. " "Outstanding officials' children do more than that. Their families determine their development path. As leaders of the grassroots, we should not only see the results of things, but also pay more attention to the process. Whatever the father does for Most officials pay more attention to details in their work, because they have cultivated this quality since childhood. Maybe you can give me some counterexamples. These do exist, but one thing we should pay attention to is that since we have entered the big dye vat of officialdom , we should not only look down, but also learn to look up and learn from the good. This is the most pragmatic and best thing for us grassroots people. There is an old Chinese proverb that says that if a fly does not bite a seamless egg, even if you are in a dyeing vat, you can get out of the mud without getting dyed. " Wang Weiran thought of Yun Haiyi. In the past, she felt very good about Yun Haiyi, but she could not figure out the reason. Now that she thinks about it, Yun Haiyi should be influenced by Yuan Zili, and she has established a good foundation. A kind of quality, and this quality is what every person in the officialdom lacks. Yuan Zili's words gave Wang Weiran a new understanding. Some of the previous concepts were completely destroyed at this moment, but they were destroyed and then established. Wang Weiran himself understands the truth. Without Yuan Zili¡¯s enlightenment, I don¡¯t know how much I would have suffered if I had to understand these truths. (In view of everyone¡¯s strong support, I updated it earlier today. Thank you for the next chapter. Please click more and read again. As usual, it¡¯s a waste chapter first. It¡¯s on the small page and there are no flowers. I¡¯ll be happy to read it.