"As for your sense of powerlessness, that's because you have a very strong self-esteem, so you have very high demands on yourself, and I'm sure that these demands are not only higher than what ordinary people have for themselves, but they also appear to you personally. It's a bit too high, even if you are really capable. The result is that the reality affected by many factors is always far from the ideal. Over time, when your self-realization is repeatedly lower than the ideal. , you will have a strong sense of disappointment or frustration with yourself. In this way, you will fall into a vicious cycle, and your strong self-esteem will be hit again and again, which will make you feel powerless or even desperate at this time. Look, the end result must be your own collapse. The reason why pressure is called pressure is that it really makes people breathless. Don¡¯t you feel tired when you are so strict with yourself? ¡± ¡°Are you tired? Well, very tired, very lonely, very helpless" "But in fact you are not alone, aren't you? You have friends, relatives, and many people who care about you. You know how they care about you. You were willing to pay for it, but you refused and avoided it, right? If there are more people to resist, wouldn¡¯t the pressure per unit area be smaller? Why do you have to make your life so difficult? Your life is limited, don't let yourself suffer so much. No matter how good your life is, you can never make up for the lost time. You are a girl, you can really be weak and pitiful. , this is your innate advantage, why not try to use it? It is really easy for you to change your life. " "I have no one to rely on except myself." "Besides yourself, there really is no one you can rely on. People can only rely on themselves. Only you can serve yourself wholeheartedly. That's right. What I mean is that we don't need to rely on others, but we shouldn't refuse appropriate help from others. These seemingly unnecessary help can sometimes help us a lot at critical moments. For example, your current situation is ultimately just due to financial pressure, as long as you let go of other people's economic prejudices. With your help, all the problems you are facing will be solved. You can live a good life and reassure your family, and you will have enough energy to deal with learning and practicing, two things that are very important to you. . I know you are afraid of being looked down upon. How about I lend you some money? You also know that we have some money as artists, if you don¡¯t mind.¡± ¡°Are you still here?¡± Are you hesitating? In fact, there is no need. Although you know me, I don't know you. We won't be embarrassed even if we face each other. I have great confidence in you. Children with strong self-esteem will be successful in the future. If you become popular, I might even ask for interest from you, haha. "Why are you so nice to me?" "Why, why would you be my fan in the future?" My fan, this feels great, doesn't it? Haha, so don¡¯t mind it, just think of me as a venture capital investor. This little money really means nothing to me. How about it? Once you've thought about it, send me your card number. " "Thank you for your kindness, aris. I've thought about it. I decided to try borrowing money from friends, which can be regarded as a challenge to myself. I need to train myself to address any aspect of my shortcomings. I have to work hard to change myself and become a more adaptable person to this society. I will learn to let go of all the extra self-esteem I have. I¡¯m really grateful to ARiS for being willing to talk to me so much. I feel much more confident about the future. I won't sit still and wait for death any longer. I'm going to pursue my dreams and try my best. Thank you aris, as your fan I want to say to you, I really like you for being so gentle and patient. "After typing these words, the girl's fair and delicate cheeks became slightly rosy. Gently closing her old notebook, the girl closed her beautiful eyes at the same time and slowly exhaled. Opening her eyes again, the girl The girl's misty eyes shone with dazzling light, symbolizing the master's determination and persistence. The girl picked up a beautiful photo frame on the table. In the photo frame, three young and invincible girls were holding hands and smiling carefree. The one in the middle is the girl herself, and the ones on the two sides are the already popular members of Girls' Generation, Kim Taeyeon and Seo Joo Hyun. The girl's eyes were a little blurry and she was in a trance for a long time. Smiling softly, as bright as fireworks, "Maybe in the end, this money will be loaned to you, a¡ª¡ª" "Sister Suyan, what are you thinking about?" " "Um? nothing. " Pu Soyan came to her senses after being pushed by Pu Zhiyan. Several other girls looked at her curiously, and she smiled apologetically at everyone. "Soyan, don't be too stressed. What's the matter?Tell us, even if we can't afford it, we will share some of it for you. "Kim Taeyeon sighed softly and comforted her. In her opinion, Park So-yeon's behavior of borrowing money was really abnormal. She still wonders whether something serious has really happened. "It's okay. What do you think? Taeyeon. Park So-yeon waved her jade-white hands and smiled at Kim Taeyeon, "Speaking of which, Taeyeon, you have become a lot more. Two years ago, you were still a naughty little girl who loved to play and make mischief. Now I feel like I have grown up all of a sudden. " "Yeah? That's because Soyeon left, and I couldn't help but become the biggest one. " "Then don't you want to thank me? " Park So-yeon smiled, pulled back her dark hair that hung down from her temples, and looked at Kim Tae-yeon jokingly. Her green-white fingers were trembling slightly, and it was obvious that her mood at this time was not as calm as it seemed. "Yes. I want to thank you, but the burden on my shoulders has become a lot heavier. It¡¯s so heavy that I can¡¯t even grow anymore¡ª¡ª¡± ¡°Pfft¡ª¡ª¡± Park Ji-yeon and Park Hyo-min were immediately amused by Kim Taeyeon, so directly taking advantage of their own shortcomings. Just kidding, this is the first time for them to see a beautiful girl. ¡°What, are you blaming me? "Park So-yeon looked at Kim Tae-yeon with great interest. To be honest, she really didn't see that she had the ability to be a captain at the beginning. Unexpectedly, two years later, she has almost become the most competent captain. It's really unpredictable. . ¡°Is it possible? Why don't you come back? Everyone misses you so much, and I can introduce you to someone important to everyone. "Kim Taeyeon smiled and looked at Park Soyeon with bright eyes, unable to tell whether she was serious or joking. "Really? "In a trance, I seemed to see the man I had met several times, the man who tried to enlighten me even though I didn't know who he was, smiling at me. An inexplicable feeling of palpitations and shortness of breath spread in Pu Suyan's body, and finally disappeared. He made a forced smile and said, "Okay, introduce me to me. " "Suyan, you'd better rest more, and remember to call me if you have anything. "Seeing Park So-yeon like this, Kim Tae-yeon subconsciously thought that she had some difficult problems herself. Nodding to Seo Joo-hyun and Huang Meiying, the three girls stood up, "We'll leave first and keep in touch. " Watching the three girls leave, Park So-yeon could only sigh deeply. If you like this work, you are welcome to come to Qidian (.) to vote for recommendations and monthly votes. Your support is my biggest motivation.)