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    Modern life is extremely rich, which makes people unable to calm down. Even if you force them to calm down, although others have calmed down, other things will continue to appear in their minds, that is to say  , in fact, he didn't calm down at all.  Just like when studying, when the teacher is in class, he will remind the students to listen calmly. Why does the teacher do this?  The reason is very simple, that is, it is to allow students to calm down and study. In this way, the school will be more efficient and students will be able to learn.  However, everyone knows that such reminders from teachers are not effective for all students. For example, for those students with poor academic performance, the teacher reminds them like this. Although they respond in words, in fact, in their In their minds, they are not thinking about the courses taught by the teacher. They are thinking about when the get out of class will end, how much time is left until the end of get out of class, or what to play after class and other things that have nothing to do with the class.  Why do these students have such pictures in their minds? In fact, the main reason is that these students are attracted by the fun outside, so they have such pictures of fun in their minds.  I believe that everyone has experienced such a thing, or has seen it.  The final thing for a person to practice martial arts is that you have to calm down. Only when your mind is calm can you truly practice martial arts, feel the spiritual energy from the outside world, and absorb ¡Ýn these spiritual energy into your meridians.  , and after the spiritual energy enters your meridians, it guides the spiritual energy to walk in your meridians, and finally turns into your true energy.  If you can't calm down.  Then you can't feel the aura in the air at all. In this case.  You can't even talk about practicing martial arts, you can't even feel the spiritual energy.  Then how do you practice martial arts!  ??Also, when you are practicing, especially after you have introduced spiritual energy into your meridians, if you do not calm your mind, the consequences will not only be the above, but there will also be more serious consequences waiting for you.  What are the serious consequences? The answer is to become obsessed!  Reiki is very magical. Not only can it speed up the growth of animals and plants, but people can also enhance their own strength by absorbing Reiki.  You can even become a cultivator and eventually become immortal. However, not all spiritual energy is so good to people. At some point, it can also kill you.  Just like when you are practicing martial arts, spiritual energy poses a great threat to you.  When warriors practice martial arts, they constantly absorb spiritual energy.  As we all know, Reiki is not monotonous with only one attribute. Reiki actually has many attributes, such as metal, wood, water, fire, earth, etc.  There are many kinds of attributes, and among these attributes, there are many kinds of attributes that are mutually reinforcing and mutually reinforcing.  It¡¯s like fire aura and water aura.  Wood Spiritual Energy and Fire Spiritual Energy, Golden Spiritual Energy and Turing Spiritual Energy, etc.  These spiritual energies are in conflict with each other and correspond to each other.  The bodies of warriors also have different attributes, such as metal, wood, water, fire, earth, etc. Warriors have these attributes.  When fire attribute warriors practice martial arts, they absorb fire attribute spiritual energy, and water attribute warriors absorb water attribute spiritual energy when practicing martial arts Once these warriors absorb spiritual energy that is incompatible with their physical attributes, then  This warrior will be in danger, and the fiercest battle will take place in his body between the two competing spiritual energies.  You must know that the aura in the air is not a single-attribute aura. The aura in the air is mixed with auras of all attributes. Therefore, when a warrior practices martial arts, he needs to expel the aura that is not his body's attribute, leaving behind  The spiritual energy corresponding to his physical attributes, only in this way can the warrior practice safely, and his cultivation level will slowly increase.  So how can we identify the attributes in aura?  The answer is very simple, that is, the warrior needs to calm down, calm down and feel the spiritual energy inhaled into the meridians, and then expel the spiritual energy that does not want to be in harmony with his own body attributes, leaving only the spiritual energy that does not want to be in harmony with his own physical attributes.  Therefore, it is very important for a warrior to calm down when practicing martial arts. Once a warrior has random thoughts while practicing martial arts, that is to say, he cannot calm down, the consequences will be serious. The spiritual energy that the warrior inhales will cause the fiercest battle.  At this point, some people may want to say, why are auras of different attributes fine in the air, but once these auras enter the meridians, there will be problems?  This is confusing!  Haha, the answer is actually very simple, that is the reason why auras of different attributes have different distances from each other.  In the air, there is a lot of space. Therefore, different auras are far away from each other. They have enough distance to avoid each other. Therefore, in the air, even two auras with conflicting attributes will not occur.  fighting.  AndOnce these spiritual energy are sucked into the meridians of the warrior, it will be different. Everyone knows how small the meridians are. After these spiritual energy enters the meridians from the air, the space directly shrinks n times. Within such a small range,  There is no distance between the two conflicting spiritual energies at all, so at this time, these two conflicting spiritual energies collided directly.  Of course, this collision takes a certain amount of time, so the warrior has enough time to identify the properties of these spiritual energies, so as to retain the spiritual energy that is beneficial to him and to expel the spiritual energy that is harmful to him.  And if the warrior does not calm down when performing this action, the time it takes him to complete this action will be greatly increased. The increase in time is equivalent to giving those competing spiritual energies sufficient fighting time, and soon  , these competing spiritual energies will fight in the warrior's meridians. It is conceivable what the warrior will end up with at this time.  "At worst, this warrior is seriously injured and goes to the hospital to lie down for half a year or a year. At worst, this warrior goes crazy and becomes possessed. At worst, he becomes paralyzed in bed. At worst, he goes directly to see the Lord of Hell.  Therefore, the most important thing in practicing martial arts is meditation.  Meditation is easier said than done, especially now, when life is really too rich.  There are countless things in society that can attract people, and that's why.  Gradually, people's hearts become more and more complicated. At this time.  It takes a lot of effort to calm people's minds.  The minds of modern people are so messy, so what can we do to calm them down?  This problem is difficult for many people, but it does not trouble Zhao Chaogang. Zhao Chaogang soon thought of a way to solve this problem.  In fact, Zhao Chaogang¡¯s method is very simple, that is, to use other things to attract people, so that people can calm down, just like asking a person to overcome his shortcomings.  As long as there is external motivation or temptation, it is actually not difficult for this person to overcome his own shortcomings.  ??For example, a person is very sloppy. Others have tried to persuade him countless times, but he only said it verbally, but did not actually correct it.  If you tell him that as long as he can correct his sloppy shortcomings, you will directly introduce him to a beautiful girlfriend, then I believe that this person's sloppy shortcomings are true.  It will be resolved soon.  Zhao Chaogang also uses temptation to attract people to correct their shortcomings of being unable to calm down. So what kind of temptation does Zhao Chaogang use?  Quite simply, it is powerful.  People¡¯s pursuit of power.  No less eager to pursue the girls/boys they like, so.  As long as people can really feel the increase in power, they can correct their shortcomings of being unable to calm down.  This is when the elixir comes in handy.  Pills are not like the spiritual energy in the air. The spiritual energy in the air needs to be refined by warriors. However, pills do not require warriors to refine them. Warriors can take the pills with confidence and then guide the power of the pills to circulate in the meridians.  .  Once the elixir is taken, the martial artist will soon develop a sense of Qi. At this time, the martial artist only needs to guide these Qi senses to follow the meridian routes recorded in the martial arts secret books, and soon the martial artist's practice can get down to business.  Once a warrior's practice gets to the point, he will be able to feel his own strength continuously increasing. The feeling of increasing strength will make the warrior become enthusiastic about cultivation.  This passion is like when you just started to fall in love. At that time, you had absolutely no hesitation in order to see her/him in your heart. At that time, you only had him/her in your eyes, and you couldn't see anything else.  When people fall into a frenzy about cultivation, they will naturally calm down, because at this time, there is only one thought in their hearts, which is to practice, practice, and practice again This is why Zhao Chaogang  The reason why so many elixirs are placed in the jade pagoda is that modern people are indeed very impetuous. It is difficult for them to spend great efforts in practicing martial arts. However, as long as they feel the benefits and happiness of practicing martial arts, then  Their inner impetuosity will disappear sooner or later.  The elixir plays a catalyst role here. The elixir greatly shortens the progress of people's successful cultivation. In particular, the elixir can directly make people feel the sense of Qi, which is even more attractive.  Maybe just a pill can't make people truly cultivate Qi, but it can make people feel the existence of Qi, the movement of Qi in the meridians, and the enhancement of physical fitness to varying degrees.  With these things in mind, the person's inner passion for cultivation is aroused.  Every time you practice, you can feel the true energy in your body.In the end, you will find that the true energy in your body is constantly increasing. After every practice, you can feel that your strength is getting stronger and stronger. After every practice, you can feel that your physical fitness is getting stronger and stronger  , with such countless benefits, as long as a normal person is, he will be deeply attracted by martial arts training.  Facts have also proved that Zhao Chaogang's method is very effective. Looking at the 200,000 quasi-warriors and warriors in the secret martial arts realm, you can know how effective the method Zhao Chaogang came up with is.  Under normal circumstances, it is simply impossible to train 200,000 quasi-warriors and warriors in just over a year.  Zhao Chaogang clearly saw from Haotian Xiao Lingtian's memory that in a warrior sect, it would take nearly two years to give birth to a quasi-warrior. Of course, the time here is relative to ordinary people. Those  Geniuses in cultivation are not included here.  Comparing the two sides, you can clearly see the importance of elixirs. If Zhao Chaogang had not taken out so many elixirs, he wanted to cultivate these 200,000 quasi-warriors and warriors.  That is simply impossible.  With the continuous improvement of martial arts, the strength becomes stronger and stronger.  For these quasi-warriors, the inner impatience of warriors has disappeared.  Similarly, the clutter in their hearts has disappeared, and it is very simple for them to calm down.  Warriors are constantly refining these quasi-martialists, and the spirit of warriors gradually cultivates these people into elites among social elites, and China's future becomes brighter and brighter as a result.  ¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­¡­ Of course, the effect of the elixir is so strong, what about the elixir?  It's natural that the price is high.  Generally, it would take three to four days for a quasi-warrior or warrior to purchase a pill. Zhao Chaogang would not let these warriors buy the pill so easily.  Because people will not cherish things that are easier to obtain. This is determined by human nature.  People tend to make this common mistake. The more they cannot get something, the more they want to fight for it, and the easier it is to get something, the less they cherish it!  This sentence is most suitable when it comes to love.  In life, why do we not cherish the things that are easy to obtain?  What kind of psychology is this?  "I love him so wholeheartedly, why doesn't he care about me at all?"  "Why does he have to wait for me to turn around and leave every time before he comes to keep me?" "I gave her everything I had, so why does she still fall in love with someone else?" People who are hurt in their relationships.  I often feel this way.  In fact, similar phenomena can be seen everywhere not only in the emotional world, but also in our lives.  According to news reports a while ago, a man in the United States won a lottery worth 27 million yuan.  But he squandered it all in 12 years, and eventually his wife and son separated.  Die alone and penniless.  It seems that whether it is love, wealth, or even health.  We all have the same question: Why do we not cherish the things that are easier to obtain?  There are four explanations for the answer to this question: 1. The behavior of "cherishing" lacks a reward and punishment mechanism. Behavioral psychology believes that people's behaviors are learned and are strengthened or weakened by the reward and punishment mechanism.  When we analyze "cherishing" as a broad behavior, we will find that for people who have not developed "cherishing" behavior, what they think is: If I cherish you, it will not make me get more or more.  OK; I don¡¯t cherish you, and I won¡¯t lose you because of it. That means I won¡¯t be rewarded or punished for cherishing you, so I will think there is no need to cherish you.  In other words, people never learn to cherish, essentially because there is no connection between the behavior of "cherishing" and rewards.  The easier something is to obtain, the weaker the possibility of establishing a bonding mechanism.  Many men and women in love have noticed this, and their coping mechanism is to use "cold tactics" or "distancing tactics" to punish each other ("I won't answer the phone! How dare you not care about me!").  But what needs to be pointed out here is that in a love relationship, "cold tactics" should be used with caution.  The cold tactic is actually a kind of negative punishment. The so-called negative punishment means that once the disgusting behavior occurs, a certain benefit will be cancelled.  For example, a girl makes a three-part agreement with her boyfriend: If you dare to look at another girl, we will break up! ? And psychologists have proven through experiments that punishment is often not an optimal strategy, and repeated use of punishment strategies may lead to long-term negative effects.  In a study of 6,002 families, it was found that children who were physically punished as teenagers were more likely to develop alcohol abuse, self-indulgence as adults- Homicide, depression - depression and stronger aggressive tendencies ("Breaking up with me every day, let's break up!").  Therefore, psychologists recommend using positive reinforcement as much as possible to change behavior.  The so-called yang-nature-reinforcement means that once the expected behavior occurs, some kind of benefit will be added.  For example, if he asks for leave to pick you up at the station, you can take the initiative to ask him if he wants to have sex tonight.  What else do you think of when you see this?  2. Venting with Compromising Sexual Objects Freud believes that instinct (including sexual instinct, attack-desire, etc.) is always looking for an outlet to vent, and this energy vent constitutes an internal drive.  , the purpose is to relieve tension.  Happiness comes from the elimination of tension, and obstacles in reality and thoughts constitute resistance.  The activities arising from the contest between internal drive and resistance are what we call ¡°compromising object venting¡±.     for example.  Love is the product of a compromise between sexual impulses (drive) and moral constraints (resistance).  The significance of understanding this is that compromising the catharsis function of a sexual object cannot eliminate all tensions (for example, romantic love cannot relieve all sexual tensions).  Then, the suppressed instinct will produce a lasting internal drive.  For example: People are aggressive.  Obviously boxing can satisfy the desire for aggression better than commercial competition, but there is little boxing between Cheng people, and it is more about commercial competition, because commercial competition is a compromise-sexual-venting object, which eliminates the desire for aggression.  The level of tension is much lower than in boxing, so the drive behind it is more permanent.  Usually, the less able to completely release the instinctive behavior, the more lasting power it can generate.  At this point, we understand: the easier it is to get something (low compromise).  The more fully the tension is removed, the weaker the drive to cherish it.  3. Re-acquisition costs Foye¡¯s theory seems too difficult to understand, so it couldn¡¯t be easier to explain it from the perspective of ¡°acquisition costs¡±.  In our hearts, there is a measure of the value of things, called "reacquisition cost", which is the cost of reacquiring it after losing it.  Things that are expensive to acquire again are classified as high value in our minds; things that are cheap to acquire again are defined as low value.  If "treasure" is regarded as a constant psychological resource, then high-value things will naturally be allocated more resources, so.  The less expensive things are to acquire again, the less likely they are to be cherished.  However, everyone has different values ??and views on re-acquisition costs are also very different.  For some people.  It is extremely difficult to meet someone who is so compatible among millions of people, so they work hard to cherish it; and some people think that.  Whoever I end up with is destined by God, and I am lucky to get it.  I lost my life.  We can¡¯t judge whether that kind of person is right, but maybe we should learn to be careful enough in every relationship.  4. Herringbone.  "There was once a sincere love in front of me, but I didn't cherish it. I regretted it when I lost it. The most painful thing in the world is this." "Da-Hua-Journey to the West"  "The classic line in "It seems to have become a curse in the real world. We think we understand the truth, but we still repeat this kind of "regret too late" again and again. We only think of each other's goodness after separation, and regret it only when we are sick.  I don¡¯t exercise, I don¡¯t know how to be filial until my loved ones are gone, I make more and more but I feel less happy. How can I break this vicious circle of ¡°I know how to cherish when I lose¡±?  How should people who don't know how to cherish learn to cherish, and how can people who are not cherished change the situation?  ?Positively respond to his/her concern for you - According to the reinforcement theory, if one party in the relationship always puts a hot face on the other party's cold ass, over time he/she will no longer be willing to give.  So we must know how to respond positively to the other party, and we must know that your enthusiastic response is the best reward for him/her!  In addition, when we complain that the other person doesn¡¯t care enough about us, do we always take the other person¡¯s silent efforts for granted?  Pursue deep interests that are not easily satisfied - According to Freud, things that are easier to satisfy are less likely to provide long-term motivation. If your goal is to earn 1 million, this happiness will follow you.  More and less money.  And if you pursue something deeper, such as love and growth, tranquility and freedom, or helping more people, this desire can only be close forever, but cannot be fully satisfied.  Become a better version of yourself - whether he/she will cherish you or not is not something you can decide. Only by always striving to become a better version of yourself is the unbreakable truth.  Rather than using unsustainable cold tactics, it is better to improve your connotation, increase your wisdom, and create an irreplaceable self, so as to useUse uniqueness to increase your reacquisition costs.  Just imagine, if you are always attractive like a treasure, everyone will cherish the time they spend with you.  Life is like a glass of wine, you need to taste it carefully.  Sometimes it's a bit bitter, but I have no choice but to continue drinking it; sometimes it's fascinating, but I have no choice but that the taste has passed.  Of course, love is indispensable in life, and it brings more than just these tastes, ups and downs.  It's even mixed with an unspeakable taste, maybe because of it.  Life will not lose its own meaning and the value of its existence.  If a person dies.  If he gives his heart to someone else, will his life be extended by another person?  When you love someone, what exactly do you love about the other person?  Is it his person or his heart?  Does that also extend love to another person?  Love will not fade due to changes in time and space, maybe it has caused a lifetime of pain!  Love is selfish!  People who love each other can only see each other's mistakes, blame each other, and always hurt each other because of a small misunderstanding.  Love.  What is needed most is trust from both parties!  People often rely on achievements to prove their existence and value. Even if the achievements do not belong to them at all, they can still show off in front of others with confidence. Vanity is always a fatal weakness of people.  If you are lucky enough to get rid of this weakness and cannot bear the attack of other people's rumors, perhaps your self-esteem and inferiority complex are at play.  When love faces the challenge of family ties, people who fall in love will choose to give up family ties without hesitation. Although this fearless spirit is amazing, who can estimate the loss?  In feudal society.  Parents' orders cannot be violated, and love can only be sacrificed painfully. In modern society, since we have the freedom of choice, the only ones who are pitiful are the parents in the world.  Who can think of a way to get the best of both worlds?  Life can sometimes be dull and boring, but when it suddenly changes dramatically.  It will make you at a loss, at this time.  Only then will you truly realize that ordinary life is the real thing!  The difference between humans and animals.  People have feelings, thoughts, and the ability to control emotions.  However, the most disturbing thing is emotion. It can make your life rich and colorful, or it can make your life gloomy.  what is love?  What is hate?  If you stubbornly believe and persist, everything will eventually turn into smoke.  Love is for men to protect women. In the eyes of men, women are the most vulnerable animals and need their strong arms and their warm embrace.  In this way, men will be more confident and love women more.  Love begins with the madness of both men and women, but ends with endless quarrels and suspicions.  When love can no longer bear the willfulness of both parties, breakup is not far away.  As we walk on the long road of life, it is easy to lose our way.  Some people can choose a path with strong will and continue walking; some people linger in the same place and hesitate; some people are weak-willed and want to go back the same way; and some people choose the wrong direction, get stuck in the mud, and fall to an irreversible point.  .  Therefore, love needs to be cherished by both parties. Only in this way can love last long!  There is a saying that goes well, don¡¯t think it is precious until you lose it!  It is a common problem among all mankind that something is valuable only after it is lost. In other words, if you have not lost it, how would you know how important it is in your heart? If you have not lost it, how would you know it?  Cherish it, lest you regret it later.  But some people also said that it was because I cherished it too much at the beginning that I was even more afraid of losing it.  ¡°You don¡¯t cherish what you get easily, but you try your best to keep it when you lose it.  For example: family, friendship, love.  The death of a loved one; the departure of a friend without saying goodbye; and the cruel departure of a lover are all things we cannot take back.  What you can't get is always the best, so people always deliberately pursue those things that they can never get, and often ignore the people around them who have always loved them silently. When they realize who is the real person worth cherishing,  But things have changed and the person has passed away.  It¡¯s only when you lose it that you feel it¡¯s precious, and that¡¯s how it is in love!  If you have true love, don't break up easily, don't wait until you lose it to regret it.  The pain at that time is unforgettable! Only after losing it do you know how to cherish it!  When facing our lovers, we should treat them with a tolerant heart. No matter what happens, we should tolerate each other and think more about each other's goodness, so that the relationship between two people will last long!  We always take what we have for granted and take it for granted, thinking that it will never leave us. Over time, we get used to enjoying it, but forget to pay and contribute, forgetting that it is also needed.Self-care and love Every emotion needs to be responded to, but you don¡¯t realize that the happiness that has always been around you will one day go away. Human beings always like to overestimate what they lack, but ignore the things around them.  That simple happiness has caused too many people to regret it only after losing it, and then they realize that cherishing what is not available is always the best.  In fact, you didn¡¯t realize that what is around you is your lifelong pursuit.  If there is no gain, there is no loss, so if there is no loss, then where can there be gain?  Because I haven¡¯t really experienced it, I will lose it.  Only after losing do you know how to cherish.  It is often a function of people¡¯s hearts. What is not available always feels the best.  The more you get, the less you care.  Sometimes you don¡¯t know that the best thing is right next to you. Just like when you buy something and you don¡¯t buy it, you keep it in your heart every day and want to get it. When the item belongs to you, you won¡¯t care.  No need to take care of them carefully. I want us to cherish what is in front of us and not hurt the people you love most for those things and people that are out of reach. Feel it with your heart.  Treat the people and love around you with your heart. When you have it, you always take the happiness for granted and take it for granted, thinking that it will never leave you. Over time, you get used to enjoying and accepting, but forget to pay.  Forgot to give.  Forgot that she also needs your care and love, and every emotion needs to be responded to.  But he didn't realize that the happiness that had always been around him would one day leave him.     people.  We always think that what we can¡¯t get is the best, but in fact we don¡¯t realize the simple happiness around us, so too many people wait until they lose it before they know how to cherish it! We are always accustomed to what we have,  I take it for granted, thinking that it will never leave me. Over time, I get used to enjoying it, but forget to pay and contribute. I forget that it also needs my own care and love. Every feeling needs to be responded to but I don¡¯t realize it.  The happiness that has always been around us will go far. Human beings always like to overestimate what they lack, but ignore the simple happiness around them. Therefore, too many people wait until they lose it before they know how to regret it.  To cherish things, hope for them is the most valuable thing. People are like this. When you get it, you will relax or have an indifferent attitude towards them. Naturally, you will not think so much about what the result will be. Everyone's psychology is like this no matter what.  When you lose something or something, you will definitely think about what you didn¡¯t do well or regret why you didn¡¯t cherish it properly. But the most important thing is that since you have lost it, you have to maintain your mentality and let it go. See below  How should you handle the problem?  People often don't care for or cherish things when they have them.  When I have it, I feel like everything is taken for granted.  Everything is as it should be, though.  They are wrong. This is not the case. Nothing is destined to be yours. Once you get it, you should cherish it and take good care of it.  If you don¡¯t cherish and care for it, you will regret it only when you lose it, and you will realize that you are wrong. There is no regret medicine in the world. If you lose it, it will be difficult to recover it.  Therefore, people always feel the need to cherish something after losing it, but there is no chance anymore.  So we should cherish it while we have it, so as not to regret it when we lose it, when it is already too late!  Learning to reflect and understand may reduce some regrets.  There are some things that we think we will encounter again tomorrow, but we don¡¯t know that they are just a flash in the pan.  There are some people we think we will meet again, but we don¡¯t know that they may be just passers-by in your life.  So whether it¡¯s feelings or something, if you really want to have it, cherish it, cherish every day she¡¯s here, and cherish what you have now.  If possible, please slow down your hurried pace and take a look at the scenery around you. Maybe there is the life scenery you are looking for. True love is when you can love, and you know how to cherish it. True love is when you are unable to love.  When the time comes, know how to let go, because letting go is when you have everything Please love well when you cherish it, and bless well when you let go No one can explain love clearly, but one thing I can be sure of, because this  The thing is that I have personally experienced that love can make you do anything and say anything for the other person. Love means giving unconditionally to the other person. Do anything. Love is precious and time is ruthless.  Giving up is scary, leaving is regretful, missing you is lonely, walking is lonely, lover, can love last forever if you cannot lose it? In fact, everlasting love is in your heart, just like many people often ask whether there is anything in this world.  There is no true love. In fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you give it sincerely.  Persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice.  True love is with youWhat happens to you, the everlasting love is your love.     we know.  Love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice. The reward of love is the eternal joy and happiness of the other person. If you love the other person, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy.  Whether it is in love before marriage or in ordinary life after marriage, as long as you truly love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, then everlasting love will be by your side, not that you have everlasting love.  .  But you created a love that lasts forever. Isn't this better? Do meaningful things!  Even a person will never be alone. The stars that cannot be reached are always the brightest; the missed movies are always the best; the lost lovers are always the most beloved.  Why not cherish what you have now?  Please don't hurt someone who loves you. Regarding love, don't think that there is something better behind.  Because what you have now is the best!  Don't give up because the distance is too far, love can take the train with you; don't give up because the other person is not rich, as long as they are not incompetent, hard work can make you rich; don't give up because of your parents' opposition, you will find that because of this  The love you give up for any reason will be your lifelong regret!  In fact, the simpler the love, the better.  It¡¯s best to fall in love only once in a lifetime!  If you experience too much, you will become numb.  Only when you are tired do you slow down; only when you make a mistake do you think of regrets; only when you suffer, do you know how to be satisfied; only when you are hurt do you know how to be satisfied.  Only then do you know how to be strong; only when you are drunk do you know how to be unforgettable!  When your parents are by your side and dedicate themselves to you selflessly.  Have you ever cherished this family relationship that is thicker than water?  When friends are by your side and sincerely encourage you.  Have you ever thought about cherishing this hard-won friendship?  When the teacher is by your side and cares about you thoughtfully.  Do you cherish the kindness that is difficult to repay?  I think when you have these beautiful feelings, you always take them for granted and never know how to cherish them. Only when you lose them will you understand how precious they are.  A prisoner locked in a cage faces four pale walls every day when he opens his eyes. He cannot see the sunrise or sunset.  He repented of his faults and scolded himself all the time. Of course, he missed his relatives more and yearned for freedom.  Although he has realized his mistake now, it is too late. As the saying goes, "time is gone and never comes back." God cannot give him a chance to be reborn and start over.  When he has the care of his parents and the encouragement of his friends, why doesn't he know how to cherish it, and he has to wait until he truly loses it before he realizes his fault?  Many people don't know how to be satisfied when they have it. They want to get more and hurt many people, which means they have lost a lot of people and a lot of sincere friendship. When they look back, they realize that they were satisfied.  At the same time, a lot has been lost.  "It's like a sandbag with a hole in it. You want to fill the bag full, but you don't know that the stuff has been exposed from the hole. You still stupidly keep stuffing it and refuse to give up.  But what¡¯s the use of trying to replenish what has been lost?  When you see the falling leaves in autumn, you truly feel the vitality of spring; when you see the desolation and depression of winter, you truly feel the prosperity of summer; when you see your peers, after hard work, have the  Only when you gain success will you realize that you don¡¯t cherish it.  When you really get to the stage of "black-haired people don't know how to study hard, and white-haired people regret studying late", you will realize that you were so stupid and stupid before.  Time is limited, and wasting your time will only bring you endless regrets. There is no regret pill in the world, and there is no such thing as rejuvenation. Only by seizing the present and laying the foundation for future success will you not let yourself suffer.  The road of life is full of regrets, so when we really have it, we must know how to cherish it, and don't wait until we lose it to realize our fault.  "One mistake will lead to eternal hatred. Only by cherishing it can you have a perfect life!"  (To be continued, please search Piaotian Literature, the novel will be better and updated faster! PS: Note: Thank you fftbc and Xie Zhixiu for their generous support, thank you!
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