Xia Bicheng was robbed by Xia Chuchu, and after thinking about it, she realized that what she said made sense: if only in terms of personality, appearance and talent, Ye Ming was indeed a pretty good young man. However, although Ye Ming was good, Xia Bicheng still felt that he was too far from his daughter: if Ye Ming had a complete family, his parents had official positions, or he worked in a provincial capital and had a certain material foundation, then It makes sense. But now, he is still working in that small Xinlang County, and his position is still at the deputy level. If he is to be transferred to the provincial capital, he will have to start over. Moreover, he does not have any material foundation now, and his daughter has to pay a lot of money to marry him. As the director of the provincial bureau, he still has to deal with and find ways to deal with his job transfer and promotion. Isn't he asking for trouble? On the other hand, if Chu Chu finds Wang Xu as her boyfriend, not only will his family background be superior, but his father can also play a big role in his career advancement. That will be a great thing that kills two birds with one stone Thinking of this, Xia Bicheng, who had always had a good impression of Ye Ming, suddenly felt disgusted with him: This young man looked cheerful and upright, but he didn't expect that he was so scheming and came to pursue his daughter without saying a word. . And I don¡¯t know what method he used to make his precious daughter, who is very ambitious in finding a partner, be moved. Just thinking about it makes people angry He estimated that Ye Ming must have moved in order to pursue Chu Chu. Less brains and a lot of thought. His purpose is also very clear, that is, by falling in love and marrying Chu Chu, he wants to become a veritable "Prince-in-law" of the Tianjiang Provincial Local Taxation System, laying a foundation, erecting a ladder, and paving the way for him to climb up in the system in the future After analyzing Ye Ming's motives, he decided to remind his daughter, and said to Xia Chuchu earnestly: "Chuchu, you have been working for so many years, and it stands to reason that you have accumulated a lot of social experience, and you have the ability to recognize people. He should also make some progress. I estimate that Xiaoye must have put a lot of thought into pursuing you and used many methods to make you like him. I don't know if his methods are clever or not, but since you like him now. Falling in love with him proves that his methods are indeed effective. But have you analyzed why Ye Ming is pursuing you? Is it because I am the director of the provincial bureau that he is so diligent? To pursue you? If this is the reason, is he sincere to you? Will you two be happy in the future with such a big gap? I hope you will consider these questions carefully. Don't be fooled by his temporary hospitality and enthusiasm, and don't be carried away by an illusory love. [Point] I have always believed that there is no pure love in this world that can be completely separated from the material basis. A story in which one can abandon all external conditions, abandon the huge family and status differences between the two parties, abandon basic material conditions, and desperately search for the so-called true love can only exist in movies, television or novels, and is unlikely to happen in real life. It may happen. In my opinion, the so-called pure love is an unrealistic fantasy and a illusory castle in the air. So, Chu Chu, I advise you: When it comes to dating Ye Ming, you should be careful. You must think carefully and don't be fooled by his temporary rhetoric or vows of eternal love, and don't only focus on appearance and ignore the huge gap between the two parties in terms of family, social status, economic conditions, etc. Sometimes this gap cannot be bridged. , insurmountable, and ineradicable. Do you understand what I say?" Xia Chuchu listened to his father's long lecture. The central meaning was that Ye Ming had ulterior motives in pursuing him because he was interested in his father-in-law, who was the director of the provincial bureau. She couldn't help but feel angry and anxious: she had just tried her best to coax and scare her, and finally dragged Ye Ming to her home. She was thinking about how to treat him better so that he could leave Chen Mengqi and be with her. It would be strange if his father showed any disdain for him when he was talking to Ye Ming later. With his arrogant temper and proud character, it would be strange if he didn't just walk away! Maybe it will be difficult for her to meet him in the future Thinking of this, she stamped her feet anxiously and said: "Dad, don't judge a gentleman with a villain's heart, okay? Ye Zi is not what you imagined. That kind of person! Let me remind you again: He has a very arrogant character and a bad temper. If you say these things to him later and make him lose his temper, he will not care whether you are the director of the provincial bureau or not. I might push you against the south wall on the spot and make you unable to step down! Don't blame me for not reminding you!" Seeing his daughter protecting Ye Ming like this, Xia Bicheng felt both shouting and angry. He had no choice but to sigh and compromise: "Okay, I won't say anything to offend him today. However, he and Xiao Wang both have opportunities now and they should compete fairly. So, you can't say anything to Xiao Wang later. uglyIf so, both sides need to be taken care of, you hear me? If you offend Xiao Wang, I won¡¯t agree to it. " At this moment, Xia Chuchu's mother pushed the door open and came in, saying that dinner was ready, and asked the father and daughter to go out and prepare for dinner. Ye Ming originally planned to give the bag of wedding candies to Xia Chuchu and then leave, but he did not expect to be "kidnapped" by her He arrived at her home. Moreover, as soon as he entered, he noticed that Director Xia didn't seem to welcome him, and the reason was obviously obvious: Director Xia didn't think he was worthy of dating his daughter. , It¡¯s just a toad that wants to eat swan meat! Especially after seeing Director Xia call Chu Chu into the study with a livid face to talk, this kind of contempt for himself became even more obvious Ye Ming is a very face-loving and very strong person. It is a typical "spring character": if you follow it and don't move it, it will be stable and motionless; however, if you press it or press it, it will rebound strongly, and the harder you press it, the harder it will be. The stronger he is, the greater his resilience For example, today, he did not originally consider Xia Chuchu as his girlfriend, but was just curious to see what the boyfriend introduced to her was like. But now, When I thought that Director Xia looked down on me like this and even called Xia Chuchu into the study alone to question and do some ideological work, I couldn't help but feel arrogant: Don't you look down on me? Don't you think I'm not worthy of your daughter today? I want to show you affectionately with her, to let you know that I am not here to curry favor with you, the director, but that your daughter wants to be with me and have sex with me