The wind outside made the glass rattle. In the past, Wen Wan disliked nights like this the most, but today, nestled in her husband's arms, Wen Wan felt at ease and at ease. The mood is unprecedentedly relaxed. I can't hear the sound of wind blowing outside.
The couple were chatting, and Bai Shinian deliberately led the conversation about the child's marriage. Wen Wan couldn't help but sigh: "My son will get married in a few years. In the blink of an eye, he may become a grandmother."
Although Wen Wan doesn¡¯t want to admit it, this is how society is. In eight years, her two sons will be sixteen, and they will reach the age of getting married. I will be a mother-in-law when I am only thirty-six. This is the trend of the times. No different than in modern times, when there are still many women who are thirty-six and unmarried! Well, since we were in ancient times, we had to go with the flow.
Bai Shinian deliberately talked about the child's marriage. You must choose your daughter-in-law carefully. "Daughter-in-law, I remember telling you before that Zhang Yi and Bao Baogang and I had a gentleman's alliance before. We said that we would be the in-laws of our children in the future. It just happened. Zhang Yi has a seven-year-old daughter. I¡¯ve seen her. She¡¯s pretty good. You can check it out some other time and tell Mingjin if you think it¡¯s good.¡±
Bai Shinian knew what happened at the child's full moon party. He had no objection to marrying the Luo family, but let him marry Yan Qixuan as Qin's family. Think about what Yan Qixuan did back then. The daughter born to such an idiot is not much better. He didn't want his son to marry an idiot wife and harm his son for the rest of his life. Therefore, his attitude was firmly against it.
Wen Wan listened to Bai Shinian's words but did not respond directly. Bao Baogang also has a son and a daughter. The daughter is four years old this year. However, Bao Baogang's daughter is not of sufficient status because both children were gifted by the emperor. Well, they were born to the woman who was the substitute. Although it is said that he has been straightened up, his identity is quite different. There is no possibility of marriage.
????In the Zhang family, according to what Wen Wan knows, Zhang Yi is an extremely intelligent person, and Mrs. Zhang is said to be virtuous and virtuous. Objectively speaking, this couple is pretty good. If it were a normal social interaction, Wen Wan would deal with it twice. But it's okay to marry them as children and in-laws.
The reason for Wen Wan's objection is also ready: "I have already made a verbal promise to the Luo family and Prince Chun's Mansion. How can I break my promise?" Everyone knows about the marriage between the two families. However, there were complications in this marriage, and basically no one else knew about the subsequent agreement except the person involved and the Luo family couple. Even Bai Shinian didn't know.
Bai Shinian was dissatisfied: "I can trust the Luo family. But I don't think Yan Qixuan's daughter is good enough. As long as he can give birth to a good daughter, don't harm my son." Can bad bamboo produce good bamboo shoots? ? Definitely not possible. Of course, these are all high-sounding excuses for Bai Shinian. The real reason is that she still cares about Wen Wan and Yan Qixuan's past. If Yan Qixuan's daughter becomes his daughter-in-law in the future, well, he feels uncomfortable just thinking about it. Therefore, men are all cautious.
Wen Wan smiled after hearing this: "So you don't mind that this girl is Yan Qixuan's daughter. This happened so many years ago, and you still care. It's so jealous." Seeing Bai Shinian's displeased expression, he was busy He said: "I have promised Yan Qixuan and Luo Shouxun that when my son is fifteen years old, I will come to propose marriage to them. Everyone in the capital knows about this. So you should give up this idea. No one in the world knows this. I keep my word. Don¡¯t you want me to be a dishonest person? In business, credibility comes first.¡±
Whether Mingjin will marry Minjia or not is not the point. The point is that she has to take her time to come to this family. Wen Wan has never met a girl from the Zhang family, so it is unknown whether she is good or bad. If Bai Shinian was allowed to let the matter go, and because of Bai Shinian's temper, Wen Wan was sure that unless the girl was gone, Mingjin would definitely marry that girl. This is completely different from the preconditions she had agreed upon. So, if it wasn't a bad thing, she and Mingjin would be the ones crying.
Bai Shinian was dissatisfied. If it were someone else's family, he would definitely forget it. He had also told several brothers who had verbal agreements before that he could not make the final decision on the marriage of his two sons. But Yan Qixuan's daughter, Bai Shinian, was unwilling: "Then if you are as stupid as Yan Qixuan, you hired such a girl. It will not harm our Mingjin for the rest of our lives."
Wen Wan said with a smile: "How could I harm Mingjin? I am Mingjin's biological mother, not the stepmother. Minjia was taught by Princess Jiang herself. Jiang Lin is a very smart person and will not put his own girl Teach them what you said. Besides, I told them before that I would not agree to marry someone who is unruly, willful, and rude. My wife must be steady, dignified, dignified, virtuous, and beautiful. , be smart, capable, and have a good character. If you fail to meet these requirements, your previous verbal promises will not count.¡±
Bai Shinian was dumbfounded by this gentle request: "Daughter-in-law, if you don't know, you would think you are choosing a princess?" Are you choosing a daughter-in-law? Why does it sound like choosing a prince's concubine? The requirements are really hard.
"You think I am you. I would cheat my own son?" Bai Shinian cheated on his own son. She definitely wouldn't.
Bai Shinian looked at Wen Wan and couldn't help but ask, "Daughter-in-law, can you meet the requirements?" Wen Wan is 100% unable to meet these requirements.
Wen Wan's face was not red, her heart was not beating, as if she could not hear the ridicule in Bai Shinian's words, "My son naturally wants the best girl to match him. Now that I have said it, I will definitely not change it. If If you really want to marry your brother, it's not impossible, but you have to wait until Mingjin turns fifteen and the two eldest girls from the Luo family and Prince Chun's family don't meet the conditions."
The condition of being gentle is a disguised form of making things difficult. Most girls from other families would not stay until they are fifteen years old, not to mention that there is already a promised family.
Bai Shinian thought about the woman who grew up in the border area and was so exhausted that she couldn't even meet the requirements of gentleness. Especially Zhang Yi's daughter, although he thought she was good, she couldn't meet the requirements of gentleness. Bai Shinian didn't speak at the moment.
Seeing Bai Shinian's unhappy expression, Wen Wan said with a smile: "It goes without saying that the eldest girl in the Duke's Mansion is the one I watched growing up. She is excellent in every aspect. The last time Mingrui's story spread, The child also said that she would stay with her for the rest of her life. As a child who was only a few years old, I wanted to tell her that Mingrui was fine! "
Bai Shinian had no objection to the Luo family's marriage. The two families were well matched. Luo Shouxun and his wife were good friends with Wen Wan, so they naturally had no objection. Now that I heard the Luo family do this, I feel even more satisfied. People in ancient times were very loyal, and Bai Shinian was the leader among them. Hearing that the Luo girl was so affectionate and righteous, I couldn't be more satisfied.
Wen Wan was worried that if Bai Shinian or any of his brothers told them about Mingjin's marriage, it would be impossible for them to go back on their word. Their family's status is different from other families, so they must be careful when choosing a wife.
Seeing that Bai Shinian's expression had softened a lot, Wen Wan continued: "As for the princess of Prince Chun's Mansion, I haven't seen her for a long time. But I heard Mrs. Luo say that Min Jia, the child, brought together everything from his parents. Advantages. Not to mention good-looking, good-natured, and very smart. You should worry about it, wait and see for yourself. "
Wen Wan murmured in her heart that she must give up the idea of ????Bai Shinian. It's not that Wen Wan looks down on Zhang Yi's daughter. It's that she doesn't understand this girl at all. Wen Wan is not satisfied with Yan Qixuan and Jiang Lin. But I heard from Meier that this child Minjia is extremely outstanding. Instead of letting Bai Shinian mess with things, it would be better to find a child whom he knows the basics of as his daughter-in-law.
When Bai Shinian heard the request made by Wen Wan, he thought about the real situation of the Zhang family: "Since you have made these requests, I have nothing to say."
Wen Wan has made such an exorbitant request, how can Bai Shinian still oppose it? However, Bai Shinian was still a little unhappy in his heart.
In order to eliminate the grudge in Bai Shinian's heart, Wen Wan didn't want him to mention this matter to her again in the future. After thinking about it, he said to Bai Shinian: "Husband, you should know that whether she is Mingrui's daughter-in-law or Mingjin's daughter-in-law, she will be the mistress of the house in the future and will have to manage the affairs of the house. If there are children from two families, If it doesn¡¯t meet my requirements, I have to hire kids who can.¡±
Wen Wan's words actually reminded Bai Shinian that both Mingrui and Mingjin would be the head of the family from now on. Their wives also need to go out to socialize and socialize. You can¡¯t just value friendship and not pay attention to the actual situation. Origin determines many things. Regardless of whether it is Yixuan or Minjia, they have been exposed since childhood, and they must be able to handle the affairs of a mansion. In addition, making friends with the female relatives in the capital is not a problem. But Zhang Yi's daughter, Wenwan, cannot say that other girls are not good. Innate deficiencies can be remedied by nurture. But the situation of the Zhang family is that although they are an upstart, their hardware and software facilities cannot keep up. If you can't learn a complete skill from your mother's family, you can marry into your husband's family and be taught by your mother-in-law. This means that the girl who is determined to be the Zhang family will need Wen Wan as her mother-in-law to teach her. To put it shamefully, she is a mess in this area. She can't even teach her youngest son well, so how can she teach her daughter-in-law. If she were to teach, the future would definitely be dark.
Because of Bai Shinian's gentle words, he suddenly thought of another meaning: "Daughter-in-law, with my military exploits, I am definitely indispensable as a marquis. According to my speculation, there should be no hereditary substitution, but it should be possible for five generations. If it's good, There may be ten generations. Wife, Ming Jin" Bai Shinian has some confidence in his military achievements, but Bai Shinian has no confidence in Ming Jin's matter. Because of Mingjin's title, it depends on what kind of grace Wen Wan can have.
Wen Wan chuckled: "Want to hear the truth?" Wen Wan already knew the truth.
Bai Shinian naturally wants to hear the truth. Don't listen to the truth and tell Wen Wan this??What.
Wen Wan smiled slightly and said: "Mingjin will definitely get a marquis. If it's not bad, it should be a hereditary prince. At the worst, it can last ten generations." After what she did to Da Qi, a hereditary prince There must be a replacement for the title. Not to mention that the emperor has always liked Mingjin. But Wen Wan didn't want to talk too much in front of Bai Shinian.
Seeing Bai Shinian fall into a trance, Wen Wan pushed him and said, "Don't be happy now. Your reward will come after the emperor's uncle has finished handling the matters at hand. But Mingjin's reward, I mean Mingjin's situation is still slow for the time being. We are in too much limelight now, so I want to ask the emperor's uncle to wait for a few years. "If the emperor wants to grant Mingjin a title, he will definitely tell Wen Wan in advance. Wenwan means I hope that in a few years, well, it would be best to wait until Mingjin gets married before awarding the reward. Wen Wan really doesn't want to cause this problem at this time. It's really like flowers blooming and fire cooking oil.
Bai Shinian thought for a while and decided that what Wen Wan was thinking was right. He is the marshal of troops and horses, and Wen Wan is the regent princess. These two alone are scary enough. Not to mention that Wen Wan still holds a large amount of money. It's a good thing that the emperor trusted Wen Wan, otherwise another emperor would have killed their family: "You have thought about this matter very much. Wait for a few years." Even if it takes a few years, Mingjin can get a hereditary Being the marquis of Gutai is also a great honor for the Bai family. But thinking that his own was not as good as Wen Wan's, Bai Shinian felt a little depressed in his heart.
Wen Wan is in good spirits today, and she has seen Bai Shinian's changes one by one: "Ming Rui is a capable child. He should mention your title in the future." As for what level he has been promoted to, it is hereditary. Whether the replacement is a marquis or a duke is unknown.
Bai Shinian likes to hear this. No matter how much the parents give, it is not as good as what the son earns himself: "But now there are no wars?" No wars prove that there is no chance to make meritorious deeds. How will the title be raised by then?
Wen Wan did not say anything about what she had said to the emperor. Some things can be said, but some things are hierarchical issues and cannot be said.
Today, Bai Shinian was in a good mood. After saying a few words, he suddenly remembered something: "Wen Wan, I remember you wrote to me and said that you wanted to choose a location for Mingjin's mansion. Did you want to choose your mother-in-law's mansion?"
Nodding gently, this happened several years ago. If Bai Shinian didn't say it, she would have forgotten: "Well, at first I was thinking that the child would eventually die. Xia Yao and Xia Ying also thought that they had renovated their mother's mansion. I asked the emperor's uncle what he meant, and he also thought Give your mother¡¯s mansion to Mingjin. I remember you also said that it¡¯s just right to use your mother¡¯s mansion.¡±
Bai Shinian naturally thought it would be better to use the princess's mansion. The princess is the emperor's sister, a true blood relationship. Moreover, using the Princess Mansion as the Marquis Mansion also lets the world know that this is also a noble mansion with the blood of the royal family.
Wen Wan saw that everyone thought it would be better to use the princess's mansion, so she had no objection: "Mother's mansion has been standing there, and no one has lived in it for so many years. When the time comes to build a mansion for Mingjin, it will definitely be rebuilt. This We¡¯ll have to wait two years.¡±
Bai Shinian is not in a hurry. His son is only eight years old now, so there will be no problem in another two or three years. However, it is a bit particular about how the mansion is built.
Bai Shinian is very sexually active, and there is no need to have sex today. Chatted with Wen Wan about common things. Talking about Ye Xun: "Wen Wan, you also know that Ye Xun has been looking forward to coming back soon in the past few years so that he and Xia Xian can settle things. I used to be worried that he would be alone, but I didn't expect him I've fallen in love with Xia Xian. It's rare that I have fallen in love with Xia Xian and waited for her for so many years. "Xia Xian is yours. Do you think it's time to choose a good day to get married?" Xun mentioned it to him today and asked him to quickly ask the princess what she meant. If agreed. You have to choose a good day and then marry someone back home. Marry home early and enjoy happiness early.
Wen Wan said disdainfully: "Tsk, is Ye Xun the one who likes Xia Xian? She likes Xia Xian's good cooking skills." I believe everyone who knows this knows this.
Bai Shiqiang smiled: "Even if you like Xia Xian's good cooking skills, Ye Xun really wants to marry you. After waiting for these years, you can't keep your word." Wen Wan once said in the letter , if Ye Xun can hold on until he returns to Beijing, she can make the decision.
Wen Wan turned around: "When did I stop talking? Since I said it, I will definitely do it. Ye Xun can persist for six years, and he still has sincerity. Xia Xian is not young anymore. Then I let If you choose a good day, let's do it at the mansion! But this has been agreed a long time ago. After getting married, Xia Xian will stay in our mansion and not go out alone." The reason why Wen Wan can say this is because of Xia Xian. For your own sake.
Wen Wan said before that she would let Xia Xian out, which was actually a threat in disguise. When we get married, we will definitely stay with Ye Xun. He must have lived in the General's Mansion. Xia Xian has served him for so many years. Although this thing she did makes Wen Wan angry, she still hopes that they will get a good ending. Ye Xun was able to persist for so many years, and Wen Wan felt it was enough.
Bai Shinian smiled and said: "He will definitely be happy to let him live in the mansion. He is alone, with people taking care of him in our mansion, and now we have a wife for him, what else can he be dissatisfied with? Don't worry, he will definitely do it. Keep your promise." Bai Shinian knew that Xia Xian had a special status. It is impossible to marry someone privately. Besides, Ye Xun was just an old bachelor, so the only way to give him such a capable and beautiful daughter-in-law was to smile. There is no doubt about it.
Wen Wan was also very happy, "Okay, once the date is chosen, we will organize the wedding for them." There must be many happy events in the mansion.
Bai Shinian naturally agreed to let Ye Xun get married, which would save trouble.
Wenwan really hopes that everyone around her will be happy. Thinking of this, he asked carefully: "Let me tell you, I only have Xia Xiang left by my side. That means Xia Xiang is not married yet, do you have a good candidate? I have also made it clear to you, if there is a good candidate Yes, she may not go out. "Xia Ying is not married, but there is Xia Xiang, and Xia Xiang is older.
Although Wen Wan is annoyed with Xia Xiang, she also hopes to marry Xia Xiang and let her be the master of her own family. Everyone around you can get their own happiness.
Bai Shinian shook his head: "This, I'll watch." In fact, Bai Shinian felt that Wen Wan was thinking too much. Xia Xian let Ye Xun take notice of it because of a combination of circumstances. Others will definitely not agree. Who would want to be at such an old age, unable to have children, and still having to get married? It's just that these words are not easy to say to Wen Wan.
Wenwan also knows that it is difficult. It is normal for a thirty-year-old man to marry a girl who is twenty-eight years old. But for a thirty-year-old woman, in this ghost society, if she wants to marry a good man, she will reach heaven.
Wen Wan saw that the lamp on the table was still on, the light was soft and the fireworks were dancing. Wen Wan pushed Bai Shinian: "Go down and blow out the fire." In the past, when she fell asleep, Xia Yao or Xia Ying would come over and blow out the lights. Now that they are husband and wife, it is inconvenient for both of them to come in.
Bai Shinian touched something from under the pillow, but didn't know what he touched. Wen Wan saw Bai Shinian raise his hand, and then the light went out.
??Put your lips gently and show off! Nestling in Bai Shinian's arms, it felt very hot.
Wen Wan was twisting and turning on Bai Shinian's body, unable to find peace. Bai Shinian said in a hoarse voice: "Go to sleep, there are still a lot of things to deal with tomorrow." If this continues, Bai Shinian doesn't know if he can bear it anymore.
Wenwan turned around and fell asleep facing inside. Bai Shinian hugged her from behind, Wen Wan still felt very hot. Hey, I¡¯m used to sleeping alone. Why do I feel so uncomfortable when there¡¯s another person?
Wenwan got up the next day, had a boxing session, had breakfast and went to the palace. When Wen Wan saw the emperor, the first thing the emperor said to Wen Wan was: "Wen Wan, Qi Chou has been sent away."
"It's so fast. I was talking about this yesterday, but I was sent away today." Wen Wan also wisely did not ask where it was sent. Anyway, it¡¯s not just a secret move. Regardless of his character, the emperor would not do anything secretly even if he planned for himself. If she was cursed and died, the emperor's own life would also be in danger.
In the General¡¯s Mansion, Xia Yu is the housekeeper of the Princess¡¯ Mansion and it¡¯s hard to get through, but Xia Lin and Xia Qiu are the first-class maids around Wen Wan, so taking care of the inner courtyard is not a problem. Of course, Butler Feng will handle the outside matters.
For those who entertained, Bai Shinian also invited the eldest lady to help entertain the relatives and friends who came over. When you are down, you have no relatives. When you are prosperous, you have relatives who are beyond your reach. Bai Shinian's team has a bright future, and everyone who has relatives or relatives will come to visit.
Mrs. Qinghe had been greeting her from morning to night, and she was so tired that her back ached. The eldest daughter-in-law, Pang Shi, followed Ming Qing in office, and the second daughter-in-law, Luo Shi, served beside her.
Luo's parents loved her so much that they did not marry her until she was sixteen. Although the Bai family has many relatives, the Bai family has been separated for a long time and has been in decline, so they don't pay that much attention. The family size is even simpler. Among Bai Shihua's sons and daughters who were born as concubines, the daughters were given a moderate dowry, and the dowries were divided among the concubines when they got married. Bai Shihua had nothing to say.
There is no oppression from the eldest sister-in-law in the Luo family, the younger sister-in-law has not yet married, and there is no difficult sister-in-law. My father-in-law and mother-in-law are very easy to talk to, and I live a comfortable life at home.
Luo Shi tapped Qinghe¡¯s leg.
Qinghe asked her to sit aside: "I know you are filial, sit up, you are tired today." There were so many people coming and going, socializing was very tiring.
Luo Shi said with a smile: "It's not tiring. The people below the mansion are well arranged. There are dedicated people watching over them. I only need to be responsible for greeting the guests."
Qinghe rarely nodded after hearing this: "Yes! The Princess's Mansion came out"All of these people can do it. Each of the three housekeepers and wives can take charge of their own role. I was worried about something going wrong at first, but I didn't expect everything to be in order. When the title comes down, these people may be transferred to the general's mansion. "Qinghe went over and just greeted the guests. She didn't need to do the following things. Xia Lin and the others took care of it!
Qinghe estimated that these people were sent by Wenwan to fight against the enemy. From now on, these people will be put in charge of the general's mansion.
Luo Shi asked in a low voice: "Mother-in-law, when will my sixth uncle be granted the title of Marquis? Will it be hereditary?" Luo Shi had heard such rumors. Marquis is indispensable, but I wonder if it is possible to get a hereditary and non-replaceable title for the sake of the princess.
Qinghe nodded: "It should be the Marquis. As for the rest, we will wait for the emperor's decree." If there had been no mistake, she would now be the wife of the Marquis. Something went wrong, and almost everyone in the clan suffered.
Qinghe sighed slightly, people still have to be content. Compared with her maternal grandfather Xu's family, their family is already very good. At least now I have no worries about food and clothing, and my sons have their own futures. Qinghe lowered his head and looked at Luoshou with a confused look on his face: "What's wrong? Just tell mom if you have something to do." Qinghe doesn't have a daughter of her own, but she treats her two daughters-in-law very well, as if they were her own daughters. Now that the eldest son has taken up his post, he asks his eldest daughter-in-law to follow him.
Luo Shi blushed and said, "It's nothing. I just want to wait for the day when my sixth uncle is knighted, and I can admire the princess's grace." Luo Shi and Ming Huai have been married for so long, and they have never seen Wen Wan before. Originally, Wen Wan was going to attend the wedding ceremony, but Wen Wan was busy that day, so she declined. The niece-in-law has never met her aunt, which is weird to say. But the princess is so special, it¡¯s hard to say anything.
Qinghe smiled: "I'm sure you will see this after this big happy event." Not to mention her daughter-in-law, even she can't see Wenwan now. In the first two years, they could still get around each other, and Wen Wan helped them a lot. Later, after Ming Qing recovered, Wen Wan faded away. It's rare to see Wen Wan all year round.
Luo Shi was just a little curious, and had always only heard of Princess Wenwan but never seen her in person. Now she is the regent princess. I just want to pay my respects to Princess Wenwan's grace.
Qinghe returned home and visited Bai Shihua in his room.
Bai Shihua was careless when he was young, but now that he is older, his health is no longer good. I get sick from time to time. I was fine for the past two days. I didn't pay attention last night and caught wind and cold. Today I feel light-headed and recuperate at home.
Bai Shihua saw Qing He coming back and asked, "How's it going? Did the sixth brother say anything about the title?" Dad's biggest dream is to hope that the sixth brother can earn back the title of his ancestors. Now that the sixth brother has returned after becoming famous, he should also have a title. I just don¡¯t know what title I can get.
Qinghe smiled and said, "Didn't you see the sixth brother yesterday? Didn't he tell you?" How could the sixth brother tell her about the title?
Bai Shihua was a little frustrated: "No. The sixth brother said to wait for the holy will. According to the theory, it is time. Why does it take so long?" Generally, the people below will be late, and people like the sixth brother have old practices. It's time to be knighted when you come back.
Qinghe laughed: "How can the title be lost? Besides, there is no princess! I wonder if good things should come in pairs!" Qinghe was talking about whether he would also grant Mingjin a favor!
Bai Shihua's knowledge is further than Qinghe's: "No. I think it may be after the new year. I just hope that I can still use the title of my ancestors."
Qinghe will not comment on this. It is probably difficult to use this account again. What belongs to our ancestors was earned by our ancestors. Now the sixth brother earns his own money. Even if the sixth brother is willing, he probably won't be willing due to his gentle and domineering temperament. The reason is easy to understand. If you can make the decision yourself, you definitely don¡¯t want the title of your ancestors. But it's hard for Qinghe to say this. After all, it's just speculation.
When Bai Shihua heard Qinghe talk about the affairs of the General's Mansion, he said with some dissatisfaction: "The princess is doing well in everything, but she is too busy. She can't even take care of her own home." Busy dealing with government affairs, busy doing things Business, I just don¡¯t have time to take care of the general¡¯s mansion. Even the two children don't think highly of their Bai family members. What the sixth brother is marrying is not a daughter-in-law, but a Buddha.
Qinghe glanced at Bai Shihua: "Only the sixth brother has this blessing. Not everyone can invite Buddha home. Just be satisfied." Wenwan is quite alienated from the Bai family, but no matter how alienated she is, it is her fault. Her husband's family and the Bai family received many favors from Wen Wan. And their family has benefited the most. If she continues to have this kind of attitude from her husband, if Wen Wan finds out about it, she will no longer be willing to help her in the future.
Bai Shihua was dissatisfied with Wen Wan in his heart. He only met Mingrui and Mingjin on the full moon and yesterday. I've seen him three times since he was so old. It makes me uncomfortable just thinking about it. This is his nephew. It's also a good thing that Wen Wan doesn't have a mother's family, and the child doesn't have a relationship with her mother's family. If not, whiteHuahua's heart will feel more comfortable.
Bai Shihua suddenly thought of a question: "Sixth brother, did you tell me, when I get the title in the future, whether I will go back to the princess's mansion or stay in the princess's mansion."
Qinghe couldn't help but said: "This is none of your business, so you can stop worrying about it." Needless to say where to live, naturally it would be the princess's mansion. Even if the sixth brother gets a title, so what. Not to mention that the princess's position is higher than that of the sixth brother (Wenwan is ranked higher than the prince and enjoys double salary), even the scenery of the princess's mansion is not much better than that of the general's mansion.
In Qinghe¡¯s view, her husband was just worrying about eating carrot eggs. There are also those who don¡¯t have it, they are just full of food and need to mind their own business. No matter how gentle he was, he still raised two children and stayed in the capital for eight years. It doesn't matter if the sixth brother lowers his head a little more and works a little harder.
Qinghe paused and said, Bai Shihua was sarcastic. He was actually aggrieved for his younger brother. It turned out that his younger brother had become famous and honored his ancestors. What a glory. As a result, Wen Wan stole all the limelight. It makes it seem as if he has been living on a soft diet for the rest of his life. Add to that the reputation of being henpecked, think about Bai Shihua's toothache. Of course, he would only complain about this to his wife, and would never dare to talk to Bai Shinian's ears. If the princess finds out, she won't be able to eat and walk around. In fact, Bai Shihua is quite afraid of Wen Wan.
Wenwan was busy until it got dark before she came back. When he came back, brothers Bai Shinian and Mingrui were both at home. Because Wenwan asked someone to send a letter, saying that he would go home for dinner in the evening. So the father and son are all waiting for Wen Wan!
Mingrui and Mingjin are so busy, so they are not dissatisfied. But I am a little worried. Mingrui looked at Wen Wan with a tired look on his face and said, "Mom, please take it easy. Your body can't bear the food."
????????????????????????????????????: "Well, after picking up your uncle by bus in the past two days, mother will have a good rest. Take care of your body."
Mingrui was speechless.
After dinner, I asked the two children what they had done today in the usual gentle way. Yesterday was a special situation, so I didn¡¯t ask. Mingjin told Wen Wan everything he did from yesterday to today. Wen Wan smiled and praised a few words, then let them go about their business.
Bai Shinian actually couldn't stand the fact that Wen Wan always praised Mingjin. Mingrui is so good. In the past two days, I haven't seen Wenwan praise Mingrui even once. Instead, he praised the monkey-like Mingjin. However, based on Wen Wan's attitude yesterday, Bai Shinian waited until the child left before asking.
Bai Shinian knew that Wen Wan treated both children equally. Even according to Mingjin's words, Wenwan prefers Mingrui. But in the past two days, he had watched Wen Wan pamper Ming Jin even more!
Wen Wan laughed: "I also praise Mingrui, but if I don't praise him in front of Mingjin, I praise him in private. In front of Mingjin, I usually criticize Mingrui." This is Wenwan's way of education. , Wenwan often praises Mingrui in private. In front of Mingjin, most people criticize. This also provoked Mingjin's rebuttal. Mingrui is sensible and knows that Wenwan does not want to put too much pressure and burden on her brother because of herself, so she is very cooperative.
Bai Shinian was puzzled: "Why?"
Wen Wan was helpless: "Minggrui can learn things as soon as he learns them. If he praises Mingrui more often, it will be too much pressure for Mingjin. If he doesn't praise Mingjin more, Mingrui will be a big mountain on top. After a long time, Mingjin learned about it. I often praised him to let him know that he was also very good. I criticized Mingrui in front of him and let him see that Mingrui actually has many shortcomings. "
Bai Shinian felt that Wen Wan thought too much.
Wen Wan chuckled and said: "I'm not thinking too much. Even like this, Mingjin often feels pressure! If you don't believe it, ask Mr. Fang. Children also have self-confidence, and it is inevitable that they will be hit too much. We have lost confidence. So we have to take good care of him." Seeing that Bai Shinian still looked disapproving, Wen Wan gave some examples.
When Bai Shinian heard the end, he couldn't help but admit that what Wen Wan said made sense. Bai Shinian shook his head: "Why do you take so much trouble to teach a child?" Well, I couldn't show off yesterday. The children have to praise you a lot today. I don¡¯t know what they will do tomorrow. Bai Shinian was tired from hearing this, not to mention doing this day after day!
Wen Wan took off the jade belt for Bai Shinian: "You think it's so easy to raise a child! It takes a lot of energy and time to raise a child. In the past few years, except for banks and commercial banks, all my energy has been devoted to these two brothers. I am afraid that the child will grow crookedly. Fortunately, the hard work over the past few years has not been in vain, and the child has grown very well. Husband, the foundation has been laid well, and the future will not be bad if you guide it well. "
¡°If you don¡¯t listen to Wen Wan, Bai Shinian doesn¡¯t know how troublesome it is to teach a child. Bai Shinian always believed that his genes were strong enough and his son was smart enough, so he was better than other people's children. I didn¡¯t know there was such a thing inside? matter. I looked at the children of his brothers before, how could Wenwan have so many troubles.
When Wen Wan heard Bai Shinian's surprise, she smiled and said: "No trouble? No trouble. Then tell me how Zhang Yi and his children compare with our Ming Rui Ming Jin?"
Bai Shinian was speechless. This is incomparable.
Wen Wan chuckled: "No matter how good the child is, he still needs to be well guided and taught by adults. Otherwise, no matter how talented the child is, he will be wasted. But as long as he is well taught, even a child with average talent can become a talented person." Wen Wan I believe that there are no bad children, only children who cannot be taught well.
Bai Shinian thought of the gentle student Ling Chang and stopped talking. Well, when it comes to teaching children, he is really a layman: "If there is anything you need to pay attention to in the future, just tell me."
Wen Wan smiled and said: "There is nothing special to pay attention to. As long as you don't lose your temper with your children, if they do something wrong, you can reprimand them or punish them. But you are not allowed to do it in front of outsiders. Children also have face."
Bai Shinian thought that Wenwan was not allowed to reprimand his children, but he didn't expect that he didn't refute, which made him a little puzzled.
Wen Wan explained: "Because you are not around, you always want more love from them. So you do indulge Mingjin. I am a strict father and a loving mother. You should be a strict father and I should be a loving mother."
Bai Shinian nodded: "Okay." With Wenwan's words, Bai Shinian relaxed. He was really worried that if he strictly disciplined his son, Wen Wan would be on the opposite side of him.
Bai Shinian didn't think much about it. Apart from interpersonal relationships, his two sons didn't need to worry about their studies at all.
Seeing Wen Wan's exhausted look, Bai Shinian hugged Wen Wan and said softly: "Let's take a bath together. I'll take care of you tonight." Bai Shinian wanted to express his gratitude.
Wen Wan looked at Bai Shinian warily: "You go wash yourself, I don't need you to wait on me." After a hard day's work, I really can't sleep on the bed. Forget it the first day, don¡¯t do it again now. Her body really couldn't bear it. She is not a man. She is energetic during the day and can exercise hard at night.
Bai Shinian explains that he can¡¯t do anything, but it¡¯s a pity that Wen Wan doesn¡¯t trust him.
It¡¯s a joke that Wen Wan has to believe him. The couple just sit naked in the tub and take a bath, and the gun will go off in the blink of an eye. No guarantee is reliable. For the sake of her health, Wen Wan stepped out of the way very wisely.
After Wen Wan finished taking a bath, she returned to the bedroom and saw Bai Shinian already on the bed. Wen Wan cursed in her heart that the bathing speed was so fast. As soon as Wen Wan reached the bed, Wen Wan was rolled up. Seeing that Wen Wan had a tendency to resist, "I won't make trouble with you. I know you will be busy tomorrow, so I won't make trouble with you."
Wen Wan was relieved.
Bai Shinian also had a busy day today, but he seemed to be fine. This is after traveling long distances for several months! Wen Wan had also been busy all day, but she looked very tired.
Wen Wan muttered depressedly that there was a huge difference in physical strength between men and women. The couple talked and Wen Wan fell asleep.
Bai Shinian sighed slightly as he smelled the faint fragrance that drifted into his nose. It¡¯s okay to be a monk in a border town. When you return to the capital, you still have to be a monk with your wife in your arms. It's a good day. I thought that coming back would quench my thirst, but I came back even more thirsty. You can see it but not eat it. Bai Shinian sincerely hopes that Wen Wan will finish her work quickly and take a good vacation. Live a normal married life. (To be continued)