In a sense, the so-called revolving door before death is actually a huge explosion of one's own potential
??Every person has his or her own strong vitality
When you are alive, your vitality supports the continuation of life, and when your vitality is exhausted, it is often when death comes
For the vast majority of people, their vitality will not be exhausted when they die. At the moment of death, their remaining vitality will be quickly released in a short period of time, allowing them to survive. Instantly restore to a state of near health
And only a very small number of people will not experience this kind of experience similar to the reflection of light, and this type of people is usually the most enviable type, because this kind of death is called dying
The so-called end of life is actually very easy to understand. It means that when a person's life span is exhausted, he dies naturally. This kind of death is usually the least painful and the most natural way to die, just like the battery of an electric toy. Once it's used up, everything will naturally stop functioning. It's the same principle
If a person can die at the end of his normal life, in a sense, it can be regarded as a great joy. At least for the living, this kind of death is the most relieving, far better than illness or death. A much better way to die is by accident or something like that
As for those who will enter a state similar to a flashback before death, they are usually people whose own vitality has not been exhausted. Especially when young people die due to accidents, this situation will become very significant, and even The powerful vitality may cause a young man's soul to leave his body in an instant and turn into a young resentful soul
Of course, for the vast majority of people, there is usually only one extraordinary ability they can acquire at this moment, and that is to briefly but completely review what they have experienced in their lives
These things may be just fragments of memory, or they may have been completely forgotten in memory
But at this moment, it will actually emerge in my mind. All the deepest and shallowest memories will completely emerge in my mind, and the fragments of the scenes I have experienced in the past will all appear in my mind. It comes to mind again and again
Many people often shed tears before they die. In fact, it is not because they feel the pain of death, but because they are feeling the past and their life
Memory is there when you don't think about it, but if you think about it, it will be like opening a black box. Beautiful or painful memories may affect a person's emotions and Mental state
And the huge impact on memory in just a short moment is enough for a person to truly summarize his life
Before dying, many people will regret their past and the mistakes they have made in their lives, and they will more or less think of the happiest and happiest days in their lives
They will all think of their carefree childhood, their young and ignorant first love, their relatives and lovers, and all the past scenes in their lives
And often at this time, people will understand what they really need and what they should really pursue
Unfortunately, often by this time, death is inevitable
There is no regret medicine to take in life!
In fact, life is like a game that cannot be saved or loaded. No matter what kind of player you are, you will always have more or less game experience and you will always find something when you clear a game at once. Some mistakes I made during the game, or errors in judgment
For many perfectionists, they always pursue the so-called perfect pass when playing games. In many cases, even if they make a small mistake, they may need to play the game again from the previous record
However, life is destined to be a game process accumulated by mistakes again and again
For everyone, during the game, they will not know whether their choice is right or wrong. Only when the game is really about to end, will they realize what is wrong for them. is the most important thing, and they will realize what is truly meaningful and worth pursuing for them!
??Of course, in fact, many times, the reason why they have such thoughts is essentially because they can¡¯t get what they ask for. People who have wealth will long for family affection, and people who have family affection may long for wealth.What people think they want is usually exactly what they lack. This has nothing to do with right and wrong, it is just the different pursuits of different people
No matter what, this kind of pursuit itself is actually neither right nor wrong!
The reason is simple
From a certain choice, different people have different perceptions and pursuits of themselves. Different selves will naturally have different desires
In this world, not everyone pursues wealth, status, and reputation. Some people don¡¯t care about these. Even if they live like a salted fish, such people will feel happy and enjoy it from a certain point of view. In a sense, this is also an attitude towards life
Of course, not pursuing and lacking the ability to pursue are two completely different concepts. The former is one's own choice, while the latter is a choice without any choice. Of course, there is a big difference between these two choices. ¡
For example, if you want to be a professional player, a person has good academic performance, but because he likes competitive games and has talent, he wants to join the professional circle, while the latter has poor academic performance. , but I am quite playful myself. In order to avoid studying, I try to become a professional player
These two are completely different concepts
The former wants to become a professional player out of his own will, not because of the influence of external factors, while the latter simply wants to enter the professional circle and become a professional player just to avoid studying and have fun. They are two completely different states of mind
Just like many rebirth novels, the protagonist of the novel, after being reborn, firstly does not buy a house, secondly does not buy stocks, and thirdly does not gamble on football. There are obviously various ways to make money quickly, but the protagonist chooses to focus on playing games. , often criticized wildly by readers
But in fact, from another perspective, this is also a manifestation of the protagonist's obsession, and it is also a manifestation of his deep love for the game itself
Doing what you want to do is the true sense of self
If what you want to do requires spending a lot of money to do it, then you must first make money, and then do what you want to do after making enough money
For example, a well-known writer and a well-known star, actor, and singer all dream of becoming a racing driver, so during the process of becoming famous, they all chose to participate in racing competitions
Such an approach may be difficult for outsiders to understand
The reason is very simple. You can obviously live a very comfortable life, and your living conditions are already very good, but why do you still want to engage in a profession with a relatively high risk factor like racing?
For ordinary people, if they do not have a relatively high income, becoming a racing driver is undoubtedly a very cool thing, but for people who already have enough food and clothing, what are the benefits of becoming a racing driver? What's the benefit?
Apart from the potential risk of injury, I'm afraid there is no benefit
¡°At least from a utilitarian point of view, this actually does not make much sense, and it is also an approach that outweighs the gains and losses
?????????????? This is the truth that a son of a rich man cannot sit down in court
Poor people often have to work hard to have a chance to succeed, but the real rich second generation, government officials, or successful people often do not need to work hard, they can easily obtain a large amount of social resources and earn money. Obtain a large amount of social wealth and generate a large amount of social influence
For truly successful people, every minute and every second they live is a great blessing to others, especially those of the older generation of big families. Every day these people live, The influence on the family only exists for one day, and the family can truly enjoy the benefits
For those who have succeeded, for those who have been able to live a relatively comfortable and luxurious life, if they are asked to do some dangerous things, in fact, I am afraid they will not be too willing
Unless, it is for the true ideal!
From this point of view, they are all admirable idealists!
It is not difficult to have your own ideals. The difficulty is to be able to realize your ideals through your own efforts. This is far more difficult than having an ideal
Being able to not forget one¡¯s original intention is a very, very, very rare thing in itself
In fact, in this world, many people often have to grow old and die before they truly understand what they want., and those who know what they want and what they should pursue while alive can be said to be very rare
And there are even fewer people who can realize their ideals through hard work!
More people usually smooth out their own edges and corners in society, erase their own ideals, and use other people's values ????to guide their own values ????and do things that others think are valuable, rather than what they really want. Do the things you want to do and live the life you really want to live
Many people can¡¯t do this!
However, You Yue is not!
You Yue knows exactly what she wants!
What he wants is very simple, only two words!
free!
Yes, freedom!
??In a sense, freedom is the easiest ideal to realize, but from another perspective, freedom is the most difficult ideal to realize
In this world, everyone is free, but at the same time, everyone is not free!
It is not difficult for everyone to obtain freedom in a relative sense
However, it is difficult to achieve freedom in an absolute sense!
Because everyone¡¯s freedom is itself limited within the scope of one¡¯s own abilities!
In other words, doing everything you want to do when your own conditions permit, in a sense, is a manifestation of freedom
However, this freedom itself is actually subject to its own limitations
To give a simple example, a person is walking on a bridge and sees someone jumping into the river. At this time, choosing to save the person or not to save the person is actually not a freely choiceable proposition in many cases, but determines whether the person has The fundamental issue of the freedom to save people is whether the person himself has water rescue skills. If he does not have this objective ability, then even if he wants to save people, he will probably not be able to save them, and will instead endanger himself ¡
Simply put, one¡¯s own ability determines a person¡¯s freedom to choose every option when faced with something!
The more powerful one is, the greater the choice one has, and the more options one can choose from. On the contrary, the less powerful one is, the smaller the degree of freedom one can choose, just like for different things. For ordinary people, if they see someone jumping into the river, they only have two options at most. One is to call the police and call an ambulance, and the other is to watch anxiously. Other than that, there is no other choice
This is also a kind of freedom limited by one's own abilities!
The freedom You Yue pursues is freedom without any limits!
It is a kind of complete freedom in theory!
This kind of freedom is not subject to any restrictions or restrictions
In other words, if you want to do this, you must become an immortal!
Yes, fairy!
Only by becoming a so-called immortal can one achieve complete freedom in a true sense. One will not age, get sick, or die, have infinite time, understand infinite knowledge, and do everything one wants. , without any restraint or oppression
This is the true meaning of freedom!
In fact, this kind of freedom has far exceeded the ideals of most people in the world
Because this kind of freedom itself, in a sense, is an unattainable fantasy for ordinary people
Yes, an unattainable fantasy
To be precise, for ordinary people, this is simply an unimaginable ideal!
However, this is exactly what You Yue is pursuing! ¡