In a sense, having the courage to face death and being able to face death calmly are two completely different concepts
Having the courage to face death means that a person has the willpower to overcome death
To put it simply, such people are not afraid of death, but they have restrained their inner will to fear death and restrained their inner fear of death. In fact, the vast majority of suicides have The moment they choose to commit suicide, their desire to commit suicide far outweighs their fear of death
No, to be precise, although they are very afraid of death, they are also very afraid of living. In an instant, when their fear of survival far exceeds their fear of death, they will take the step of committing suicide. This step
Of course, generally speaking, unless they are very severely depressed patients, even if ordinary people have suicidal impulses, it will usually subside naturally in a very short period of time. The longer the suicide process, the easier it is for the suicidal person to be in the process. Regret
For example, a person who commits suicide by cutting his pulse will terminate his suicide behavior because of the pain. For example, a person who commits suicide by taking sleeping pills will call an ambulance to take him to the hospital for gastric lavage after calming down. For example, a person who commits suicide by jumping off a building will only need the first If you don¡¯t take one step forward, it will be easy to give up on the decision to commit suicide. Standing on the roof and being unable to get down is often just due to pride. After all, once you give up the idea of ????suicide, the next step will be natural. You will feel ashamed. Suicide is naturally settled once and for all if you die, but if you don't die, then the situation is completely different. A person who fails to commit suicide usually easily becomes the focus of attention. Such people usually don't What a positive image it would be
Especially for people who attract large-scale onlookers, their inner self-esteem will make it difficult for them to let go of their psychological burden easily. But no matter what, once they decide to give up suicide, they will basically not have similar thoughts in the future ¡
Of course, for people with severe depression, once they decide to commit suicide, it is basically difficult to reverse it, because deep down in their hearts, they have already made a decision and have thought about it for a long time. , for such people, persuasion in the conventional sense will basically have no effect. Only relevant psychological and drug treatment can have a chance of improvement
In fact, the vast majority of people who commit suicide in this world do not have the so-called courage to commit suicide, because what drives them to commit suicide is not their bravery, fearlessness and selflessness, but their disgust for survival. The more tired they are of living in this world, the more they will have thoughts of death!
Simply put, they fear living more than dying!
They feel that death is a greater enjoyment for them than living, and they regard death as a kind of relief
"And people who really have the courage to face death will not have such a concept"
People who truly have the courage to face death believe that the meaning of survival is greater than death. They choose death not out of fear of survival, but out of a belief, a kind of Faith, when they work hard for their faith, they will have infinite courage. For their faith, they can sacrifice their lives without changing their expressions!
They are not afraid of death, but they have the courage to die for their beliefs!
Just like in many religions, there are always some fanatical believers who are willing to dedicate everything, even their lives, to their religion and beliefs!
In the same way, before the founding of the country, countless martyrs sacrificed their lives and blood for the country, remained motionless in the fire, and remained silent under torture. It was not that they were not afraid of death, and it was not that they did not yearn for a better life. , it¡¯s not that they don¡¯t want to live, but the faith in their hearts gives them enough courage to face their fear of death!
However, having the courage to face death does not mean that you are not afraid of death. It is human instinct to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. It is very difficult to overcome this fear of death
And it can be said that there are very few people like You Yue who can face death calmly
In fact, facing death itself is sometimes more terrifying than death
To give a simple example, compared to those who die in car accidents, people who die from terminal illnesses are usually more painful
Because death in a car accident usually only takes a moment, but people who die from terminal illnesses will go through a long process of waiting for death
HereDuring the process, the inner suffering of terminally ill patients is very huge
This kind of suffering itself is sometimes more terrifying than the terminal illness itself. The most important thing is that this kind of suffering not only affects the patient himself, but also affects the family members of every terminally ill patient, leaving everyone with a long-term suffering. For a period of time, I was completely immersed in negative emotions!
In fact, even people who are not particularly close to the patient, even ordinary friends and colleagues, will have more or less sad thoughts in their hearts after hearing such news, and many people will also Therefore, I went to the hospital to check my body thoroughly, fearing that my body would also suffer from the same problem
This is also the great fear before death!
Death itself is scary, but compared to the suffocating fear before death, in fact, to some extent, there may still be some gap
The truth is very simple. Death is always just a moment. No matter how painful it is, in the end it is only a moment
But the terrible sense of oppression and fear brought to people before death is a real thing. The longer this process is, the more intense the fear of death it brings to people
Everyone is going to die, but knowing when you will die and not knowing when you will die are two completely different experiences!
People who don¡¯t know when they will die can live happily all the time. Even when they are old, they can still live a healthy and happy old life. But people who know when they will die will definitely As a result, I am worried, thinking about how to avoid death all the time, and my heart will always be surrounded by negative emotions
Just like a terminally ill patient, the doctor said that he can live for up to three years, which usually means that the patient will be in suffering all the time in the next three years. Even if the condition improves, it does not mean that he will be able to live for a maximum of three years. Rehabilitation and relapse anytime and anywhere can take away the patient's life in an instant. The patient is walking a tightrope all the time. If he is not careful, he will fall off the cliff
In such a state of mind, it is naturally difficult to be in a good mood
In fact, in reality, many people may not survive for more than three years. Car accidents happen every day and every moment. Every day in three years, someone may die for various reasons. And die
¡°But for people who die in car accidents, the fear in their hearts and the impact they have on their relatives and friends afterwards are far from being comparable to the impact of terminal illness
This is what is called the great terror between life and death. Death is terrible, but the transition between life and death is even more terrifying!
Many people have the courage to face any danger and bravely sacrifice their lives when death comes. They can do this too!
However, when death approaches them in a slow manner, when death is destined to come but moves forward slowly, the sense of oppression and suffocation will be a hundred times more terrifying than death itself. many!
In fact, many people who betrayed the revolution under torture actually had the courage to face death in the first place. If the enemy used death or betrayed the organization to make them make a choice, many people had enough courage and courage. The will chooses death rather than betraying the organization
However, when the enemy begins to use various tortures and family, friendship and even love to shake their will, they may succumb. In a sense, various criminal laws themselves are more important than death. It's more terrifying, and it's also easier for people to be emotionally shaken
Just like Zhu Ziming, the security officer in Liangjian, he was actually loyal when he was first captured, but after facing torture by torture experts, he finally collapsed. The reason is actually that he I am not afraid of death myself, but I am afraid of the painful endless approach to death, but I cannot escape
The same interrogation, the same person being interrogated, and different interrogators often have different results. In the interrogation process, torture is the most basic point, but good interrogations are different. Sometimes, Some mind-attacking strategies are often more effective than torture itself
Since ancient times, the only difficulty is death!
The death here is not about death itself, but about facing the inevitable process of death
In this state, the negative emotions in the heart will be magnified to the maximum extent, making people feel hopeless, and it is difficult to be interested in doing anything, even if they are doing something that interests them, as long as they think of death ofWhen it comes, your heart will be instantly filled with pain, and you will be unable to extricate yourself for a long time
Even many people who are terminally ill and in despair choose to retaliate against society for similar reasons, because they know that they cannot survive. Everyone who sees people who are living well will naturally have a kind of resentment from the heart. ¡
????????????????????????????????????????????? In this world, those who can face death calmly even though they know that they will die are only a minority among the minority after all
And You Yue is undoubtedly such a person!
¡°Of course he is not a proletarian warrior, nor is he a person with ideals and beliefs
But, he is a very selfish person!
In order to realize himself, he can pay any price!
Among these costs, one¡¯s own life is also included!
Not to mention just giving up his life in a dream-like world, even in the real world, he is willing to give up his life for his true self!
In essence, this kind of mentality is actually biased towards those who choose to become non-mainstream for the sake of their ideals and thus struggle in society. For the sake of their own rationality, they don't care about wealth, reputation, social status, or how others view them. My own vision is just for ideals, nothing more!
Yes, that¡¯s all!
You Yue is not such an idealist, but he is very proud. He is so proud that he will never allow himself to spend his life in confusion. He would rather see the real and cruel time than live in fantasy forever. Survive!
For him, anything that obscures his own will must be smashed!
No matter what the price is, this is the case!
In an instant, You Yue's limited thinking was running at high speed, and in the next moment
The sharp gears cut through You Yue¡¯s body!
The pain comes suddenly!
At this moment, You Yue could clearly feel that the high-speed rotating gears were constantly cutting into her body. Her skin, flesh, and bones were being cut off layer by layer
But at this moment, when the pain invaded, You Yue's mind was surprisingly calm. He still closed his eyes tightly, looking for the strength in his heart!
He firmly believes that at this moment when he faces death, he will definitely find his inner memory and strength!
In just an instant, his body was cut apart!
Starting from the waist, divide it into two!
Yes, split in two!
The sharp flying disc cut through You Yue's body in an instant and divided You Yue's body into upper and lower parts!
While the upper body was still suspended in mid-air, the lower body had already fallen to the ground like broken catkins
The breath of life is gradually extinguished like a candle in the wind
Death is coming in an instant!
And almost at the same time, You Yue's mind suddenly became violent!
Memories, one after another, surged crazily from You Yue's mind
It¡¯s like photos jumping at high speed one after another!
At the same time, You Yue's memory and common sense also began to recover. An idea appeared in his mind almost instantly
Is this the so-called revolving door feeling?
According to legend, before everyone dies, he will quickly review the life he has experienced in a very short period of time, the bits and pieces he has experienced in his life, the various people he has met, and the various things he has experienced. All kinds of things will flash before your eyes as fast as a revolving lantern
And at this moment, You Yue has such a feeling
The fountain of memory gushing out completely occupied You Yue¡¯s consciousness almost instantly!