In this world, everything always has its so-called priorities!
When a person needs to do many things at the same time, he will definitely choose the most important thing to do!
Of course, sometimes, what they think is important is not necessarily the most important thing. After all, for everyone, whether it is important or not is relative and not absolute!
Just like many people will make completely different choices when faced with studying abroad and having a girlfriend. People who value their future career development more will naturally be more inclined to choose to study abroad and pay more attention to the relationship with their girlfriends. People with feelings will naturally choose to stay in the country
What kind of choice you make, to a large extent, actually means which choice is more important to a person!
There is actually no so-called right or wrong here. No matter what choice you make, it does not mean that there will be an absolutely correct or wrong result
Studying abroad may lead to nothing, but staying at home does not necessarily mean that you will not be able to have your own career
In the final analysis, it¡¯s just that in the eyes of different people, the status of the two is different!
In fact, for the same reason, in life, there will be many similar choices!
Wealth, power, status, family affection, love
In everyone¡¯s mind, the standards and cognition of these things are different!
If you want to rank these things, different people will come to completely different conclusions!
Some people are willing to betray their feelings for the sake of wealth, some people are willing to bury their conscience for the sake of power, and some people would rather be poor than betray their conscience, nor abandon their family affection and love
Many things, in fact, there is no right or wrong, it is nothing more than an individual's own choice!
Of course, although many times, when people face choices, there is no so-called right or wrong, but sometimes, when people face choices, they often have the right answer!
When it comes to the human heart, because of the unpredictable nature of the human heart, it is difficult to comment on whether a choice is right or wrong. The saying goes like a person drinking water, knowing whether it is hot or cold, this is the truth!
However, some things in this world have answers!
Just like the multiple-choice questions on the test paper, whether it is single choice or multiple choice, there are always so-called standard answers
??And when there are standard answers to questions, smart people are often able to make the right choice, while fools are always more likely to make mistakes
This type of choice is usually a relatively rational rather than emotional choice!
??Among the emotional choices, choosing love or career, there is no right or wrong between the two, it is just that everyone has his own ambitions
However, among rational choices, there are relatively standard answers to what kind of choice is correct!
Just like in Go, in a specific situation, there are always one or several moves, which are relatively the most reasonable moves. Different chess players may make different moves in the same situation. There are different choices, but generally speaking, if they are professional players of the same level, then if they do not make mistakes, the choices they make will usually be of the same level. To put it simply, maybe the choices are different , but the level of choice and judgment of the situation will not make much difference 1
And if you choose other options besides these relatively reasonable moves, it is often easily judged as a bad move. Between a good move and a good move, you may not be able to tell which one is better, but a bad move There is an obvious difference in making peace with chess!
At any time, choosing a good move is always better than choosing a bad move!
This difference between good and bad is very objective and will not change due to human will
Just like a person¡¯s height and weight, these are inherent attributes of a person. One person is taller than another. This is a very objective thing. No subjective factors can affect this objective result!
It¡¯s like the existence of the college entrance examination!
Many people do not believe that the college entrance examination can reflect a student¡¯s true quality. At least it is difficult to measure a student¡¯s ability beyond daily study
However, in fact, compared to other methods, the college entrance examination is undoubtedly a relatively fair way to measure students¡¯ talents1
? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ?After all, the college entrance examination actually expresses students' learning ability in the form of data. Through scores, people can clearly judge a student's learning ability
There is certainly a certain error in this, but no matter what, it is a relatively reasonable way to measure students' talents. Since ancient times, examinations have been the simplest and most direct way to measure students' talents
In fact, not to mention the student stage, even if you enter the society, exams are a very common state. Many companies¡¯ recruitment is also divided into two parts: written examination and interview. It can be seen that the concept of examination , itself has penetrated into all aspects of society and has become the most important and common way to measure a person's ability in daily life!
And most exams always have so-called standard answers!
By the same token, in life, many choices often have standard answers!
Of course, not everyone can make the most correct judgment and decision when faced with a choice!
Just like in the examination room, not every student can answer the questions
Being able to make the right choice requires a variety of knowledge and enough wisdom
Without these elements, it is difficult for a person to make the right choice!
Of course, in addition, strong courage and calm psychological quality are also essential!
A person¡¯s knowledge and wisdom can help a person make correct judgments, but a person¡¯s courage and psychological quality can help a person still stick to his correct judgment in some extremely short-term situations!
In many cases, the latter may be far more important than the former!
Yes, the latter is far more important than the former!
Many times, this is the difference between winners and losers!
??Excluding some objective factors, in many cases, the difference between losers and winners is only two words!
persist in!
Yes, hold on!
The reason why losers fail is sometimes not because they choose the wrong direction. On the contrary, some losers are moving in the right direction!
And the reason why they failed was just because as they moved forward, they became more and more lost. With the cynicism of others, they felt more and more that their choices were wrong, doubted their judgment more and more, and became more and more confused. The more you doubt your abilities!
So, in the end, they failed and disappeared into the vast sea of ??people!
And what about the successful ones?
Their first half of the road is no different from that of losers. The difference is that they have a completely different mentality. Winners always believe that their choice is correct. No matter how difficult or tortuous the road they face, they always believe in this. They never think that they have made the wrong choice, they never regret their choices, and they always strive for their ideals, so in the end, they finally get the joy out of all their hardships!
The difference between losers and winners is exactly this!
Of course, it is undeniable that the vast majority of losers actually choose the wrong path. For such losers, giving up can be said to be a wise choice
Wisdom and talent determine whether a person can find the right path, while a person's courage and determination determine to a large extent whether a person can stick to the right path!
And if you want to be successful, these two can be said to be indispensable!
In this world, there are actually very few people who can find the right path that suits them in the vast road ahead!
Many people have clearly found the right path and made the right choice
However, in the end, we chose to give up due to various reasons, which made people sigh!
Among this type of people, only a very small number of people can persevere to the end and become real winners!
And You Yue, there is no doubt that she is such a person!
To be precise, You Yue is not yet a successful person, but You Yue now has such qualities!
In fact, this is exactly what made Wang Yu so impressed with him!
In reality, You Yue is such a person!
He always knows what he wants, and he always knows how to get what he wants!
He can find his own direction and can move forward impartially.?!
Even though he has some extraordinary power, he is still calm at all times
And at this moment, You Yue once again made the right choice!
He gave up resisting the enemy's attack just to experience the feeling of life and death in a split second!
After he realized that he was in a dream-like world, he realized that this was not a real dream, but it had some characteristics of a dream
In this dream, I have a certain amount of power, but this power is not enough to fight against the mecha monster in front of me!
And if you want to be with the other person, you must truly awaken!
Yes, wake up!
I don¡¯t know why, but at this moment, these two words appeared in You Yue¡¯s mind!
Wake up!
He didn¡¯t know how to describe this feeling, but when this word flashed through his mind, he suddenly felt like he had to wake up!
Literally speaking, the so-called awakening is actually waking up from a state of chaos and confusion!
In fact, You Yue is thinking the same thing at this moment. He needs to wake up to his true self!
He has already felt that he is not really himself, he is just a subconscious mind that temporarily controls the body, and the truly powerful power is actually hidden in the deepest part of his consciousness!
That is your own soul!
By retrieving your own soul, you can restore your past memories and truly master your own power again!
Although this feeling was vague at this moment, You Yue had a vague idea
Under normal circumstances, it is difficult to recover your own memory
Almost instantly, You Yue came to such a conclusion!
And if you want to revive your memory, the simplest and most direct way is to face death!
Yes, face death!
There is terror between life and death, and there are also great miracles between life and death!
You Yue is basically certain that the world she is in now is not the real reality. Even if she dies in this world, it will not cause absolute harm to herself in the real sense!
Under this premise, You Yue is willing and dare to use her body to go on an adventure!
Yes, adventure!
In a sense, letting yourself die is of course a very stupid behavior!
However, at this moment, for You Yue, this is the best choice!
When death is inevitable, perhaps only death can give you a chance to survive!
At this time, facing death calmly is undoubtedly a better choice than facing death with fear!
The so-called risk of death and rebirth is the truth!
In fact, many times, the so-called risking one's life to survive is very unreliable, but when such unreliability occurs, what is the most fundamental reason why it happens?
It¡¯s actually very simple, because there is no other choice!
To give a simple example, when the military flag was lowered, the commander of the red side rushed into the enemy's position and was locked by the enemy's bomb. It was impossible to escape the enemy's pursuit in any case. Under this premise, the red side's commander A chess player will definitely not give up his commander easily. Even though he knows that this chess piece is certain to die, he will definitely make the best use of this abandoned piece and directly kill people in the camp!
Sometimes, such relatively risky behavior may allow the commander to find a glimmer of hope in a local siege. Even if he is eventually killed, it may still cause huge damage to the enemy
"Compared to being directly killed by a coward, this choice is undoubtedly a choice to put oneself in danger and survive!"
Many times, the vast majority of people put themselves to death and survive, not as a strategy, but as a choice with no other choice!
Just like the empty city strategy sung by Zhuge Liang, this is the truth. If conditions permit, Zhuge Liang actually wants to set up an ambush in the city. In this case, regardless of whether the opponent chooses to attack the city, the final result will satisfy him, but in reality Under the circumstances at that time, choosing the empty city was Zhuge Liang's only and inevitable choice