Yi Ming stretched out his hand to cut off Stifal's words. He thought about it carefully, and then asked in confusion.
"I remember that what I asked you for advice should be about Marian.
?????????????????? But from your tone now, it seems like you want to teach me how to have a harem? "
"Why, now that you have Master Mayali and Miss Bingyu, doesn't that count as opening a harem?"
Facing Yi Ming¡¯s questions, Stifal remained calm.
"What's more, just solving Miss Marian's problem is just a temporary solution, not the root cause. If you want to solve these problems from the root, I think it's better not to be too leisurely. Otherwise, troublesome things will come one after another. Are you busy? .¡±
"I hope this is just your imagination
Yi Ming frowned. He didn¡¯t quite understand what Stifal wanted to say, but it was obviously not a good thing.
"A woman's intuition is very accurate, Mr. Yiming
Regarding Yi Ming¡¯s sarcasm, Stifal showed no change at all.
¡°It¡¯s always good to listen to advice from people who have experienced it.¡±
These words come from a group of harem pink fans who want to occupy a pound. The words of the castle woman are really convincing.
"Okay, let's take a step back.
Ru Lei said that in this world, apart from Meiyali and "that person", who else could make Yi Ming feel powerless to resist, then the female lord Lily in front of him must be one of them.
"I don't think anyone will compromise on this kind of thing. After all, I only have one, and there is only one bed.
Yi Ming shrugged.
"I understand what you mean. What you want to say is that every girl has a desire for exclusivity, and you can't satisfy everyone's desire for exclusivity, right?"
Putting down the tea cup, Stifal began to look at the cake next to her with interest. Obviously, she seemed to have a strong appetite.
"It seems that Mr. Yi Ming, you really don't understand women very well. Do you think that women develop a desire for exclusivity because of love? Let me tell you first, this understanding itself is wrong. We do not develop a desire for exclusivity because of pure love. This point is completely different from that of you men. Men's instinct is to conquer, and you naturally want to possess whatever you fall in love with. But women are different. Our desire for exclusivity is not out of love but uneasiness."
"Uneasy?"
Hearing Stifal¡¯s answer, Yi Ming was a little confused.
"Yes, after all, the world is still dominated by men. Even in Yulia, you can't deny that men are the ones who take the initiative in courtship. Therefore, when it comes to love, men take the initiative. And women But it is different. Even among the long-lived elves, the women among them will not change many male partners in a period that is much longer than that of humans. Therefore, for women, love, to a large extent, is A matter of a lifetime. Then, when men woo them and respond, they will naturally hesitate. After all, this is a choice that affects their lives. So, is this choice the right one? They will be uneasy because they will be uneasy. . That¡¯s why we are afraid of losing, and the desire for exclusivity arises from this. We are afraid of losing. That¡¯s why we emphasize possession.
Having said this, Stifal leaned back on the chair and crossed his fingers.
"At this point, it seems that Lady Mayali obviously does not need to worry. Her desire for exclusivity is not strong, because Lady Maiali understands very well; she is the most important person in your heart, and this is not the case in any case. Will change. So, how can she have to worry about those boring hearts? In my opinion, Lady Mayali can be said to be the most perfect woman in the world, and the two of them have been together for a long time, Maybe Mayali-sama once had an uneasy period, but that period has passed. Mayali-sama has withstood the test and made a choice. It can be said that on the battlefield of love, she is absolute. An undefeatable winner. Therefore, there is no need for her to worry or be uneasy. Because even if she doesn¡¯t say it, everything you have given her will be unmatched by other women.
indeed so. "
Recalling the time when Mayali was always pestering him when she was a child, and even hindered her from talking to other women, Yi Ming felt a sense of identity with Stifal's words.
"Since Lady Mayali is already the winner, then her limits are also very clear."
As Stifal said, he reached out to pick up the knife on the table and gently slid it across the surface of the cake. A small piece was cut off.
"Since she already has most of you. Then she simply doesn't??Mind sharing the little bit you have left with others. Even among women, it can be said that a woman who can surpass Miss Meiyali in appearance, temperament and even personality may not have been born yet. In addition, the relationship between the two
"Anyone who wants to seek power and usurp someone and replace Lady Mayali's personality is just like asking Wuyao Pagoda to no longer rule Yulia. It is simply a fool's errand. So in my opinion, Maiyali-sama can accept sharing your love with people close to her. Of course, whether you admit it or not, most of your love will still be biased towards Maiyali-sama. However, if you pick up a random girl on the street and bring her home and say you want to have a harem. I'm afraid Lady Mayali will never agree. "
Stifal's analysis does make sense. Thinking of the fact that Mayali has always had a non-interference attitude towards Marian's affairs, her words of "turning all the girls in the academy into her harem" would cause confusion. Come her little protest. You know what Stifal said is true.
Is it true that only women can understand women?
Just when Yi Ming was sighing in his heart, Stifal had already cut a small piece of cake and put forward his opinion again.
"Karma" "Moreover, Yi Mingjian, you must also be self-aware."
"Me? Self-conscious? What self-consciousness?"
When Stifal said this, Yi Ming became inexplicable.
"Of course, you must know that you are the one who wants to take in the harem, not Lady Mayali. You must first understand that no matter how much your partner loves you, when it comes to your other women, they all have a limit in their hearts. This It has nothing to do with insecurity and exclusivity. Because after you are combined, you have actually become a small community of destiny. You will advance and retreat together, face failure and victory. In this case, if you cross this limit, they will be The threat of a community of shared destiny. As I said, the limit of Lady Mayali is to accept women who are close to her. The limit of Miss Icefish is not clear to me at the moment. But Miss Marion This aspect makes me very confused. According to my observation, she has almost no limits, which makes me feel very strange."
"No limit?"
Yi Ming frowned and repeated Stifal's words strangely.
"What does it mean to have no limit?"
"That is to say, even if you ask her to serve a man she doesn't like, or let her serve herself with a woman she doesn't like, Miss Marion will do it without hesitation. This is very strange, if she is that For a person with a cowardly character who is easily controlled by others, this kind of limit is understandable. But with Miss Marian's character, this kind of limit is almost impossible to imagine. She must feel that she owes you something. , or something embarrassing happened between the two of you, which made her unable to hold her head high in front of you, Lord Yi Ming, so she acted like this. If you really want to improve the relationship between the two, I'm afraid you still have to Let¡¯s start from this point.¡±
¡°Awkward confession?
Although Stifal still expressed some doubts, Yi Ming had obviously noticed the problem. On that night that changed Marian's life, she tried to trade sex in exchange for her father's life. Obviously, although this incident has passed a long time ago, for Marian, it was still a long time ago. Maybe it has always been deeply imprinted in my mind and cannot be changed. Although the past has passed, what has passed does not exist. The reason why Yi Ming has difficulty facing Marian is probably the same reason. Thinking back on it carefully, although we talked a lot about business matters with Elinoa and Lucia. But in front of him, they don't mind occasionally showing a little girl's unique temperament. But Marian seems to be very sensitive in this regard. She almost never talks to Yi Ming about matters other than official matters. Looking back carefully now, I am afraid Marian is still afraid of such closeness in her heart. Let it be treated as a shameless temptation again. Yi Ming was not unaware of it before, but he did not think as deeply as Stifal did. He thought that as long as Marian forgot about it after a while, everything would be fine. But now it seems that the result is counterproductive.
"No matter what, thank you for your advice."
After realizing the root of the problem, Yi Ming had a sudden realization, but now that he knew the root of the problem, he was no longer in a hurry. After all, the most important thing is right now. Or cure the ice fish and everything else. We can leave it all for later.
But looking at Stifal who was enjoying tea leisurely in front of him, Yi Ming couldn't help but ask.
"But, Miss Stifal, what do you think?"
"Okay"
Since you are willing to pay such a high price to save your wife, I understand that you love her very much. But what do you think about other girls? theyWouldn't you be jealous? not going to be mad? After all, this is a completely unusual love between women. They abandoned the normal path and followed you. At this point, what do you think? "
"As expected of Mr. Yi Ming, the questions he raised are so sharp."
Facing Yi Ming¡¯s question, Stifal was slightly stunned, and then showed a leisurely smile.
¡°Then, I¡¯ll just say it bluntly, they can make me happy, and I can make them happy, it¡¯s that simple.¡±
"This is the basis of love, Mr. Yi Ming. Although we have many theories to explain more specific issues, the attraction between people. Isn't it because staying by the other person's side will make you feel happy? You know, Love is not a charity, just help whomever you see is pitiful. It is precisely because you feel happy when you are by the other person's side that you want to have each other. Your own feelings are always the most important. Moreover, the form of happiness There¡¯s a variety.¡±
Having said this, Stifal rolled his eyes and seemed to have thought of something good.
"I once knew such a man. He maintained a sexual relationship with three or four girls at the same time, but he had no intention of falling in love with any of them. At this time, one of the girls had a crush on Let the man leave the girl he likes and dress up as a woman to get close to the man. Instead, he was pushed down, and in the end he fell in love with the man because of it. So these people stayed in the house every day, immersed in the joy and happiness of sex. Although this kind of happiness in primary and secondary schools seems a bit distorted to us, happiness itself varies from person to person, and more importantly, you have to be honest about your own feelings."
¡°As he spoke, Stifaljian looked out the window.
"After all, happiness is the emotion itself. Only you can understand it."