The great joy made Qin Xuan excited. In one day, he not only had a son, but also a daughter. He heard too many blessings and congratulations today. For the first time, he had a deep understanding of the word "son and daughter". Under the family planning policy in his previous life, many families and parents were unable to experience this. This is a kind of happiness, just like completing a world-wide initiative, and there is a deep sense of satisfaction in the heart.
"Husband, what would you like to name your child?" Beauty Guo asked.
It was completely dark at this time, and the whole family gathered in Qin Xuan's big bedroom. Sister Yuyan and Yuanyuan were lying on the big bed, with the two babies sleeping in the middle, and the two little guys. He was fast asleep, neither crying nor fussing, and was very well-behaved. Even when he woke up, his eyes were open and he didn't know what he was looking at.
In fact, although the children have their eyes open at this time, their vision is very weak, and their perception of the outside world mainly relies on hearing and touch. After his son woke up for the first time, Qin Xuan asked Yuanyuan to breastfeed him. As a doctor, He knows this knowledge. Breastfeeding on demand, especially for the first time, cannot follow some old rules about how long it takes to breastfeed the child. The sooner the child has skin-to-skin contact with the mother and learns to suck milk, the more breast milk can be stimulated. secretion.
Because the secretion of breast milk is small in the first few days after delivery, it is necessary to continue stimulating it in this way to increase the secretion of breast milk. In the future, there will be no shortage of breast milk for the baby. Early exposure is recommended. When the baby is hungry, Just feed, even when the milk is engorged. This is because newborns have small stomach capacity and weak suction power, so they cannot be full at one time, so they need to feed more frequently.
¡°I¡¯ve decided, my son¡¯s name will be Qin Jiajing, and my daughter¡¯s name will be Qin Jiayue,¡± Qin Xuan said.
"What are those words?" Yang Yuyan asked.
"Jia means commendation, which means goodness and beauty. Jing means Jing in the Book of Songs, which means peace and quiet. Yue means joy. What do you think?"
Qin Xuan said with a smile, although Jiajing is a reign name of the Ming Dynasty in later generations, the meaning of the word is very good, kind, beautiful and peaceful. His son is the first child born in the Qin family and he is also the eldest. I hope he can give it to his younger brothers and sisters. Lead a good head. As for his daughter Qin Jiayue, he hopes that she will be kind-hearted and grow up happily. This is also what he means in his heart, and it is also a father's blessing for his child.
"The names are nice and have good meanings. Sister Yan, Sister Yuanyuan, very good. What do you think?" Zi Yu said.
Yu Ji and Eva are both foreigners and do not have a deep understanding of Chinese writing and language. However, as long as their husband says yes, they think it is good. However, as the head of the family, every word Qin Xuan says counts as one sentence. In other words, asking for the opinions of the girls is a sign of respect for them, and both Yuyan and Yuanyuan know this.
"Okay, I like this name too, little Jiajing. Your father has named you Qin Jiajing. From now on, you will be Qin Jiajing. Do you hear it, Jinger?" Beauty Guo said to her son excitedly.
"Well, I agree too. I hope my daughter can grow up happily in the future. I am very satisfied with this name. Thank you husband."
"Wowwow"
As soon as she finished saying this, little Jiayue started to cry. Qin Xuan was so frightened that he quickly picked her up and handed her to Sister Yan. It was estimated that the little one was a little hungry. When she came into contact with her mother's vagina, the little one was Her mouth arched and arched, and she immediately stopped crying. She sucked her mouth and started sucking immediately. The wet nurse Qin Xuan found did not ask them to feed the baby for the time being. She planned to see if the two girls' breast milk was enough after a while. , there is no need for them to feed.
This wet nurse also had her own children. In order to support the family, they gave up feeding their children and chose to be wet nurses. This was also forced by life. However, Qin Xuan did not drive them away. Instead, he stayed at home and ordered them to take care of their children. Bring her to your home, and in the future, when the girls are unable to feed their children in time, they can feed them, and when their children grow up, they can also be playmates for their sons and daughters.
In order to take good care of them, Qin Xuan also hired five women with rich childcare experience. Their children are older and do not need to be breastfed. They usually serve the girls. They are also more experienced than those little maids, at least If you know more about childcare, it will be much easier for the girls and they will not be so tired. It is not easy to raise children. People without money can only raise children by themselves. Rich people say they are their own children, but basically they have several children. Qin Xuan had no choice but to hire more people to make the women more relaxed.
With a child, every day in this family basically revolves around the child. Their crying and fussing affects everyone's heart. Every day passes in a hurry. Little Jiajing and Jiayue are eating and sleeping. He eats when he wakes up. The first thing Qin Xuan does when he gets home every night is to wash up, walk around the room for a while with his two children in his arms, and give them a bath. As long as he is at home, he will do it.?Bathing them by yourself and having more physical contact between father and children will be of great benefit to the physical and mental development of the children.
The full moons of Jiajing and Jiayue happened to be the Yuan Day Festival, and the family did not have a big banquet for guests. They just spent a warm time together. On the sixth day of the first lunar month in the 29th year of Kaiyuan (AD 741), Ziyu gave birth and gave birth to a son named Jiayuan. Rui, the eighteenth day of the first lunar month, Yuji also gave birth to a son, named Jiayi. On the second day of the second lunar month, Eva gave birth to a daughter with black hair, black eyes, fair skin, and a very shaped face, nose, eye sockets, and small mouth. Like Eva.
What Qin Xuan is most worried about is the hair color of his and Eva's child. Although the Tang Dynasty people can accept foreign women with different looks like Eva, she is an adult and has the mental capacity to accept it even if she doesn't accept it. Little Jiaqi is a child. If she has a hair Blonde hair will be laughed at by children of the same age, which is not good for the child's growth. However, when he saw his beautiful daughter with black hair and black eyes, he felt relieved. Although her face still looked like Eva's, this problem was not as big as that of blond hair and blue eyes. a thing.
This issue involves genetics. Chinese people with black hair, black eyes, and yellow skin mostly have dominant genes, while blond hair and blue eyes mostly have recessive genes. When yellow and white people combine, the chance of blond hair and blue eyes is very small, unless Qin Xuan There are also recessive genes. Little Jiaqi is obviously a very beautiful mixed-race child. Although her skin is not as white as Eva, it is still fairer than her brothers and sisters.
"If little Jiaqi had the same eye color as Eva, she might be more beautiful," Miss Guo said. She obviously thought Eva's eyes were beautiful, sapphire-like in color. Qin Xuan jokingly called her a Persian cat.
"Yes, look at how good Jiaqi's skin is. If my daughter had skin like hers, she would be a big beauty in the future." Yang Yuyan said with a smile. This little Jiaqi is indeed very attractive. The black-haired doll, as long as you see her, she will be a beautiful girl. Everyone who has passed her says she is beautiful.
"Two sisters, if you want, I will go to Dashi to find you a daughter-in-law and son-in-law like me, and I will ensure that your grandchildren are as beautiful as Jiaqi," Eva said softly while holding Jiaqi.
"Forget it, my son may not like that kind of wife. If he really likes her, she must be a princess, otherwise there will be no need to talk," Miss Guo said with a smile.
"Yuanyuan, come on, this Dashi is different from the sect we believe in. They will not intermarry with the Tang Dynasty. Don't even think about it, princess. There is still some fun in secretly buying a handsome boy back," Sister Yuyan said with a smile. .
"Then you want Eva to find a big food prince for you and ask Jiayue to marry him?" Beauty Guo asked.
"I'm not willing to give it up. I can't even see my baby after going to Dashi. This is absolutely impossible," Yang Yuyan said quickly.
"You really worry too much. Children and grandchildren will have their own blessings. Who they like in the future has nothing to do with you. Even if you worry, you can only refer to it and cannot forcefully interfere. Our family is a reasonable and equal family. Everyone is equal. Every family has its own rights. When you have nothing to do, you can write a family law. From now on, everything in the family will be in accordance with the family law. Regardless of adults or children, if you make a mistake, you will be punished according to the law." Qin Xuan said with a smile.
A family is a small country, and family laws are equivalent to family rules. However, these family rules are suitable for everyone in the family, including Qin Xuan himself. Doing this is to set an example for the children and let them know what is wrong and what they cannot do. , if you do something wrong, you will be punished. Even parents, like them, must abide by family laws.
"What? Family law? What if you make a mistake?" Miss Guo asked.
"It's the same. If you need to be whipped, you can whip it. If you need to be put in a cell, you should be put in a cell. By the way, this cell is built for one. It's called the "Facing the Wall" room. For this, you arrange for people to choose a room in the guest room and transform it into a cell. Children After the age of twelve, children begin to be protected and punished by the law just like adults," Qin Xuan said.
This is a kind of education method. Adults are children¡¯s first teachers. In fact, many of children¡¯s problems and bad habits are mostly imitated by adults. If a child is not good, you cannot just blame the child for being disobedient. You must also look for the faults from the adults themselves. What's wrong is that the people who have the greatest influence on children in their lives are their parents, so as parents, you must set an example. When you don't have children, you don't need to consider these things, but when you have offspring, you must consider them. Qin Xuan doesn't want his own The son and daughter will later become a playboy.
"Husband, isn't this a bit unhuman? It's a bit too much to put him in a real cell," Yang Yuyan said.
"That's right, brother, this is a bit too harsh. If we make a mistake and are put in a cell, it will be embarrassing," Zi Yu said.
"I think this is very good. There is no rule without rules. It is the same regardless of family or country. I agree," Eva said, raising her hand.
"I also agree with your husband's suggestion," Yu Ji also raised her hand and said.
¡°If your husband makes mistakes and is punished like us, I agree,¡± Miss Guo said with a smile.
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"I also agree with your husband's suggestion," Yu Ji also raised her hand and said.
¡°If your husband makes mistakes and is punished like us, I agree,¡± Miss Guo said with a smile.
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