"Actually, when I said that I wanted to invite someone to come and get acquainted with the children at home, I didn't necessarily expect our family to produce a writer or scientist. The main thing was to hear about the boy's past and what problems he encountered while growing up. , how did I solve it, let the little ones in our family consider the problem from another angle? It is said that the environment affects the personality, it can be regarded as subtle, but I did not want to invite a composition tutor. " There is some truth in what He Qifang said. He Qifang should not continue to secretly belittle Yang Yi on this topic. Moreover, these truths were spoken by an adult, not by Jiang Nan, a person who is deeply involved in the feelings of his children. The object The difference made He Qifang free from the initial irritation and began to examine whether she was too biased. Why would my granddaughter, who has always been a well-behaved, sensible, gentle and pleasant person in my heart, never deal with me on this issue? And in front of so many people today, she almost didn't announce directly that her relationship with that boy was actually not normal. Is such a fierce confrontation necessarily the child's fault At this moment, Jiang Nan's cousin, who teaches at the university, also rarely spoke in front of everyone, echoing Jiang Nan's words: "I think sister-in-law There is some truth to that. There are now studies and surveys that show that the correlation between a person's achievements in this life and his or her IQ is not as big as people think, but is related to another relatively new concept called The factor of "emotional intelligence" is very relevant. This "emotional intelligence" refers to a series of qualities of people in terms of mood, emotion, willpower, and resistance to frustration. The emotional intelligence between people starts from childhood. Count on it. During that time when mature concepts have not yet been formed, there is actually not much difference. In other words, IQ is naturally higher or lower, but emotional intelligence is different. However, in the upbringing, people in different families and different environments. There will be a shockingly significant difference in emotional intelligence. This research result was received from the University of Nottingham in the UK and Stanford University in the United States by the psychology major of Yanda. Relevant research and investigation have already begun in China. At this stage, Judging from the survey results, the concept of emotional intelligence is very necessary and accurate. This is what we often say, the environment affects the character, and the character determines the destiny. If we can learn from a person whose growth trajectory is very different from that of ordinary children. If we have learned something, then as long as our children understand even one tenth of what others have learned, they will benefit a lot. " If in this family, who else is the old lady willing to listen to on issues other than officialdom? Opinion, then there is only Jiang Nan’s cousin. The old man has participated in the revolution since he was a child, and he probably inherited many people of this generation. In particular, high-ranking officials and dignitaries have awe of knowledge and respect for academic scholars. Therefore, although Jiang Nan's cousin is not yet considered the top group in the academic world, He Qifang is willing to listen to his opinions. In other words, it cannot be said to be obeyed, but used as a reference for suggestions, but it is already different from the attitude towards other family members. Now I heard my cousin say this. Although her opinion of Yang Yi was still not positive, the old lady of the Jiang family nodded in the end: "Your statement does make some sense. A difficult environment can indeed make a person better. But it is also because of all the difficulties he experienced when he was a child. environment. So I am afraid that these people are too utilitarian and do things with too much purpose." Although He Qifang still refuses to let go, He Qifang may not have some reflections in his heart. Could it be that his granddaughter has really become rebellious in adolescence? Have you obeyed? She doesn't understand that the stronger the rebound, the less likely she is to agree with her current thoughts, and will it create a heavier and crueler pressure on the relationship between the two children? Obviously not, this girl is not that stupid. Although she has the toughest temper in her bones, but in terms of dealing with people, she is not tactful but smart, unsophisticated but clever. When she encounters setbacks, she will choose a more rounded path. . But why should we risk being severely controlled by ourselves to fight against ourselves this time? If she had other options, how could a girl whose parents were not around be willing to take on a stance of fighting against everything? In the face of this gesture, was he too arbitrary? He kept saying it was for her own good, but he didn't take her thoughts and feelings into consideration at all? Thinking of this, He Qifang still felt a little regretful, but at this time, she naturally couldn't admit it, so she nodded towards Aunt Jiang Nan and her cousin: "You have thought more carefully. After all, you drank more than me. Someone who has been doing ink for several years." Seeing the old lady suddenly acting uncharacteristically and feeling a little self-reflective, Aunt Jiang Nan naturally wanted to say something good next to her: "Oh, look at what Mom said, if you say Xuancheng is not wrong, I will read it alone. How can a person who has studied in a technical secondary school for three years have drank ink? Compared with your current status as a vice principal, it’s better that no one calls me illiterate.” This is a joke.Let the atmosphere explode and everyone laughs at her. After Jiang Ying secretly glanced at her grandma's face, she also praised her mother's coaxing skills in her heart. They have been talking to each other for so many years, but they haven't realized that their mother has three of Wang Xifeng's skills. Exactly at this moment, the picture on the TV changed from the other side of the earth thousands of miles away to the intoxicating autumn scenery of the Jiangnan water town. Especially Jiang Nan and several other people who had been to Yuezhou Xizhi were stunned when they saw the picture: "Isn't this? Isn't this a newly developed ancient town in Yuezhou? I went to pick Nan up last time. I played it once when I was in Nan, what is it called" As the scenes flowed, the voice-over on the TV also appeared at the right time: "With the development of the national economy, the construction of spiritual civilization in many areas and the inheritance of five thousand The Chinese tradition that has existed for many years has faintly shown a phenomenon of discontinuity. This phenomenon may not be obvious yet, but it is a common concern for all Chinese people. In Yuezhou, there is such an ancient town named Xizhi. Between the swing between economic development and preserving tradition, a new but highly feasible path has been found, nourishing the present with history, and shaping a new image of China with traditional culture. This is what our reporter saw in Xizhi. The scene" The scene changed, showing the pavilions and pavilions in the water town. The white walls and black tiles are hidden in the clear gurgling water. Just a wide-angle lens swept over it, and the aura that has been passed down for thousands of years came to my face. What the northerners saw was yearning for the fireworks in Yangzhou in March, but what the southern travelers experienced was the longing for their hometown. But regardless of the south or the north, at this moment, what came out of the hearts of the audience was the longing for the past. Being close is something that China has inherited for a long time and is the blood flowing in the soul of the nation. "The above set of shots is what the reporter saw during the interview in Xizhi Ancient Town in Yuezhou. When the residents of the ancient town walked out of their self-isolated Peach Blossom Spring and exchanged for a better life with the rich resources left by their ancestors, they did not forget to While accumulating wealth, you can better protect your hometown. In the process of protecting the ancient town, a role that played a vital role is the developer of the ancient town, Yangyi Culture" "Hey, why is it Yangyi Culture again. ? Isn’t it related to that classmate of yours?” The Jiang family members looked at the screen and listened to the introduction. I was completely stunned. "When we, Yangyi Tourism, signed a development contract with the district government and local people under our jurisdiction, we clearly included the protection of historical monuments in the terms. In order to better protect the ancient town, we let these beautiful pearls in the Jiangnan water town. It is presented to everyone in the most original and simple manner. At the beginning of the development, experts and professors from well-known universities such as Yanda University and Aurora were specially invited to make comprehensive coordination and maintenance of the ancient town. The initial progress of the design work has been very slow. After all, it is not the same as other scenic spots. It only needs to build a few ropeways, determine some tourist routes, and then attract investment to contract out the relevant service industries in the scenic spot. Yangyi Culture and Yangyi The concept of tourism is to protect and develop together with the local people in scenic spots" Looking at Fatty Luo chatting on the TV screen, Jiang Nan couldn't help it anymore, and burst out laughing, thinking about this The fat brother is still good at fooling people, but after he appeared on TV, he did the same thing. He Qifang next to him was confused for a moment, and Er couldn't help but shook his head: "Isn't this the boy from the old Luo family? Why" When the words came to her lips, she realized that she wanted to say that she had also entered Yangyi. culture. In fact, if she knew that her precious granddaughter had a closer relationship with Yang Yi because of this fat man, she didn't know whether the old lady would immediately call the old man of the Luo family and viciously kill the other person's family. The grandson was scolded. "Actually, to be honest, at the beginning, this plan of protecting first and then developing was also proposed by another founder of Yangyi Culture, Yang Yi, who won this year's Booker Prize" Luo Ge's words made Everyone who had just been shocked by the child who appeared in London City Hall was stunned again. Even Zhang Qi, the most calm person in the room who had been watching the Jiang family discussing Jiang Nan's classmate, could not do anything. Continuing free and easy, I looked down at the so-called young writers from a superior perspective. If you’re just a writer, that’s fine. Reputation may be very important in today’s country, but it’s definitely not the most important thing. Not to mention the power at a higher level, even with the power that the Zhang family controls, they can easily crush the so-called young genius writer into a prototype. But now it seems that the other party is not just proficient in writing. Is it really that simple for a boy who can do this series of things at the age of dancing like an elephant? Now it was Director Zhang’s turn to ask Jiang Nan with an obscure expression.The first situation: "Xiaonan, that classmate of yours does seem to be a lot ahead of his peers." "Nonsense, is it easy to operate this time? I didn't tire myself out." Xizhi Ancient Town has been preserved since the founding of Yangyi Tourism. In a courtyard that serves as the office location of a subsidiary of Yangyi Culture, the fat president was leaning on a recliner leisurely, shaking his head proudly at Xiaomi Wei'an. : "These days, before and after running around, I have integrated all the resources together to hype up our company." But in Wei An's eyes, his pride was clearly a villain's success, and it was still The kind of villain who picks up sesame seeds but loses watermelons is successful: "Huh, a mayor's position changed in a few minutes of news. My Mr. Luo, you are so embarrassed."