"Huh!" Li Liping and Liu Jingjing exhaled deeply at the same time, then they held Jin Yanmu's front and back solemnly and began to input their own magic power. "Buzz!" A buzzing sound sounded, and as the sound sounded, the surface of Jin Yanmu lit up with an extremely bright orange-red color. Li Liping and Liu Jingjing input the mana into Jin Yanmu, activating Jin Yanmu. "Well!" As the mana continued to be input, Li Liping and Liu Jingjing gradually showed color on their faces, because they clearly felt that there were some obstacles in the mana they input into Jin Yanmu. These obstacles do not seem to be very eye-catching, and there is no obstacle to Li Liping and Liu Jingjing's mana input into Jin Yanmu. However, these obstacles are like rat droppings in the soup pot, directly destroying the entire pot of soup, leaving Li Liping and Liu Jingjing Jingjing felt extremely uncomfortable. "Chao Gang, we have found anomalies. Indeed, there are many anomalies in Jin Yanmu!" What made Li Liping and Liu Jingjing feel extremely uncomfortable were the anomalies hidden in Jin Yanmu. In Li Liping and Liu Jingjing's eyes, When the input of mana was hindered, Li Liping and Liu Jingjing knew this. "Very good, Pingping, Jingjing, well done!" Zhao Chaogang would not hesitate to praise him for doing something right: "Jin Yanmu is related to whether the refining of the talisman pen is successful, so we are checking the golden Yanmu. At this time, we should not only focus on the surface of Jinyan wood, but also check the inside of Jinyan wood. Only when the surface and inside of Jinyan wood are perfect, can we use Jinyan wood with confidence, and can Jinyan wood be truly It will become our spiritual material for refining the talisman. Now that you have found all the anomalies in Jin Yanmu, it is time to expel these anomalies. Pingping and Jingjing, I will leave this matter to you. "Okay, I'll watch from the side." Now that I'm ready to cultivate Li Liping and Liu Jingjing's weapon-refining abilities. Those things that Zhao Chaogang could do were directly handed over to Li Liping and Liu Jingjing. "Let us handle it?" Li Liping and Liu Jingjing asked in disbelief. "Yeah, what's the problem? Pingping, Jingjing, you should be able to handle these things, show up with courage!" Zhao Chaogang encouraged Li Liping and Liu Jingjing on the side. "Okay okay!" Zhao Chaogang's encouragement gave Li Liping and Liu Jingjing strong confidence. They mustered up the courage to agree to Zhao Chaogang, but a promise was a promise, but in their hearts. There was still a little hesitation, so when Li Liping and Liu Jingjing answered, they were not so confident. "Don't worry, Pingping, Jingjing, I'm still with you. I will teach you how to understand the anomalies in Jin Yanmu. Don't worry!" Zhao Chaogang continued to encourage Li Liping and Liu Jingjing, as long as they take a step forward If you take the first step, the rest of the way will be easy. The same principle applies to life. As long as you take the first step bravely, you will soon find that the rest of your life journey is so smooth! Sometimes no matter what they do, many people are afraid to take the first step¡ª¡ª! In fact, taking the first step is not as difficult as we imagined, as long as you are active and brave. If you clear away the psychological obstacles, you will naturally break through yourself! take the first step. Work hard to walk the next road and reap a beautiful life. Tall buildings rise from the ground. There must be a first in everything. However, many people are afraid of being first and afraid of starting. When people start to learn to walk, the first step is the hardest to take; when it comes to learning, the first word is the hardest to learn; when doing business, the first 10,000 yuan is the hardest to earn so people often say : "Everything is difficult at the beginning." But if you don't take the first step, how can you learn to walk? How do you know you won¡¯t succeed if you don¡¯t take the first step? The first fall and wrestling made us remember the pain; the first time we learned to walk made us realize the hardships of life; the first time we called dad and mom made us remember our benefactor forever; A failure and setback make us taste the more effort behind success. The first time countless first times made us try, and also made us understand a lot Take the first step bravely and try hard. Even if you fail, it is the beginning of success. Those who take the first step bravely will never come back disappointed. Being timid and timid will never achieve great things. Only those who dare to pioneer and always be at the forefront are the real heroes. ¡°When faced with opportunities, we must have the courage to be the first to seize them. Maybe we will be a little timid, but when we think of the bright future, we will continue to have the courage and go forward with confidence. It can be said that no one knows everything from birth. Only through exploration and hard work can success be achieved, and each stage of this process requires the courage to take the first step. Just like a thousand-mile horse, its speed does not depend on future training, but depends on birth.The first step of ?. When the foal was first born, it was like a stick fished out of a puddle. It tried hard to support its forelimbs and tried to stand up, but it soon fell down. Up and down, up again, again and again. At this time, the mare stepped forward and blew out her nose at the wet pony, as if to encourage her, but also to say: Come again, rely on yourself. The pony smelled its mother's scent and pushed harder, raising its two hind legs. His four legs were bent and spread apart, and then he fell heavily. This was repeated several times, and the pony finally stood still, took a few steps towards its mother, and then fell down again. When the mare saw the foal walking towards her, she did not greet her, but stepped back. When the foal took a step closer, she took a step back; when the foal fell, she took another step forward but never helped. . Someone saw the mare tossing the foal like this and deliberately causing such a young life to suffer. He wanted to go over and help the foal, but the horse breeder stopped him and said: "If you help it, it will be broken. If you help it, the horse will be broken." It will never become a good horse in its lifetime. At most, it will be a disabled horse with sound limbs. "The name of this story is "The best is helped but not helped." The waterfall cascaded down from the cliff, like a curtain of sparkling beads, and the thunderous roar shook the whole mountain. People all let out a cry of admiration. However, when someone climbed to the top of the cliff, they found that it was just a gentle stream. It is so ordinary. Along the way, it gathers bits and pieces of spring water. If it doesn't take that step and rush down the cliff, it can only flow silently in the mountain stream and become an ordinary river. When you clench your fists, you find that there are still springs. Isn't that what life is like if half of your hands are not grasped? Half of it is a life that has been arranged, but the other half is earned and grasped by oneself. God will not favor anyone. After He gives, He will All the initiative has been given to us. "A good start is half the battle." This sentence is absolutely true. As long as you take the first step bravely, success will be right in front of you. Sixty-three-year-old Cha from the United States Mrs. Smith spent more than three months walking more than 2,000 kilometers by herself from New York to Miami, Florida. The two cities are so far apart that even flying takes nearly two and a half hours. A sixty-three-year-old man walked over on his own feet, which was really shocking. In Miami, Mrs. Charles faced the reporters¡¯ cameras. She was smiling and making a ¡°V¡± gesture confidently. Reporters were curious about how she completed the journey. She smiled and replied: "It's very simple. Step up with your left foot first, then your right foot, and walk forward alternately." The reporter asked her how she mustered up the courage to complete such a long distance. , Mrs. Charles said: "The key is to take the first step. It doesn't take any courage to take a step. It does take some courage to go so far. When I decided to set off from New York, I made up my mind Determination, I must complete the journey. Now that I have walked through it, I realize that this is not a miracle, but a kind of persistence. This is because there are many people who have the same dream of hiking. , and they were intimidated by the word 'distant'. Before they even set off, they fell down at the first step. "It turns out that there are two views on the distance. One is the physical distance. , one is psychological distance. Overcoming physical distance is easier if you take action, no matter what it takes. You will eventually reach the other side of your dreams, but it is much more difficult to overcome the psychological distance. This is the key factor that determines whether you have the courage to move forward. No matter what you do. There are always difficulties. Take the first step, and if you encounter difficulties on the way, you must do everything possible to overcome them. There are always more ways than difficulties, and you will reach your destination one day. If you think too much about difficulties and are intimidated by them before you encounter them, you will never get rid of the fearful mentality. Difficulties are always obstacles in front of you. Thoughts determine direction, actions determine destiny. Thoughts but no action are just wasted efforts. Taking action is the key to achieving your goals. The famous American success scholar Napoleon Hill once said: "Remember, your only limit is the limit you set in your mind." Believe in yourself. Break the restrictions, act bravely, take the first step, and you will always succeed. For another example, you are a newcomer who has just started working. As a novice at work, if you want to be able to do your job smoothly, time is one factor, and not flinching when encountering difficulties is a more important condition. No one knows everything from birth, only through exploration and hard work can we achieve success, and every stage of this process requires the courage to take the first step of exploration. Taking the first step bravely, even if you encounter setbacks, at least proves that this path is incorrect, which also clears an obstacle to success. ?According to the original statement, as long as you complete your duties step by step, you are a good employee.But modern society no longer simply measures a person's abilities and qualities by such standards. "Relying solely on others to arrange work for you is ultimately passive. If you want to make progress, you must learn to move forward proactively and strive to explore your potential abilities. Maybe there are some things we have never done, but this does not mean that we cannot do these things. The key lies in whether you want to do it and whether you dare to take this step. Between two people on the same starting line, who takes the first step? Whoever takes the first step will take the initiative. No matter what goal we want to achieve, we must always take the first step bravely, whether it is success or failure. If we dare not take the first step because we are afraid of failure, we will always fail. Many doors to success are actually ajar. As long as you have the courage to knock on the door, take the first brave step, and walk in boldly, despite the ups and downs. But what is presented in front of you is probably a brand new world. Maybe there are some things we have never done, but that doesn¡¯t mean we can¡¯t do them. The key is whether you want to do it and whether you dare to take this step. Two people on the same starting line, who takes the first step? Who will take the initiative. When you establish a good mentality and always take the first step confidently and without fear, then your business, your market, your blog or your life will be ignited. Don't move forward blindly - ¡ª Have a plan ¡ª but don¡¯t be afraid to take the first step. Otherwise you will fall further and further behind the world. ¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ Zhao Chaogang is very clear about the difficulty of the first step, especially The first step of something as difficult as refining a weapon is even more difficult. Therefore, Zhao Chaogang was always there to care for Li Liping and Liu Jingjing and encourage them. Only in this way will Pingping and Jingjing have enough courage to take this first step. "Pingping, Jingjing, let's clear these knots on the Jinyan wood first. This is the simplest, I believe you can do it!" Zhao Chaogang encouraged Li Liping and Liu Jingjing on the side, so that Li Liping and Liu Jingjing's My excited heart couldn't help but feel a lot more relaxed. Liu Jingjing and Li Liping now feel as if they are taking an important exam. Their hearts were beating very fast. This was their first time refining weapons, so Li Liping and Liu Jingjing couldn't help but be excited. ¡°Okay¡.Okay¡!¡± Li Liping and Liu Jingjing were still very excited, so when they answered Zhao Chaogang, their words were a bit choppy. "Pingping, Jingjing, come here. Take the Golden Yanmu and try to clear these knots on it!" Zhao Chaogang handed the Baijin Yanmu to Li Liping and Liu Jingjing with encouraging eyes. Li Liping and Liu Jingjing couldn't help but take it. ??Looking at the Jin Yanmu in his hand. Li Liping and Liu Jingjing looked at each other, and then they looked at Zhao Chaogang. Zhao Chaogang's eyes were full of encouragement for them. The two finally mustered up the courage to hold Jin Yanmu with both hands. "Buzz!" A buzzer sounded, and Li Liping and Liu Jingjing took the first step in refining the weapon. "Very good, keep the mana output smooth, and then guide your mana toward the bumps on the surface of the Jin Yan Wood. Then when your mana reaches the location of the Jin Yan Wood bumps, transform your mana into knives. He looked like he was cutting the knots on the surface of the Jinyan wood very carefully, and the speed should be slower, so that it is easier to operate. " As Li Liping and Liu Jingjing began to refine the weapon, Zhao Chaogang was on the side, telling Li Liping and Liu Jingjing how to remove it! It was the first time for Li Liping and Liu Jingjing to make weapons about the bumps on the surface of Jinyan wood, so Zhao Chaogang explained it in detail. With Zhao Chaogang's detailed explanation, Li Liping and Liu Jingjing soon knew how to do it. Following Zhao Chaogang's words, the two of them very gently input the mana into the Jin Yanmu, and then controlled the mana toward the Jin Yanmu. The bumps on the surface went away. After their mana came into contact with the bumps, Li Liping and Liu Jingjing first took a deep breath, and then started the next step, which was to condense the mana into the shape of a knife. "Buzzing!" Another buzz sounded from the surface of Jin Yanmu. However, this time the buzz was different from the last one that was very smooth. This time the buzz was It was intermittent until five seconds later that the beeps became continuous, and after two seconds the beeps disappeared. The beeping will become intermittent because Li Liping and Liu Jingjing are working hard to turn the mana they input into Jin Yanmu into the shape of a knife. Fortunately, Li Liping and Liu Jingjing have experience in condensing mana into a knife before, like When testing the power of their magic power, Li Liping and Liu Jingjing condensed their magic power into the shape of a sword. Therefore, Li Liping and Liu Jingjing condensed their magic power into the shape of a sword.?Jingjing is experienced. However, these experiences are from Li Liping and Liu Jingjing's experience in condensing mana into swords in the air. They have no experience in condensing mana into swords in spiritual materials. Therefore, Li Liping and Liu Jingjing have just begun to condense mana into swords. There are still some difficulties with the shape. However, with their previous experience of condensing mana into a sword in the air, it was not that difficult for Li Liping and Liu Jingjing to condense their mana into a sword shape inside the golden flame wood. In just a few seconds, Li Liping and Liu Jingjing made it Very smoothly, the mana he input into Jin Yanmu was condensed into the shape of a knife. Once he saw that Pingping and Jingjing had condensed their magic power into the shape of a knife, Zhao Chaogang finally let out a sigh of relief, and the matter came to this. This time the weapon refining has been successful at the third level. "Very good, Pingping, Jingjing, you have condensed your magic power into the shape of a knife, so. Next, you use your own consciousness to control these knife-shaped magic powers, and slowly and very gently remove the metal. Pay attention to the bumps on the surface of Yanmu. The key point here is that the consciousness must always monitor the surface of Jin Yanmu and control the knife!" Zhao Chaogang explained to Li Liping and Liu Jingjing what to do next. Some highlights of what to do. In this way, Li Liping and Liu Jingjing will be more successful in the next weapon refining. It¡¯s like when a teacher is teaching students some difficult points, while the students are doing test questions related to these difficult points, the teacher is carefully explaining the issues that need attention. Or difficult points, it is of great benefit for students to master this difficult point. This kind of education method is also an education method that students like very much, because it is easy to understand! "Chaogang, we understand!" After answering Zhao Chaogang's words, Li Liping and Liu Jingjing began to look pale. Now they are about to start the actual refining of weapons, that's why Li Liping and Liu Jingjing look so serious. Because of the next action. It will be explained whether their weapon refining was successful this time. Whether it was to prove themselves or to live up to Chao Gang's expectations of them, Li Liping and Liu Jingjing did not want to fail. Therefore. At this moment, the expressions of Li Liping and Liu Jingjing were unprecedentedly serious. "Buzz buzz!" An extremely slight buzz sounded, and Zhao Chaogang knew it. This is when Pingping and Jingjing started to refine weapons, so. Soon, Zhao Chaogang's consciousness directly enveloped the golden flame wood. "Swish!" There was an extremely slight sound in Zhao Chaogang's consciousness that was difficult for ordinary people to hear. Even if these sounds are detected by the most advanced sonar in modern times, they may not be detectable. However, in Under Zhao Chaogang's consciousness, these sounds could not escape Zhao Chaogang's ears. The most modern sonar cannot detect the existence of these sounds, which shows how much spiritual investment Li Liping and Liu Jingjing put into this time. Otherwise, the sound of mana cutting the surface of Jinyan wood would not be so slight. "Very good, very good, that's it!" Zhao Chaogang praised secretly on the side. It was obvious that Li Liping and Liu Jingjing did a pretty good job this time. "Swiss!" It was still those extremely light sounds. Li Liping and Liu Jingjing seemed to have never heard them, and they were still concentrating on the refining. With every swipe sound, on the surface of Jin Yanmu, There will be orange-red fireworks a few centimeters high and a few millimeters thick. This is caused by the knots on the surface of the golden flame wood being cut off by magic power. The bumps on the surface of Jinyan wood are very small, and Li Liping and Liu Jingjing are so careful in cutting, so the things cut by Li Liping and Liu Jingjing are usually in powder form. These powdery things With the influence of Li Liping and Liu Jingjing's output of mana, it was directly discharged into the air, so this scene was formed. "Huh, Huh!" As time went by, Li Liping and Liu Jingjing's breathing began to quicken. After all, they were only cultivators at the first level of the Qi Refining Stage, and the magic power on their bodies was not that strong, so , only less than one-third of the pimple spots were cleared, and the mana on Li Liping and Liu Jingjing was exhausted. "Pingping, Jingjing, stop to restore your magic power first, and then continue to remove the knots on the Jinyan wood!" Zhao Chaogang's spiritual consciousness has been staring at Li Liping and Liu Jingjing, so Zhao Chaogang knows their current state. It was clear that in order to prevent Pingping and Jingjing from having any problems due to lack of mana, Zhao Chaogang asked Li Liping and Liu Jingjing to stop and restore their mana first. Anyway, in the refining industry, such things often happen, which can be regarded as letting Li Liping and Liu Jingjing get familiar with each other in advance. "Huh!" After taking a deep breath, Li Liping and Liu Jingjing let go of Jin Yanmu's hands, and they finally opened their eyes. Li Liping and Liu Jingjing looked at each other and said ?The other person's eyes were full of satisfaction and joy. No wonder Li Liping and Liu Jingjing¡¯s eyes were full of satisfaction and joy, because their first weapon refining could be said to be extremely successful, which meant that they lived up to Zhao Chaogang¡¯s hard work. "Pa bang bang!" A burst of applause sounded in the ears of Li Liping and Liu Jingjing. This was Zhao Chaogang's applause. "Not bad, not bad. It's really good that you can achieve such results in your first refining. Pingping, Jingjing, I'm very satisfied with your refining this time!" Zhao Chaogang praised Li Liping and Liu Jingjing. "Thank you. Chao Gang!" Li Liping and Liu Jingjing had a blush on their faces. Zhao Chaogang praised them like this, which made them a little embarrassed. "Don't be sorry, you did a good job indeed!" Zhao Chaogang continued with a smile: "Pingping, Jingjing, your consumption is a bit high now. So, you'd better take the elixir first and restore your mana. Wait for the gold." These bumps on the surface of Yanmu need you to remove them! " "Yes, Chao Gang, we understand!" After speaking, Li Liping and Liu Jingjing looked at each other, their eyes full of fighting spirit An hour and a half later, Li Liping and Liu Jingjing were covered in sweat, but they looked at the Golden Flame Wood in front of them with happy faces. The knots on the surface of the Golden Flame Wood were finally removed by the two of them. "Huh, Huh!" Li Liping and Liu Jingjing were really exhausted from the continuous output of mana for nearly two hours. Looking at the way they are panting now, you can tell that Li Liping and Liu Jingjing are indeed very tired. "Chao Gang, we succeeded!" Tired is tired. However, seeing that Jin Yanmu was finally refined by the two of them, Li Liping and Liu Jingjing's hearts were filled with the joy of success. In life, you must have tasted the joy of success and the bitterness of failure. The key is how you face and overcome it. The taste of lemon is sour and the taste of spring water is sweet. The taste of autumn is cool, and the taste of medicine is bitteron the tip of the tongue. We can taste; in season, we can taste many flavors. In life, we can also taste countless flavors, just like the joy of success, it is so sweet! "Success" is a sonorous and powerful word, a word full of pride and ambition, and a word with beauty. If you want to succeed, you must work hard. Success without hard work is incomplete. You must go through some ups and downs before you can see the rainbow! Success is joyful. Everyone has experienced success. Every success also means a breakthrough. ?Everyone has successes and failures. But the energy in the joy of success is truly intoxicating. However, this sweetness is often accompanied by bitterness. "How can you taste the sweetness without enduring the bitterness?" Which successful person has not gone through arduous training and tasted the sweetness from the difficulties. Success is a drop of nectar that nourishes people's hearts; success is a breeze that removes impurities from people's hearts; success is a jar of honey that leaves people with endless sweetness; success is a smile that gives people joy and joy. Success is like a marshmallow that melts in your mouth, becomes sweet, penetrates deep into your heart, and becomes a beautiful memory in your life; success is a double-edged sword that helps you quell the arrogance of others; success is a kind of The wonderful melody stimulates your potential and allows you to roam in the melody of success; success is an unparalleled joy, which is like a dessert that you can taste and leave you with endless aftertaste; success is an ever-changing thing, But she will give people the same charm, which is joy. Behind a successful person, it is inevitable that he has experienced countless failures, but there is always a belief that supports the successful person - don't give up! It doesn't matter if you fall, you can stand up again, but thankfully you don't fall in the same place. Only success achieved in failure is more meaningful success, and only then can we taste the unique joy after success. Success is what everyone is looking forward to, and it is difficult to describe the joy behind success. Through this year's handicraft competition, I have experienced the joy of success, and also tasted the hardship behind success. I know that success does not come easily in life. On the road, everyone wants to succeed and try to avoid failure. But failure is always inevitable, and it is this failure that can lead us to success step by step. "Success" and "failure" are not just two different words, but also a gap. Only those who persevere will close the distance to success and taste the joy of success. This is what people call " "Failure is the mother of success." Li Liping and Liu Jingjing also fully felt the sweetness of success, and this sweetness was obtained with their favorite person Chao Gang, which made Li Liping and Liu Jingjing even more happy in their hearts. "Chao Gang, weIt was a success! "Liu Jingjing pounced directly on Zhao Chaogang. I don't know where Liu Jingjing got this strength. Liu Jingjing was so weak just now that she seemed to be about to fall to the ground, but now she still has the strength to pounce on Zhao Chaogang. , it seems that human potential is indeed unlimited! "Okay. Well, my Jingjing and Pingping are so capable! " Zhao Chaogang hugged Liu Jingjing and began to praise Li Liping and Liu Jingjing. Zhao Chaogang was very satisfied with Li Liping and Liu Jingjing's weapon refining. Especially in the end, Li Liping and Liu Jingjing expelled Jin Yan. Zhao Chaogang was extremely satisfied with Li Liping and Liu Jingjing's dedicated attitude when they discovered the abnormal points in their inner strength. In fact, Zhao Chaogang didn't have high expectations for Li Liping and Liu Jingjing's first weapon refining. , Even if it fails, it doesn't matter. Zhao Chaogang won't say anything when the time comes. It doesn't matter if he fails for the first time. As long as his attitude is correct, there is a possibility of success in the future. What Zhao Chaogang valued about Li Liping and Liu Jingjing's weapon refining was actually Li Liping and Liu Jingjing's attitude toward the weapon refining. As long as their attitudes were correct, Zhao Chaogang didn't care about other things at all. However, what he didn't expect was that in the end. Pingping and Jingjing gave him such a big surprise. Not only were Li Liping and Liu Jingjing's weapon refining attitude extremely correct, but they also succeeded in refining the weapon in one go, which was much better than Zhao Chaogang's before. I know that when Zhao Chaogang tried to refine weapons for the first time, he failed a dozen times before succeeding. Compared with Li Liping and Liu Jingjing who succeeded in just one attempt, Zhao Chaogang seemed to be a little worse at doing fine work. . Women do have advantages over men, just like in refining spiritual materials. Zhao Chaogang believes that with the same cultivation level, the spiritual materials refined by Pingping and Jingjing are definitely better than those refined by him. It stands to reason that women are so much more careful than men. Among the masters of weapon refining or alchemy in the world of cultivation, women should have the upper hand. However, as a result, 90% of the masters of weapon refining or alchemy among cultivators are. Nine are men, why is this? In fact, the answer is very simple, that is, women are much less focused on things than men. After several years or decades of practice, many women cannot stand it, while men can¡¯t stand it. It can be tolerated. They have the patience and determination to practice for decades. In addition, women's physical fitness is indeed lower than that of men. As a result, men have a great advantage in cultivation. The greater the advantage of men in cultivation will inevitably lead to men being stronger than women in cultivation. A man with strong cultivation will also be strong in refining weapons, because he has enough time and energy to refine weapons. People with low cultivation levels are too busy cultivating, so how can they have time to refine weapons? Therefore, even if women are much better than men in fine work, in the world of cultivation, the master of weapon refining is on the ninth level. Jiu is still a man! "Pingping, Jingjing, I am very satisfied with the results of this weapon refining. You must continue to work hard in the future!" "Zhao Chaogang plans to develop Pingping and Jingjing into the direction of masters of weapon refining in the future. In this case, it will also make Pingping and Jingjing feel more confident to a certain extent. Zhao Chaogang has surpassed Li Liping and Liu Jingjing in cultivation before. , and if the current situation continues, the gap in cultivation between Zhao Chaogang, Li Liping, and Liu Jingjing will only become wider and wider. In this case, it will be very difficult for Zhao Chaogang, Li Liping, and Liu Jingjing to get along with each other in the future. If the gap between the two parties is too big, there will definitely be problems between the couple in the end. Maybe the couple will not divorce because of this, but the warmth of the home will be much less. This is definitely not what Zhao Chaogang thought. What you need to see is that since he is married to Pingping and Jingjing, the family they form must be very warm! Therefore, Zhao Chaogang plans to train Li Liping and Liu Jingjing to become masters of weapon refining, so that he can make weapons in the future. They can't compare to Pingping and Jingjing. Even if they are higher than Pingping and Jingjing in cultivation, Pingping and Jingjing won't have any bad thoughts in their hearts, because when it comes to refining weapons, they have to Weaker than them, he has to rely on Pingping and Jingjing for weapon refining. It can be said that Zhao Chaogang has put in a lot of effort for this family. Some people may say that Zhao Chaogang's efforts are not worth it. Tired or something, if you really say that, your family will definitely not be warm, because when family members get along, or between husband and wife, it is impossible to care whether you pay more or the other party pays more. If you or the other party have such thoughts in their hearts, the final result will definitely be the breakdown of the family. What's more, since you are the head of the family, you should devote more to the family.??You are called the head of the family! The same is true for Zhao Chaogang, so Zhao Chaogang is willing to pay for these efforts! Marriage is like a siege. People on the outside want to get in, but people on the inside want to get out. They say marriage is the grave of love. No matter how beautiful love is, it will be buried when it enters marriage. When love comes to real life, it will inevitably be overwhelmed by firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. After passion, it becomes dull and love fades away, but life must go on. What kind of mentality should you use to face it? It becomes crucial. Husband and wife are identical. Whether at home or outside, in front of others and behind others. The status is equal. The construction of a small home requires the joint efforts of everyone. So there is no need to worry about who pays more and who gets less. Love Wujiwu, love him (her) and accept his (her) family and friends in the same way. Many conflicts between husband and wife are also caused by trivial matters with his (her) family and friends. Whether you are a husband or a wife, don¡¯t worry about how much you have contributed to the family. You must have this mentality. That is what I am proud of. I am the first to give. The reason is, firstly, I have worked hard for my lover and family first, and won the eternal trust and satisfaction of my lover. However, this is also the result of my nature. Secondly, being righteous means giving ten times in return. Therefore, gratitude is often much greater than giving. This is the case between husband and wife. Third, husband and wife should share blessings and share hardships. If you have a bad attitude towards your lover when your lover is in difficulty, you may end up retaliating with your lover, and you will not be able to share the hardships. If you want to share the blessings, it may not be as easy as imagined. "Married couples who work hard for their families and loved ones will gain unlimited happiness and joy. Why not do it?" The advent of what love is? How much love in this world can last forever, and how much love can last forever? Therefore, the one you marry may not be the one you love most, and you may not be able to get the one you love most in this life. How many lovers cannot come into each other's life and can only meet in the next life. So you must remember to cherish the people who love you deeply and make good use of every ordinary day. When married life becomes dull, the relationship between husband and wife may develop into that of brother and sister or friends. The most important thing for you at this time is to be able to endure loneliness and withstand temptation. It is best not to have extramarital affairs. Cheating and extramarital affairs are like meteors streaking across the night sky. What you have is beauty in an instant and cannot last forever. A restructured marriage is not necessarily better than the original one! Remember: after unhappy things have passed, you must learn to forget and let them become the past forever. It is inevitable that there will be bumps and bruises between husband and wife. When conflicts arise again, they must not bring up the past, otherwise it will trigger a more intense war. There is no superiority or inferiority between husband and wife, and there is no priority in giving and receiving, so why should your family members worry about having more or less? Love is about conditions, but not between husband and wife; husband and wife are an unconditional family love that centers on each other and has no regrets. "Suffering a loss is a blessing. Dare to show weakness, dare to give, not be afraid of being wronged, understand each other, and love each other. This is the true meaning of love between husband and wife. Husband and wife need to care, care and be considerate! More communication, more tolerance, and more understanding. Let¡¯s hold your hand and grow old together forever! (To be continued) ps: Note: Thank you to Yun Zhihua and Xie Zhixiu for their generous rewards and support, thank you!