When Chen Zhiyuan talked about the interesting things that happened to Dou Jian during training, Dou Ya, the younger sister who wanted to know more about her brother, couldn't help but burst into tears. Seeing this scene, Chen Zhiyuan also smiled knowingly. The current conversation was progressing quite well. He Continuing to talk, Dou Ya continued to listen, and unknowingly he talked for more than an hour. During this more than an hour, the thought of death in Dou Ya's heart disappeared, because Chen Zhiyuan unknowingly helped Dou Jian during the conversation. Instill the concept of never giving up. Of course, this spirit of never giving up appears in Dou Jian¡¯s deeds!
As the elder brother, Dou Jian's image of never giving up, being strong and brave has been persevered in Dou Ya's heart. It can be said that his elder brother is now Dou Ya's idol. This is the concept that Chen Zhiyuan unknowingly instilled in Dou Ya, because in this At that time, Chen Zhiyuan could confirm with 90% certainty that Dou Ya's disease was - kleptomania. This is a very common psychological disease, but most people are like Dou Ya until they are caught. They will go to the hospital for treatment, and some people don¡¯t want to go even if they are arrested several times!
Because patients with kleptomania have the same self-esteem as normal people. They do not think that they are thieves, but their actions are those of thieves. They use this kind of stealing to give themselves a great sense of satisfaction. But when he was caught, the satisfaction disappeared and was replaced by a strong sense of shame!
Generally, such patients are quite fragile mentally after being caught. Many people will have suicidal thoughts. Just like Dou Ya, they feel that they have committed theft, which violates their moral values. If they are caught, When they arrive, they are even more ashamed. In order to avoid this sense of shame, many people will engage in extreme behavior. The most serious one is suicide!
When a good psychiatrist faces such patients, he does not think about treating them first. But first let strong thoughts arise in their hearts, and use this thought to replace those extreme suicidal thoughts. Only in this way can they better treat their kleptomania. Chen Zhiyuan has always been a good doctor, both in surgery and in his heart, so he Naturally, he would not make the mistake of treating Dou Ya immediately. Patients do not have a strong will to live, and they will easily have suicidal thoughts during the treatment process, because during the treatment process, they will repeatedly watch scenes of themselves being caught stealing, which is a great mental stimulation for the patients. , it is very likely that they will have extreme thoughts of committing suicide!
Therefore, Chen Zhiyuan wants to use Dou Jian as an example to instill in Dou Ya the idea of ??being strong and never giving up. When this idea is strong enough, he will continue to treat Dou Ya. Generally, the process of establishing a strong idea in the patient's mind takes at least three days for an ordinary psychiatrist, but that is an ordinary doctor, and Chen Zhiyuan is sure that within a few days Let Dou Ya build a strong belief within a few hours, otherwise he will not be able to handle the intermediate medical skills he has mastered!
Chen Zhiyuan's narration continued, and he unknowingly talked about Dou Jian's sobriety in saving people at the last moment of his life. Although Chen Zhiyuan did not see it at the time, he heard other people tell him many times, so what he told was as if he was on the spot. Dou Jian's behavior at that time was tragic and respectable. When Chen Zhiyuan When Dou Jian was buried in the ruins, Dou Ya couldn't help crying again. At this time, she really missed her brother and wanted him to hug her. The last time her brother hugged her was when Dou Ya was very young. She really missed that strange and warm embrace!
Chen Zhiyuan saw Dou Ya crying so sadly that he couldn't help but stand up and hold Dou Ya gently in his arms. He stretched out his hand and patted Dou Ya's back gently, and at the same time said: "Cry, it will be fine as long as you cry. If you feel sad, cry it out!" Chen Zhiyuan's words may seem normal to ordinary people, but if you listen to him say it in person. Careful people will find that Chen Zhiyuan's tone is very different. This sentence seems to have a lot of psychological implications, and the rhythm is also different from when he normally says this sentence. In fact, this is a hypnotic technique, but Chen Daguan is I used to be always busy with surgeries. Never used it on anyone, Dou Ya is Chen Zhiyuan's first patient with mental illness!
Hearing Chen Zhiyuan's magical words, Dou Ya suddenly thought that Chen Zhiyuan was her brother Dou Jian. She couldn't help crying loudly, and at the same time kept murmuring: "Brother, I miss you, I really miss you." you!"
Dou Guoqing and his wife heard their daughter crying in the living room and were very worried. They wanted to go in and take a look, but were stopped by Mi Mengtong. She realized that Chen Zhiyuan was asking Dou Ya about stealing things. Anyone who is caught doing something like this will feel very sad and disgust themselves at the same time. At this time, they don¡¯t want more people to know. People have a sense of shame, even those who are habitual thieves, and even those who are habitual thieves have it. Not to mention the little girl Dou Ya, so Mi Mengtong didn't want more people to be present when Dou Ya told her about stealing things, not even Dou Ya's parents, the more relatives who stole things. The more people don't want to say it, this is human nature, and Mi Mengtong naturally knows it!
? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ??What she didn't expect was that Dou Ya would cry because she missed her brother. The content of Chen Zhiyuan's conversation with her was far from being enough for Dou Ya to say in person that she had stolen something!
Dou Ya's crying voice became smaller and smaller. Chen Zhiyuan knew that the heat was almost over, so he gently pushed Dou Ya away and let her sit on the bed. He looked around and found a box of tissues next to the computer desk. He gently took it out and put it on the bed. Dou Ya's hand then gently stroked Dou Ya's hair, and at the same time said: "Tell me, why do you want to get that mobile phone? I don't believe you will steal anything!"
Chen Zhiyuan said this very skillfully. He did not use the word "steal", but the word "take". In the end, he also said that he did not believe that Dou Ya would be a thief. This is still a psychological thing. First of all, the doctor himself You must not really treat the patient as a thief, you can only treat him as a patient, and you must use words to convince the patient that he is not a thief. Only in this way can Dou Ya's defenses be completely opened!
Facing Chen Zhiyuan's inner hint, Dou Ya finally opened her mouth. At this time, she felt that Chen Zhiyuan seemed to be his brother. She had something to hide from her brother, and her habit of stealing things had been pressing in her heart for too long. It's time. I used to be shy to tell people, fearing that they would think of me as a thief if I told them, but today everyone knows about her things, and Chen Zhiyuan doesn't believe that she is a thief, so Dou Ya wants to hide herself She had been holding back her secret for so many years!
"I don't want to steal anything, but I just can't control my hands. If I don't steal something without being discovered, I will be quite satisfied, even happy!" Dou Ya said As soon as she said these words, she felt that the huge stone that had been weighing on her heart for many years was gone, which made her feel more relaxed than ever before!
After hearing this, Chen Zhiyuan was able to confirm that Dou Ya was indeed suffering from a mental illness such as kleptomania. He did not show any expression on his face, but said relaxedly: "Did you throw away those things you brought before? , or collected it?"
Dou Ya nodded, and then said with some embarrassment: "I put them all in a box under the bed. I really didn't mean to steal things, but I feel very comfortable every time I steal something. So comfortable!¡±
Patients with psychological diseases such as voyeurism steal things to satisfy their inner needs. Whenever they steal something without being discovered, they will get an unprecedented sense of inner satisfaction, and the stolen things are not just thrown away. Even if they collect them, they steal things regardless of high or low status. Even if they steal a candy bar worth a few cents, they will still feel a great sense of satisfaction in their hearts. In other words, they want to enjoy the excitement of stealing things. In this way There¡¯s nothing wrong with that!
When Chen Zhiyuan heard this, he did not ask Dou Ya to take out those things. He just said: "Dou Ya, this is not stealing, it is just a mental illness. Do you believe me? I can cure you!" At this time, the psychiatrist followed We cannot say that the patient is a thief, otherwise it will cause the patient to have a huge rebellious mentality, and the subsequent treatment will not be able to continue. We must, like Chen Zhiyuan, make the patient have confidence in himself and make him sincerely want to cure himself. Good bug!
Hearing these words, Dou Ya's face once again showed a look of hope. She is also a normal person. Naturally, she knows that stealing is shameful. She has wanted to change it many times, but every time she can't help it, she just can't control it. She couldn't hold her own hands, and she didn't realize that her problem was a mental illness!
Dou Ya's situation is the same as that of most Chinese people. Since the popularity of psychological knowledge in China is much lower than that of developed countries like Europe and America, many people do not think that they will have any psychological diseases. They just feel These are problems. Although they are not good, I have never thought about seeing a psychiatrist!
"Really? Dou Ya raised her head and looked at Chen Zhiyuan with a hopeful look on her face. She really wanted to get rid of this very bad problem of hers!
"Of course it's true. You have a good rest today. I'll come to see you tomorrow and tell your parents that you are not a thief. You just have a mental illness. It is not shameful to be sick, but it must be treated. Do you understand? "Chen Zhiyuan's words still gave Dou Ya confidence, making her firmly believe that she was not a thief, but just sick. This is also extremely important for subsequent treatment!
"Well!" Dou Ya stopped talking after saying this, but she was quite uneasy in her heart. It can be described as "excited" because Chen Zhiyuan told her that she was not a thief! (To be continued. If you like this work, you are welcome to come to Qidian to vote for recommendations and monthly votes. Your support is my biggest motivation. Mobile phone users please go to m. to read.)