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Chapter 23 Talking About Marriage (2)

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    Along the way, my heart seemed very heavy, and I didn't know how to talk to my family when I got back.

    Sit in the car for almost two hours, although it is not a very long distance, but in my world, it is quite long-lasting.

    Back in Beishi, Yang Jian and I got off the car in Xicheng, because the car didn't pass by my house, and it was relatively close to his house, so we went to his place to have a light meal first, and then asked him to drive me back  .

    It was about ten o'clock in the evening before I returned home.  As soon as I entered the door, my heavy heart suddenly turned into excitement. I haven¡¯t seen my parents for a long time, and seeing their smiling faces made me very relieved. Their appearance has not changed much.  Thanks to the hard work of my sisters.

    As soon as I stepped into the door, they were chattering, asking me if I had eaten?  How about up there?  Tired of work?  Hard work or something like that.  However, I don't think they are annoying, because this is what every parent has. As a son, I am sorry for them if I have not fulfilled my filial piety. If I can't even listen to their love for me  , then I am not a human being.

    Isn't there a poem called "Wandering Zi Yin"?  It reads: the thread in the hands of the loving mother, and the clothes on the wanderer's body, which are tightly stitched before leaving, for fear of returning later.  We, as children, should understand the blessings of the mother who walks thousands of miles here.

    After chatting with my parents, I took a shower and rested.

    It wasn't until the next night that I found a chance to talk to them about getting married.  At first, my parents agreed and didn't mean to refuse, because this is every parent's wish, but when I mentioned Li Feng's age, their expressions changed.

    I saw my dad sighed, and said to me with a dull face: "I don't agree with you being together not because she is older than you, but because the two of you have different lives. Even if you are reluctantly together, you will get along in the future  Difficult." Although he said this, but I don't agree with this statement, why do you think so if you haven't lived together?  If two people know how to respect each other, accommodate each other, and tolerate each other, then what can't be overcome?

    Although I don't agree with my father's statement, it's just a discussion after all, and I don't really want to do it, so I rationally explained: "Dad, I don't understand if you don't have a life this year.  I'm not an expert either. Let's look at this matter with an objective attitude, shall we? Don't be addicted to superstition. This is like a foreigner. They don't care about your fate. As long as two people really love each other, they still get married, and  Live well too. You say no!"

    Dad is a very reasonable person, but he is a bit stubborn about this matter, after all, his generation is still quite superstitious.  "There is some truth in what you say, but you can't ignore our 5,000-year-old Chinese culture. According to the convention, this is indeed a bit out of order, but according to the tradition, I think it's better to be cautious.  Judging from the current situation, you are only 21 years old, you have never experienced many things, and you have not been in contact with her for a long time. Do you really understand her? This is negative, so there is something  It's not as simple as you might think."

    "I know that I am still very young, and I haven't spent a long time with her, and I don't know her completely, but after my observation, I think she has a pretty good personality. Besides, I didn't say that now  Let¡¯s get married! At least we need to discuss it with our two families before making a decision!¡±

    "I understand this, and I also understand your feelings, because I was young, and I know that two people who love each other will make people blind and unable to see some real problems. Let me ask you, have you thought about other things?  What? What if her family plans to let you get married this year? Then do you have money for banquets and weddings? I think you can¡¯t even come up with gift money! Could it be that you still think about old age?  Dad left a lot of money for you? Although I really want to, but you also know that now I have just offered a house, how can I still have money to handle the marriage? Even if I don¡¯t talk about it, I can borrow money from others.  You are married, but have you thought about your future life? If you have a child, are you able to raise it? Do you know how much it costs to raise a child? You should think about these issues carefully, and don¡¯t draw conclusions blindly, etc.  You are a little older and have enough preparations, let's talk about marriage."

    "I know, I have thought about all this, and I also understand that it is not easy for you to raise us, but some things cannot wait. If one day she marries someone else, then I will lose her forever  Do you understand it?"

    "If she marries someone else, it proves that she doesn't love you. Is it still necessary to be with her? Yu, I think you are really dazzled by love. I hope you can take care of this matter.  think about it."

    "I've thought about, the problem is, you have to think about it from the perspective of others!  She is not young anymore, and people are not sure that your son will definitely marry her. If you say, someday I don't want her, then she has lost her youth in vain, and maybe she missed marrying those who are also married.  A chance for someone who loves her.  Therefore, it is normal for her to marry someone else now.  "

    "I understand this, but the time you have known each other is too short, I am afraid you will regret it later, do you understand?"

    "I won't regret it. As long as two people know how to be humble, tolerant, and understand each other then there will be no problems. Besides, people will grow old. As long as they don't look ugly and have a beautiful heart, they will be happy in the future."  It's not all the same, I believe I won't dislike her."

    "Xiao Yu, even if you understand these principles, it doesn't mean that others understand too, do you understand?"

    "I know this, even if she doesn't understand, why don't I just bear it?"

    "Hey, I'm not saying you can't do it, I'm afraid that when you have a child, you won't be in a hurry to regret it."

    "Okay, let's not mention these things for now, what if her family agrees to get married two years later? Will you agree to our marriage?"

    "Won't."

    "Why?"

    "Your fates do not match, I will not agree to that."

    "Look! After all, you are not superstitious."

    "It's not a question of whether I am superstitious or not. Do you know that two years can change a lot of things? What if you don't like her after two years? Then you are not wasting her youth, then you are hurting her, I  I just don't want you to waste your time here."

    To be honest, I don't understand why I insist on it so much. I hope my parents will agree to something that doesn't matter. Is it because of my stubborn temper?  Or do I really want to be able to marry her?  I don't understand, I really don't understand

    "Mom, do you think so too?" I turned to my mother and asked.

    "Well, I think your dad is right. Xiao Yu, you should listen to your dad." Mother persuaded.

    "Okay, then let me ask you one last question. What if I want to marry her so capriciously? Will you agree? Or, even if I agree, will you not recognize this daughter-in-law?" (Remember the website URL: www  .hlnovel.com
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