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Chapter 165 Looking for Goodwill (2 more)

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    Guan Rongxin's story was relayed by Ji Youqing. During the whole process, the girl kept her head down, did not look at her father and mother, and was too quiet.

    And her parents, hearing what their daughter had experienced for the first time, were shocked at the beginning and evolved into anger later.

    Even, Guan Fu stood up directly, as if he was about to rush out to 'kill someone'.

    Tang Yu stopped him in time to calm him down.

    Guan Rongxin's mother held her daughter in distress and cried loudly. Perhaps they never thought that the daughter who grew up under their noses had endured all this alone.

    "As parents, you didn't realize it during your daughter's darkest moment. This is dereliction of duty." After the narration was finished, Ji Youqing said slowly.

    In a word, Guan's father and mother's face was full of guilt and distress.

    This point, they are really irrefutable.

    No matter how busy they are at work, if they fail to notice the abnormality of their children, it is their dereliction of duty.

    Even, they are a little scared now.

    It's not that they haven't heard of bullying.  What those bullied children have experienced, even the final outcome, they have more or less seen from the news and TV.

    What if at that time, when they were completely unaware, their daughter did not resist all this and chose an extreme path, what would they do?

    As soon as this thought came up, Guan's mother's face turned pale, and Guan's father's smoking hand trembled slightly.

    "Silly boy, why didn't you tell your parents?" Mother Guan hugged Guan Rongxin tightly, and Guan Rongxin was in her arms, she just bit her lower lip and wept silently.

    Ji Youqing looked at her, Guan Rongxin couldn't answer her mother's question, but she could answer for the girl.

    "What do you want her to say?" The temperature in Ji Youqing's voice dropped a little, and even Tang Yu looked sideways.

    Guan's father and mother were also stunned, and looked at her at the same time.

    Under everyone's gaze, Ji Youqing slowly said: "In Rong Xin's impression, you are very busy. So, she is too embarrassed to bother you. Behind the fact that you think her daughter is sensible, she is forcing herself to grow up in exchange for it.  Three years in junior high school, she boarded for three years, even if you go home during the holidays, you are still busy. Even parents and children, when the relationship is estranged, some things will not be said. In order not to cause trouble for you, she chose to go by herself  Deal with everything. So, when everything started to get out of hand, she still chose to solve it by herself. It¡¯s not that she doesn¡¯t want to talk to you, but she doesn¡¯t know how to say it anymore.  How to speak."

    In the box, the room was quiet.

    Guan's father and mother were left speechless by Ji Youqing's words, and Guan Rongxin finally had a channel to vent in front of her parents, and she could freely express her grievance and depression with tears.

    "Since she was young, she has been without your company. You think that good material conditions and good education represent your concern for your child. However, you never thought that what your child wants most is actually  The company that costs the least money." Ji Youqing finished in one breath.

    Her cold eyes swept across the guilty faces of the parents, and continued: "However, our purpose today is not to criticize, but to solve Rongxin's problem."

    "What's wrong with my daughter? She doesn't want to go to class. Is it because of shadows? Does she have depression?" Guan's father suddenly became nervous, and the finger holding the cigarette was almost burned by the last cigarette butt.

    Ji Youqing said: "I can only say that Rong Xin didn't want to go to school, and she was repelled both psychologically and physically. This is the sequelae of that incident, even though she has already left that school and no longer associates with her former classmates  , but the hurt has stayed in her heart forever. She doesn't trust this world very much now, and feels that malice is everywhere, and her emotions are in a negative state. But, one thing is better, even if she is hurt by malice,  The heart is also kind, and has not been assimilated."

    "Mr. Ji, what should we do?" Mother Guan asked eagerly.

    Ji Youqing looked at her firmly, or at the family of three in front of her, and said to the parents: "Help her, find kindness."

    In the face of school bullying, what should parents do?

    Especially in a situation like Guan Rongxin's, which is already a fait accompli, how can parents help her?

    Ji Youqing thought a lot before coming here, and finally summed up, nothing more than these points.

    First of all, parents must be informed, and believe in her, and give her strength to face the dark moment.

    Secondly, don't use the method of killing the fish and breaking the net as soon as you come up.??Go and negotiate with the bullies.  What we have to do is to help children establish interpersonal relationships, rather than becoming "someone who can't be provoked" in the eyes of classmates.

    Once again, it is communication.  Not only communicate with your own children, but also communicate with students, schools, even judicial communication, and the parents of the other party. You must firmly and comprehensively resist malicious intentions and clarify the harm caused by acts of "isolation" and "defamation".

    Finally, it is necessary to help the child find kindness, and let her believe that when the world is ugly, tell her that there is kindness in the world, and the goodness outweighs the evil

    This meal didn't end until nine o'clock in the evening.

    Guan Rongxin's family left first. Before leaving, Guan's father and mother bowed deeply to Ji Youqing to express their gratitude.

    "Are you happy?" Tang Yu couldn't help turning his head to look at the woman walking beside him on the sidewalk shrouded in night lights.

    Ji Youqing looked back at him, "Do I have any?"

    "Yes, you have been laughing." Tang Yu said with certainty.

    Is she smiling?

    Ji Youqing was stunned, and subconsciously raised her hand to touch her cheek.

    Tang Yu stared at her, and said in a low and gentle voice: "Since you left, I feel that you are very relaxed and happy. Is it because you helped Rong Xin?"

    "Perhaps." Ji Youqing put down his hands and cast his gaze into the distance.

    Tang Yu stopped talking, but Ji Youqing could still feel his gaze, which was always on her.

    Arriving at the bus stop, Tang Yu took the initiative to say: "It's too late, we happened to be going together."

    Ji Youqing looked back and asked in surprise, "You still live there?" She thought that after Tang Yu stopped working in the hospital, she would naturally move out of the community.

    Tang Yu nodded with a smile, "After all, I paid the rent, wouldn't it be a loss if I couldn't stay?"

    Is this really the reason?

    Ji Youqing wisely didn't go any further, so as not to ask questions that would overwhelm her.

    The bus stopped at the platform. At this time, there were not many people on the bus. After the two got on the bus, they walked to the back row and took their seats.

    Ji Youqing sat in a seat by the window, and looked out of the window as soon as she sat down.

    Tang Yu kept looking at her intently, with a smile on his lips.  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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