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Chapter 30 The Beginning of Therapy

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    It is the first time to be a parent. In many cases, the experience of being a parent comes from the education you have received.

    Was Wen Xiuxiu's mother wrong?

    Or is the previous education method wrong?

    When Wen Xiuxiu's mother excitedly defended herself, Ji Youqing's mind was in a trance for a moment.

    "What are you doing so loudly? The facts are already in front of you. You still don't believe it. Do you want to watch your daughter die again?" Chen Er snapped.

    At the same time, it also brought back Ji Youqing's thoughts.

    She calmed down the thoughts that were surging in her mind, and said to Wen Mu: "Everyone has different experiences, and everyone's ability to bear the same language is also different. Before that incident, I believe that your education method is not much different from today's, but why?  Before that, this way of education had little impact on Wen Xiuxiu? But after that incident, why did it have such a serious impact?"

    The middle-aged woman calmed down. In Ji Youqing's voice, her face became paler and paler.

    "Because, that incident was a wound on her heart. She didn't receive timely treatment, so she could only let the wound heal on its own, but it was full of carrion. And in your subsequent education, in order to prevent her from making mistakes, you will often  Keep repeating this incident, you think you are reminding her not to repeat the same mistakes, but in fact this is repeatedly poking her wound with a knife. You are the person she trusts the most and her blood relatives, you may not be able to imagine  , How much weight will your words have in her heart. Instead of giving her the comfort she longs for, you have told her many times that all this is her fault, how could she not collapse? "

    After Ji Youqing finished speaking this long paragraph, she fell silent, leaving Wenmu to think on her own.

    Chen Er's eyes moved back and forth on the faces of the two of them, and took the opportunity to say: "Ms. Ji is a psychology teacher. Do you know why the country pays so much attention to the psychological problems of young people now? Why is there a post of psychology teacher in the school?  It just means that this is necessary. Today we are not here to blame you, but to help Wen Xiuxiu. As her mother, don¡¯t you want her to come out of the shadows and grow up healthily like other children?  You should have heard the words, the current health is not only physical health, but also mental health."

    Wen Xiuxiu's mother, after a long silence, said in a low voice: "Is Xiuer's suicide really related to me?"

    Chen Er looked at Ji Youqing.

    Ji Youqing breathed out silently, and her voice became softer, "You just didn't know that she would do this, and you didn't realize it. Fortunately, there is still time for everything."

    Chen Er raised his eyebrows, seemingly surprised by Ji Youqing's answer.

    Wen Xiuxiu's mother, however, was like a person walking in the desert seeing water, looking at Ji Youqing with hope in her eyes, "Teacher, what do you say to help Xiu."

    When she said this, Ji Youqing saw the emotion of trust in her eyes.

    Today's trip has reached this point, and Ji Youqing is really relieved.  In psychotherapy, the relationship between the counselor, the patient and the parents is indispensable.

    Especially the parents, are directly related to the recovery status and progress of the treated person.

    If Wen Xiuxiu's mother can fully cooperate, Ji Youqing will have great confidence in solving Wen Xiuxiu's psychological problems.

    "I hope, first of all, you don't provoke her with words. You can mention that matter, but you have to tell her accurately that it's not her fault, it has nothing to do with her, it's the man's fault. What you said before  Those words, you are wrong. She is not wrong. She can wear beautiful skirts and dress up like girls of the same age. She can also have normal contact with the opposite sex. However, psychotherapy is a slow process. In this process, specific  How to do each step, I will tell you slowly"

    A long time had passed since Wen Xiuxiu's house left.

    Generally speaking, this conversation went smoothly.  Wen Xiuxiu's mother didn't go back to work in a hurry, but asked for leave. According to Ji Youqing's instructions, she prepared Wen Xiuxiu's favorite food and went to the hospital to accompany her.

    It's just that this time's company is the beginning of treatment.  It is no longer the company that makes Wen Xiuxiu feel afraid, but the mother's care she looks forward to.

    Ji Youqing also made an agreement with Wen's mother to return to school as soon as possible after Wen Xiuxiu's wound healed and she could be discharged from the hospital.  Follow-up psychological counseling and treatment issues will be tried to be resolved in the school's psychological counseling room.

    "Mr. Ji, when do you think Wen Xiuxiu will recover from her psychological trauma?" Officer Chen asked proactively after leaving the area where fish and dragons were mixed.

    theFor the answer to this question, Ji Youqing was unable to give an accurate figure, and could only say: "All of this depends on Wen Xiuxiu herself. The help we and our parents give are all external."

    Chen Er was silent for a while, and looked at Ji Youqing with heavy eyes, "Then will she be okay?"

    "The chances are high." This time, Ji Youqing answered confidently.

    At this point, Chen Er did not continue this topic.

    After walking for a while, at the fork in the road, facing two completely different directions, Chen Er looked sideways at Ji Youqing, "Can Teacher Ji promise me something?"

    Ji Youqing thought about it for a while, "Tell me about it."

    Chen Er's eyes lowered slightly, "Whether Wen Xiuxiu is getting better or not, please let me know."

    "Okay." Ji Youqing smiled.

    "Then, I'm going this way back to the institute." Chen Er raised his eyebrows and looked at the road behind him.

    Ji Youqing nodded with a smile, and said in her tone, "Then I'll go back to school this way." What she saw was another way.

    Chen Er chuckled, and stretched out his hand in front of Ji Youqing.  "Let's get to know each other again. My name is Chen Er. Nice to meet you, Teacher Ji Youqing."

    Ji Youqing stared at the outstretched hand for two seconds, the smile on the corner of his mouth widened, and he stretched out his own hand to hold it.  "I'm Ji Youqing, nice to meet you too, Officer Chen."

    The matter of Wen Xiuxiu has happened for a few days.  Everything became clear.

    However, Wen Xiuxiu's treatment has just begun.

    In the office of the psychology teacher in the high school of Beiyang No. 1 Middle School, Ji Youqing created a file for Wen Xiuxiu on the computer.  When the get out of class bell rang, she also received a text message from her roommate on her mobile phone.

    "Have you found the subletter?" After reading the message from his roommate, Ji Youqing whispered while holding the phone.

    The message was sent by a shared roommate, telling her that the room has been rented out and that the other party will move in at night, so now the roommate is packing up and preparing to move out.

    In addition, it is to tell Ji Youqing that everything is still as agreed before, and the new roommates will continue to implement their previously agreed agreement.

    Therefore, for Ji Youqing, except for changing a roommate, everything else remains the same.  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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